James Blandings
Literotica Guru
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- Feb 23, 2002
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I have no intention of being argumentative or giving anyone a hard time, I am posting this FYI only.
Some submissives consider the term "subbie" to be derogatory, as it implies , in their opinion, childishness or a lack of seriousness. Calling someone who is not your submissive a "subbie" is, to them, similar to calling a vanilla woman you encounter "honey" or "sweetheart".In addition, it is usually used to mean female subs, and seldom male subs, and is therefore exclusionary to many people in the BDSM scene.
I am not saying dont use it, Im just giving a heads up that some people dont care for it.
Some submissives consider the term "subbie" to be derogatory, as it implies , in their opinion, childishness or a lack of seriousness. Calling someone who is not your submissive a "subbie" is, to them, similar to calling a vanilla woman you encounter "honey" or "sweetheart".In addition, it is usually used to mean female subs, and seldom male subs, and is therefore exclusionary to many people in the BDSM scene.
I am not saying dont use it, Im just giving a heads up that some people dont care for it.