So the other night a couple of friends and me went out and had some drinks. After several drinks the subject of sex came up and we had kind of a fun debate that I am curious what people think of. Now I am just saying that in the end labels don't matter as long as the person as happy but it's an interesting conversation in my opinion.
So one of our friends is an open lesbian as she calls herself. She dated men early on but never found much interest there and for the longest time has been quite happy dating women and having sex with them. She has no interest in being with men anymore.
On the sexual side though she loves to have a strap-on used on her and gets off to penetration. She openly enjoys anal sex, vaginal sex, and even occasionally performing oral while another woman is wearing a strap-on.
So the debate is that our friend calls herself a lesbian because she has no desire to be with a man. Our other friend says that she is actually bisexual because she enjoys sexual practices that simulate a straight sexual relationship.
Like I said in the end labels don't really matter and all people enjoy what all people enjoy and as long as they're happy and no one is getting hurt who cares. Do you think though that because of her sexual likes she falls more under a bisexual or do you think because she wants a woman as the sexual partner she's a lesbian no matter what goes on in the bedroom?
So one of our friends is an open lesbian as she calls herself. She dated men early on but never found much interest there and for the longest time has been quite happy dating women and having sex with them. She has no interest in being with men anymore.
On the sexual side though she loves to have a strap-on used on her and gets off to penetration. She openly enjoys anal sex, vaginal sex, and even occasionally performing oral while another woman is wearing a strap-on.
So the debate is that our friend calls herself a lesbian because she has no desire to be with a man. Our other friend says that she is actually bisexual because she enjoys sexual practices that simulate a straight sexual relationship.
Like I said in the end labels don't really matter and all people enjoy what all people enjoy and as long as they're happy and no one is getting hurt who cares. Do you think though that because of her sexual likes she falls more under a bisexual or do you think because she wants a woman as the sexual partner she's a lesbian no matter what goes on in the bedroom?