eroticspank
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throbbin bob said:i want to have my girlfriend try this with me, but no idea how to bring up the subject... she may jump at the chance, but then again.... she may be turned off - not brave enough to take a head first leap, any suggestions how to "dip the toes in the water" and "plant the seed" without coming right out and saying it? ie: any way to put a feeler out and see if she bites, without losing face if she balks? Any ladies care to jump in, i'm all ears
If you already talk about your fantasies you are half way there I believe. Then maybe you could read a FORUM book together and talk about what turns you on in each scene. (Grabbing a penthouse FORUM from your stash under the bed is not what I mean AND some women might be offended by that magazine.) So together you could shop and find a "fantasies for couples book" at your local book store or a tasteful local sex store. Make sure you pick a book that has strapon play in it. (As far as books go you can usually find a book that has strapon play in it that is acceptable to her----"Sweet Life 1 and 2" are two good books I suggest.)
If you haven't started talking fantasies....then maybe you should but first listen to her and ask her what she likes....then naturally she will ask you.
My two cents..
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