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lillianaZ
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Thank you, EW. I do recall explaining why I was locked in my bedroom when he was there visiting the kids during our separation and a few things, just not in depth. No one wants to be a burden, and I tried to always be upbeat, fun, and flirty in threads... and cautious about my life.
I know I get protective of E. But, I get that way over all my friends. I will take more of people being bad to me than people being bad to my friends. That's when the bat comes out and I want to use it.
Maybe this isn't related, but I know when he's having a bad day, just talking to him about it helps him feel better. Not that I have any magic cure, but it helps to put things in perspective. Like he's done for me this afternoon with my freezer fiasco, losing everything, and THE STENCH in days of 112°+ .
The beauty of the relationship is being able to be there for each other. That's why I put 69 in my name. Relationships are giving and taking, sometimes one gives more and carries the other through...and, then, it's their turn to lean on the other.
I love being there for my Daddy. It's not simply because I'm submissive or little, but it is a big part of who I am.
I will add, yesterday became hard for me in this thread. It flipped my world again. I truly appreciate TheFirmHand stepping in to turn things for me. Not to mention bears and cake, right? I'm not supposed to say he's a sweetheart, he will glare at me through the screen. Shhhh, don't say anything, 'kay?
I would be remiss if I didn't mention Puck. I knew him before and LOVED his stories/posts. That hasn't changed at all. I hope you're feeling better today, Puck.
Once again, ladies and gents, you are all some of my favorite people. Love ya, ~bfg~
bfg,
I want you to know that I do apologise for misunderstanding the question and my subsequent comments. I completely misunderstood what was being discussed. I had no business saying anything anyway since I've never been in a real life D/s or DD/lg relationship. My past real life relationships were straight up abusive and lacked any element of D/s or DD/lg and my husband is a platonic friend. I am sorry for inadvertently bringing up unpleasant memories for you and Ange (and probably others.) I'm glad that both of you had your friends to help you through it. You, and all the other real littles, should be able to feel safe in this thread and it should never be an unhappy space. I'm glad that FirmHand, Puck and EW stepped in to turn things right.
Take care, I do think you are all lovely people and I'm glad you have such wonderful support.