Sexless Marriages

[cuck72]

I just deal with the lack of sex through my submissive cuckold thoughts. My wife has cheated in the past, but years ago. So, now I can still get off with those cuckold thoughts, excepting being denied sex because she's cuckolding me again, thinking with a much young guy with a big cock. I am only 4" and thin. So, for me being in a sexless marriage makes me just feel like her caged pathetic sissy bitch cuckold husband. It's so exciting to imagine my mature sexy wife with a younger REAL MAN satisfying her sexual needs. It works with me still enjoying sex with myself. I also have gotten into sissy boi gay porn without the sex from my wife. We had a good run for years, now I live with my sissy gay boi or cleanup cuckold fantasies.

 

[Anchor10]

If you need a little help and fun, then PM me.

A little help sounds like a lot of fun.

 

[scorp121]

Does it count if you’re left unsatisfied a lot after sex?

You should be satisfied everytime.

 

[Britva415]

Does it count if you’re left unsatisfied a lot after sex?

I don't think that counts as "sexless," but it's still bad.

 

[Friedfred]

Anyone else with this problem?
I have a high sex drive and the wife doesn't.
Looking for others with this problem, and possibly helping fill our needs.

Been over twenty years for me. I'm 68

 

[Roxxm_e]

Does it count if you’re left unsatisfied a lot after sex?

It must be more frustrating I think

 

[NormalMarriedWhiteGuy]

A wise older guy told me this years ago before I got married: Good sex will never save a bad marriage or relationship. But bad sex or no sex will undo a good one.

 

[whiskeycowgirl23]

A wise older guy told me this years ago before I got married: Good sex will never save a bad marriage or relationship. But bad sex or no sex will undo a good one.

So absolutely true.

 

[hotjb69]

I guess I can join this club. It's been sexless for years now. I bring it up, like groundhog day - about once or twice a year. Tears ensue. and then nothing. This past Valentine days - made a nice dinner, wine, card... all the usual. She did nothing.

So I'm looking for friends with benefits out there. I absolutely don't consider it cheating because - she's not even in the game, so how can it be cheating???
I'm in Los Angeles and it'd be great to connect with someone...female, male... whatever.

 

[Cob083]

I was in a sexless marriage up until my divorce a few years ago. Now I'm just playing the field.

 

[LustyScribe]

I guess I can join this club. It's been sexless for years now. I bring it up, like groundhog day - about once or twice a year. Tears ensue. and then nothing. This past Valentine days - made a nice dinner, wine, card... all the usual. She did nothing.

So I'm looking for friends with benefits out there. I absolutely don't consider it cheating because - she's not even in the game, so how can it be cheating???
I'm in Los Angeles and it'd be great to connect with someone...female, male... whatever.

Exactly. I consider myself abandoned.

 

[shizzz]

I was in a sexless marriage up until my divorce a few years ago. Now I'm just playing the field.

How is it out there? Biggest fear of pulling the divorce is ending up like my parents did. One died alone. The other is on his 3rd wife and still miserable

 

[overwatcher]

How is it out there? Biggest fear of pulling the divorce is ending up like my parents did. One died alone. The other is on his 3rd wife and still miserable

You know what they went through after divorce. I'd hazard a guess you don't want to go there, make that the goal, not the problem. Even divorce can be amicable for both if there's love left. And it's good for the soul. Good luck.

 

[Cob083]

How is it out there? Biggest fear of pulling the divorce is ending up like my parents did. One died alone. The other is on his 3rd wife and still miserable

It's going really well actually. For everyone it's different for sure. I feel something casual is far more ideal for me personally. I don't see myself marrying again.

 

[Alancaster78]

Checking in with all the people with whom this thread reasonates. Sexless and lonely. How has your March started?

Anyone making meaningful connections on Lit?

With Spring coming soon, hope springs forth.

Hang in there peeps!

 

[IwantU99]

Today's felt pretty shit. Long day at work and the usual absence of any affection, romance etc. when I got home.
Sat down on the sofa and could hear my neighbours fucking loudly through the walls. Valentines treat. Just made me feel sad.

I think you just need a big hug, and a kiss.

 

[shizzz]

Checking in with all the people with whom this thread reasonates. Sexless and lonely. How has your March started?

Anyone making meaningful connections on Lit?

With Spring coming soon, hope springs forth.

Hang in there peeps!

Struggle with meaningful connections here. Lots of good ones, but few that go into personal life stuff seem to last long

 

[ScarlettStilettos]

Just wondering if there are any women in this group thread? I have just skimmed but I’ve not seen any posts from a woman x

 

[KeenVoyeur]

Checking in with all the people with whom this thread reasonates. Sexless and lonely. How has your March started?

Anyone making meaningful connections on Lit?

With Spring coming soon, hope springs forth.

Hang in there peeps!

Birthday at the weekend ... nothing remotely sexual from the wife (Seems she's still keeping true to her word 17 years ago about no sex with me since I shagged the woman from down our street) - just keep sme coming back to Lit and other sites, mainly to view sexy pics of hot ladies

As for "meaningful connections" - nobody wants to indulge in anything more than some chat by DM (unless I'm just looking in the wrong place?)

I'm hanging in though - perhaps one day!

 

[luvclassics]

Just wondering if there are any women in this group thread? I have just skimmed but I’ve not seen any posts from a woman x

Any women that would post here would most likely get inundated with offers or requests. There are some that would want the attention but most would just keep on moving along rather than face the barrage.

 

[whiskeycowgirl23]

Any women that would post here would most likely get inundated with offers or requests. There are some that would want the attention but most would just keep on moving along rather than face the barrage.

You are very correct. But I just weed through them. Some chats have lasted a while some only days. Some haven't gotten responded to due to the sheer number i have gotten at one time.

 

[luvclassics]

You are very correct. But I just weed through them. Some chats have lasted a while some only days. Some haven't gotten responded to due to the sheer number i have gotten at one time.

Not at all surprised.

 

[LustyScribe]

Checking in with all the people with whom this thread reasonates. Sexless and lonely. How has your March started?

Anyone making meaningful connections on Lit?

With Spring coming soon, hope springs forth.

Hang in there peeps!

Same crud. The depression is a constant battle.
I recently asked her if what she wanted was actually a platonic marriage (since, by way of refusal, that's what she's actually forcing on ME). She sputtered, said she wasn't saying anything like that...but then she didn't say it's NOT what she wants, either. We had some unrelated crap stir up, so it got tabled, but I'm going to press it again this weekend. Time to just put the cards on the table.
If she says yes, that's her desire, then that's my open pass to meet those needs elsewhere with no guilt. If she says no, I'm preparing some expectations. No more riding the fence.

 

[Gory]

Mine is sexless because he refused to take care of diabetes when it first happened. Now he's been impotent for over 10 years but it's not just that. I got tired of asking for a hug, some not sexual touch other than when he wants a hj or bj. Even though it is a disease there's a lot of contained rage because he could have taken care of himself. Sex consists of giving him start he wants, then turns around a goes to sleep and i take care of myself when I'm alone. It's a lonely life.

SS. I agree with your problem too , I would say more but last time a lady rip me a new Ass. I guess Diabetes hits both Sex. Take Care. Gory

 

[NightOfPassion2]

The depression is real. And what i hear is "why are you crying? Are you depressed again?"

So sorry. To not take care of himself and then demand...ugg.