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I tend to think that most people who marry don't understand sexual desires.
Does your wife know about the MMF and MFM encounters that you’ve been in? Did she support/allow them?Hi, I love the content of this topic. Im very open, not sure if kinky is word, but open to try anything. My wife is vanilla, like you, occassionally likes facesitting in right mood, we use her toys often, and always she loves oral, but thats about it. I have met several couples for MMF and MFM play, it was senstational. Joining these married couples was a fantasy come true. I wish my wife would allow another couple or guy to join us. As I said, Im very open.
Any Aussies, especially, say hi.
It has not been easy (in fact, it has been impossible) for my wife and me to find a proper couple, single man or woman to experiment. Either were not attractive, or were looking for something more advanced or fast evolving than we wanted. Some months ago, we gave up searching.Hi, I love the content of this topic. Im very open, not sure if kinky is word, but open to try anything. My wife is vanilla, like you, occassionally likes facesitting in right mood, we use her toys often, and always she loves oral, but thats about it. I have met several couples for MMF and MFM play, it was senstational. Joining these married couples was a fantasy come true. I wish my wife would allow another couple or guy to join us. As I said, Im very open.
Any Aussies, especially, say hi.
I understand exactly what you’re going through. You’re lucky she gives you some freedom. My spouse would faint so I have to hide everything. Would be nice to have someone to chat to about thisI'm sure people have asked this before, but how do kinky people deal with (happy) vanilla relationships? I've talked with my wife about my subby desires and she's accommodated some of them (facesitting, a little crossdressing, dildo fun). But it's pretty clear that as far as she will go. We have a great sex life and I don't want to push her to do something she doesn't want. But I'm really craving exploring this more. Sometimes I do things that are harmless (I think) like looking at porn, sometimes stuff that isn't (like chatting with people online without my wife's permission -- yes, I've done it here). I would never do this IRL without her explicit OK. Do people have any advice? I have a little subby experience from before this relationship, mostly with men (I'm bisexual), and I really enjoyed it (yes, she knows that I am bi). My first priority is our relationship.
Inclined to agree. I've now been dating 20years, married for 10years.I tend to think that most people who marry don't understand sexual desires.
I agree, very common when you meet people early in life and you din’t really know much about what it is you want or what might be possible.Inclined to agree. I've now been dating 20years, married for 10years.
Last 3 long term partners, including my wife on a different page to me. Kink wasn't discussed, wasn't on their agenda.
If they did want some mild s&m, or maybe anal, it wasn't vocalised.
Meanwhile I've been active on here since my late teens and on FL as long.
Current on/off partner isn't that long, so there's time to ditch and change.I agree, very common when you meet people early in life and you din’t really know much about what it is you want or what might be possible.
It seems that it would be worth funding out if there is common ground early in the relationship, if you already know it is important to you though.
Is there a reason why you don’t bring it up?
I like that turn of phrasereality cannot match sweet imagination