How many of you ladies actually like anal sex?

[dansouthwest]

I am in the middle of writing a series and I hope you guys can help me.

There are stories in Lit where the writers almost suggest there are some ladies out there who prefer anal sex to vaginal sex. While tbh in real life it either has to be my Bday or we are pretty drunk before my wife decides to give me access to her bum hole.

My question is how many of you lovely ladies actually enjoy anal and happily suggest it to your partners as compared to them begging you?

Cheers

 

[Athalia]

I tried it once and didn't care for it. But I don't know if I'm typical or not.

 

[Learin]

I love anal sex. It's different for every woman. Most of my friends don't like it because it hurts and that's understandable. But it shouldn't hurt that much if you're doing it properly. One guy thought he should use his dick as a battering ram on me, so I can deeply understand the phobia behind it.

As much as I love anal sex, I still love the normal thingy. I haven't yet graduated to an all-time anal slut. None of my friends I've talked with are, so I don't know if someone like that actually exists. Maybe they do, but are pretty rare.

 

[dansouthwest]

I love anal sex. It's different for every woman. Most of my friends don't like it because it hurts and that's understandable. But it shouldn't hurt that much if you're doing it properly. One guy thought he should use his dick as a battering ram on me, so I can deeply understand the phobia behind it.

As much as I love anal sex, I still love the normal thingy. I haven't yet graduated to an all-time anal slut. None of my friends I've talked with are, so I don't know if someone like that actually exists. Maybe they do, but are pretty rare.

I think mainstream porn does alter the perception of anal sex for men.

Growing up watching Jenna Jameson pleading to go harder up her ass, I was horrified when my first girlfriend nearly kicked me out when I tried ramming my cock up her ass when we first tried anal.

But since then I've learnt a lot of patience and lube is an absolute must. Saying that just like your friends most of the ladies I know just either do not care or do it just to keep their men happy.

What is it about anal sex do you actually love? is it the tightness, the taboo or is it a total different sensation for you?

 

[juttjaw]

Jenna Jameson never did an anal scene. Get your shit together!

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

D(.)(.)

When I was much younger we experimented and I liked it as a change.
After many surgeries I just can't handle it.
We 've heard many younger gals prefer anal for safety against getting pregnant.

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Jenna Jameson never did an anal scene. Get your shit together!

That is one way to get Jenna's shit together.

 

[Miles Long]

Jenna Jameson never did an anal scene. Get your shit together!

That is one way to get Jenna's shit together.

Ha, this is great!

On the whole, she had a pretty good career.

 

[Que]

I love anal sex. It's different for every woman. Most of my friends don't like it because it hurts and that's understandable. But it shouldn't hurt that much if you're doing it properly. One guy thought he should use his dick as a battering ram on me, so I can deeply understand the phobia behind it.

As much as I love anal sex, I still love the normal thingy. I haven't yet graduated to an all-time anal slut. None of my friends I've talked with are, so I don't know if someone like that actually exists. Maybe they do, but are pretty rare.

Oh...yeah.

The "normal thingy."

It just feels...like...

...it was MADE for it!

 

[Learin]

Oh...yeah.

The "normal thingy."

It just feels...like...

...it was MADE for it!

That's why I call it normal .... thingy.

What is it about anal sex do you actually love? is it the tightness, the taboo or is it a total different sensation for you?

Tightness? Um, no... I'm not a hardcore masochist. Men like it for the 'tightness'. Can't say the same for myself. It's not comfortable doing anal, it never is, but I want to make it less uncomfortable. Makes sense?

It was taboo in the beginning. I was like "ohmygodIjustdidanal". Then it wore off. The feeling of taboo doesn't last long for it to remain as a source of excitement.

That leaves "different sensation", so heck yeah, I do it for that. It's completely different from vaginal sex. A few times, I even had an orgasm just from anal. There's just the right amount of pain and pleasure to make or enjoyable. Also, it's not just the anal that I love, it's the foreplay, the rimming, the mushy stuff he says and I love to see him beg just for the fun of it.

It's the complete package that I love.

 

[lauralikesto]

I think it's the build up, well that and the sensation if having an ass full of cum.

I only do anal once in a while because I'm super protective of my asshole. I always need him to go slow and once he's in, let me get used to his size, but once I'm used to being full I can take and love a really hard ass pounding.

The sensation of taking an ass full of cum always tips me over the edge, and what I never realised is that because my ass is tight I can keep it in there and walk around full of cum for hours. I'm sure it's not healthy but once in a while it's worth it.

 

[BrightShinyGirl]

Tried it once and didn't like it. More painful than pleasurable. Fortunately my husband doesn't seem interested in it at all.

I do sometimes enjoy wearing a butt plug, but the one I have is MUCH smaller than a cock.

 

[NightL]

Oh...yeah.

The "normal thingy."

It just feels...like...

...it was MADE for it!

quoting a message that was a message to a quote but without the original quote - such fun

On scrolling back from the last post I instantly thought "Oh - I didn't know that about Que"

 

[SueVanDouser]

I quite enjoy it if I'm in the mood for it.

 

[dansouthwest]

Jenna Jameson never did an anal scene. Get your shit together!

You sir need to visit pornhub.com again.

 

[dansouthwest]

That's why I call it normal .... thingy.




Tightness? Um, no... I'm not a hardcore masochist. Men like it for the 'tightness'. Can't say the same for myself. It's not comfortable doing anal, it never is, but I want to make it less uncomfortable. Makes sense?

It was taboo in the beginning. I was like "ohmygodIjustdidanal". Then it wore off. The feeling of taboo doesn't last long for it to remain as a source of excitement.

That leaves "different sensation", so heck yeah, I do it for that. It's completely different from vaginal sex. A few times, I even had an orgasm just from anal. There's just the right amount of pain and pleasure to make or enjoyable. Also, it's not just the anal that I love, it's the foreplay, the rimming, the mushy stuff he says and I love to see him beg just for the fun of it.

It's the complete package that I love.

You are the first person I know who actually confirmed an orgasm while anal sex. I've tried all kind of numbing sprays and the wife being on top while I play with a Clit etc but just doesn't do anything for her. Similar to what the other ladies here have been saying.

 

[dansouthwest]

I think it's the build up, well that and the sensation if having an ass full of cum.

I only do anal once in a while because I'm super protective of my asshole. I always need him to go slow and once he's in, let me get used to his size, but once I'm used to being full I can take and love a really hard ass pounding.

The sensation of taking an ass full of cum always tips me over the edge, and what I never realised is that because my ass is tight I can keep it in there and walk around full of cum for hours. I'm sure it's not healthy but once in a while it's worth it.

That souds super hot. Walking around with cum in your ass. I'm so borrowing that for my next story!

 

[dansouthwest]

Tried it once and didn't like it. More painful than pleasurable. Fortunately my husband doesn't seem interested in it at all.

I do sometimes enjoy wearing a butt plug, but the one I have is MUCH smaller than a cock.

If you enjoy butt plug, have you guys tried rimming or just a finger while vaginal sex? Is that something that turns you on?

 

[nowat41]

I and my husband are not a big fan of it.
I do agree that anus is most sensitive part of my body and I love to feel his warm wet tongue there, but not any penetration.

We once were curious and tried, but it was kind of painful, and he too didn't enjoy. Some times, he will wedge his hardness between my ass cheeks and will come in between, but we never did anal penetration after that.

My cents, but I know lot of people love it here.

 

[dansouthwest]

Tried it once and didn't like it. More painful than pleasurable. Fortunately my husband doesn't seem interested in it at all.

I do sometimes enjoy wearing a butt plug, but the one I have is MUCH smaller than a cock.

If you enjoy butt plug, have you guys tried rimming or just a finger while vaginal sex? Is that something that turns you on?

 

[dansouthwest]

I and my husband are not a big fan of it.
I do agree that anus is most sensitive part of my body and I love to feel his warm wet tongue there, but not any penetration.

We once were curious and tried, but it was kind of painful, and he too didn't enjoy. Some times, he will wedge his hardness between my ass cheeks and will come in between, but we never did anal penetration after that.

My cents, but I know lot of people love it here.

I had a partner who was like you. Liked it when I rimmed her but wouldn't even let my finger in. Not because it was disgusting or anything but as she liked to say "I feel like I need to poop with your finger up there". Lol

 

[dansouthwest]

I do quite enjoy anal sex but under I'll need 2 things. 1. Lots of wine and 2 plenty of lube. I've never use any numbing agent before.

If you would like your husband to go faster then a numbing sprays would ease your discomfort, although not sure if that will desensitise the area for you totally. f you ever do try it let me know.

 

[Learin]

You are the first person I know who actually confirmed an orgasm while anal sex. I've tried all kind of numbing sprays and the wife being on top while I play with a Clit etc but just doesn't do anything for her. Similar to what the other ladies here have been saying.

The orgasm is RARE. And I stress on rare because it is very difficult to tick all of the right conditions at a given time.

Also, you really sound like someone who wants to make his wife enjoy it, but can't. Some women don't like anal at all. It does nothing for them. Zip. Nada. Zilch. Nothing at all. So, I think you should get used to that fact.

The best you can do is improvise your techniques and make it more comfortable for her.

 

[LadyVer]

I tried it on several occasions, not because it was something I wanted to do on my bucket list, but to please a partner. The reality was that it wasn't worth the aggravation to please a partner who expected me to be the one who was the designated pleaser at all times. And for some reason, he wasn't willing to have me put a vibrator up his ass. I mean, really. geeze.

 

[Miles Long]

I know a few women who prefer anal sex to vaginal sex, and for a couple of them it's the pain of it that really gets them off. But I think it's safe to say they are definitely in the minority.