An Open Letter to the Ladies of Lit

[meop79]

You may be the life of the party. You may fill everyone's drink, make sure everyone's happy, Bend over backwards to please, go out of your way for everyone but you...

But in the end giving till it hurts will only hurt. You can't fill a broken cup. You can't make another person happy. Only they can do that, trying will only leave you sad...

Remember instead that you are an amazing person. You are special, yes: you. You are caring and loving and kind. You deserve to be loved in return and if you aren't you're throwing yourself away for nothing. If you look around, you can find someone who will return all that love. All of that care... all of it... who will cherish you as you cherish them, who will lift you up while you build them up, who will give as you give, love as you love, openly, honestly, innocently....

 

[meop79]

Sometimes life is just hard...

 

[meop79]

This is not love.

If you're having trouble telling between this:

And this:

Then you need to understand that this is not being a bitch. It is not being a feminist. It is not being domineering:

Understand that relationships are about exploring together and helping each other.

About love:

About Caring:

About sharing life's burdens.... together...

 

[meop79]

Today someone is celebrating,

someone is singing,

someone is dancing,

someone is happy.

Because to them, not even the sun would be the sun, without you...

 

[emsway]

I'd like to add my voice to the many women who appreciate this thread.

Thank you.

 

[meop79]

I'd like to add my voice to the many women who appreciate this thread.

Thank you.

You are very welcome.

Thank you and I would like to thank each of the ladies who sees this just for being you and each of the men who treat the ladies in their life right.

 

[meop79]

Please take the time today to rest... you are super, woman,

but don't try to hold up the world...

Rest...

Relax...

And play...

I hope you have a wonderful and blessed day filled with peace, tranquility, and love...

 

[meop79]

No matter where in life you are, no matter who, how, what, no matter your excuses...

Always remember...

If you don't know someone in your life who realizes this... you should. Someone does... and if you find them... well...

 

[Pink_Milkmaid]

Thank you for this thread!

 

[meop79]

Thank you for this thread!

You're welcome... *HUGS*

Shame I'm the only one writing it, well one guy helped once.. lol...

 

[Thandi]

BUMP

Thank you again.

 

[meop79]

It may seem silly for me to keep posting here... but I believe in Persistence!

Because the message I'm trying to send, that you are wonderful, fabulous, and beautiful just the way you are, is too important to be just sent once... *HUGS*

 

[Misshotndeep]

Lovely thread. Everyone needs a place that is purely positive. Good work!

 

[meop79]

Lovely thread. Everyone needs a place that is purely positive. Good work!

Thanks! *HUGS*

 

[meop79]

Yeah... this is cool...

But it's not as amazing as you! *HUGS*

 

[Arielsdream]

Thank you.... It's so nice to hear without having to remind someone..

 

[meop79]

Thank you.... It's so nice to hear without having to remind someone..

You're welcome... *HUGS*

 

[whspr]

I think this fit my day....

 

[meop79]

I think this fit my day....

*HUGS*

 

[whspr]

*HUGS*

<soft smile>

 

[meop79]

 

[Misshotndeep]

Ok. I just love this and could not agree with it more! lol

 

[meop79]

You may feel like this...

But understand that it's not true... that that rose is you today, already. That you are special, precious, and loved, even if you don't realize how much you touch the lives of those around you... you are somebody's angel.

So find someone today who's hurting and show them your love and care.

 

[ashesatwork]

You may feel like this...

ahh yes...

 

[meop79]

ahh yes...

You forgot the rest of it... lol *HUGS*