uncertainsub
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- Aug 15, 2014
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I have been with my husband for some years now and we have a great relationship. We love each other, get along great, have kids, enjoy spending time with each other.
I have always thought of myself as submissive. I love pleasuring my partner, being told what to do for him, rough sex, spankings, etc. My husband has always been dominant and we have a great sex life. About a year ago, he told me about some of his dominant urges that he feels like he needs to explore. I have tried but some things I just cannot get into. I am claustrophobic and do not enjoy extreme pain or denial. These are the things he is into and says he needs to try these things. He has brought up finding another person, a submissive female, to try these things with,
I am crushed. I do not do open relationships nor do I feel comfortable with sharing him with anybody. It makes me feel like I am not good enough. I have tried to go long with trying these things, but I feel like it just brings on feelings of resentment since I really do not enjoy extreme pain at all.
Has anyone been in this situation? How do we make things fair for both people? Our relationship is great in every other aspect except for this. We both believe in sticking it out no matter what. What would you do?
I have always thought of myself as submissive. I love pleasuring my partner, being told what to do for him, rough sex, spankings, etc. My husband has always been dominant and we have a great sex life. About a year ago, he told me about some of his dominant urges that he feels like he needs to explore. I have tried but some things I just cannot get into. I am claustrophobic and do not enjoy extreme pain or denial. These are the things he is into and says he needs to try these things. He has brought up finding another person, a submissive female, to try these things with,
I am crushed. I do not do open relationships nor do I feel comfortable with sharing him with anybody. It makes me feel like I am not good enough. I have tried to go long with trying these things, but I feel like it just brings on feelings of resentment since I really do not enjoy extreme pain at all.
Has anyone been in this situation? How do we make things fair for both people? Our relationship is great in every other aspect except for this. We both believe in sticking it out no matter what. What would you do?