DaemonDomAndGoddessSub
Experienced
- Joined
- May 22, 2014
- Posts
- 35
I am in a D/s relationship... married to him and all. Two kids... and lately... it just seems to be falling apart. We don't talk or communicate at all, we seem to be at odds. He came on here behind my back looking for another sub, supposedly with my permission, which he didn't have, and now I find myself questioning himon everything. I have a hard time listening to him, obeying him, or even trusting himto not be on here still looking. I find myself pulling away from him. Don't get me wrong.. I love him and don't want to lose him... but I don't know how to get back to what we had. When I try to talk to him he gets mad and defensive and shuts down after making me feel bad about the way I feel and my need to try and understand. I'm so lost and hurt, and now he won't even talk to me... about anything... even to ask how my day was or to give me directions.
I guess my question is...have any Doms or subs had this problem? Is it fixable? How do I fix it??? I'm tired of feeling like the only one trying, but I don't know where to go or what to do. Please help!!!
I guess my question is...have any Doms or subs had this problem? Is it fixable? How do I fix it??? I'm tired of feeling like the only one trying, but I don't know where to go or what to do. Please help!!!