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TheOlderGuy
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Just speaking for myself, I LOVE to be seduced.
The pressure on a guy to make all the moves can be very exhausting, not just because he has to try to interpret all the subtle and conflicting messages about whether a woman might be interested, and not only because we have to develop a rather thick skin to rejection, but also because our current culture freely casts about labels of creep and pervert and worse on a guy who misreads those ambiguous clues.
So a woman who freely expresses her interest would be a very welcome breath of fresh air.
Cumference
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Great (apart from the fact that I'm happily married, meaning that the number of acceptable "girls" is limited to Lady C).
But I live in Perverted Scandinavia (TM), and it is not unusual at all here.
On the other hand, I'm pretty thick headed and pretty aware of not wanting to make a move on a girl that was not interested, so she would probably have to be pretty clear, before I got the message.
Doesn't it always?
And certainly "who she is".
Just fucking because she was horny, would make me feel cheap.
(Good to see you back, by the way
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Artfan2
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It's especially exciting if the girl doesn't make it too obvious. If she smiles innocently and flirts a little, giving us the idea that it could lead to sex if we do the right things, it's a thrill. Guys love the thrill of the chase.
Boosin78
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To me, no. But I find that level of confidence to be attractive.
In that scenario I imagine that a woman is confident enough in her own level of attractiveness to lay it on the line. Sometimes there's too much time spent wondering what someone really means, says, etc. TO have a girl be upfront and honest is a huge turnon.
My game, no. I feel like at that point it raises my game because I'm being pushed. Which is fun.
Boosin78
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hmmm, getting a mixed response here... Where the fuck is my 'poll' option?
You should expect that. We're all nuts.
my only statement, do what's natural to you. If that's going out and being that upfront on it, then do it. A guy will like that, and if not...onto the next
Artfan2
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hmmm, getting a mixed response here... Where the fuck is my 'poll' option?
Well, you can test the guy by being a little forward and see how he reacts. If his eyes widen, his jeans start to bulge and he starts to breathe heavily, you know you're on the right track.
Due to the area I'm in I can't say it wouldn't throw me off but that's only because it doesn't happen here often. It wouldn't bother me though.
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What do guys think of girls who initiate sex?
Well, speaking for myself only, "Oh, FUCK yes!"
Does it throw me off my game?
If I want to play a game, I'll set up a chess board. Actually, that's exactly why I love it. It does away with all the bullshit like, "uh, was she toying with her hair? If she was then she wanted you to kiss her" and the rest of that crap. She knew what she wanted and asked giving me the option to say yes or hell yeah!
Does it all depend on how the "move" is initiated?
Mmmm. Let's see...
One slipped both of her hands down my shorts and wrapped the fingers of both hands around my cock.
Another jumped up and wrapped her legs around my waist and her arms around my neck while kissing me.
Another asked "May I have a taste?" while reaching for my belt.
I "caught" another watching porn with a woman going down on another and she paused it and said "I would love for you to do that to me."
I could keep going, but that's a pretty fair cross section, I think. So, I'm gonna go with "nope, doesn't matter but the clearer the better".
Personally, I think the world would be a much better place if anyone could just look someone else they are interested in in the eye and say, "I would really like to find out just how good you are in bed" and leave them the option to say "ok" or "no way" and move on whichever direction they are going regardless of gender.
Well, speaking for myself only, "Oh, FUCK yes!"
Does it throw me off my game?
If I want to play a game, I'll set up a chess board. Actually, that's exactly why I love it. It does away with all the bullshit like, "uh, was she toying with her hair? If she was then she wanted you to kiss her" and the rest of that crap. She knew what she wanted and asked giving me the option to say yes or hell yeah!
Does it all depend on how the "move" is initiated?
Mmmm. Let's see...
One slipped both of her hands down my shorts and wrapped the fingers of both hands around my cock.
Another jumped up and wrapped her legs around my waist and her arms around my neck while kissing me.
Another asked "May I have a taste?" while reaching for my belt.
I "caught" another watching porn with a woman going down on another and she paused it and said "I would love for you to do that to me."
I could keep going, but that's a pretty fair cross section, I think. So, I'm gonna go with "nope, doesn't matter but the clearer the better".
Personally, I think the world would be a much better place if anyone could just look someone else they are interested in in the eye and say, "I would really like to find out just how good you are in bed" and leave them the option to say "ok" or "no way" and move on whichever direction they are going regardless of gender.
BiTodd
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I would love for a sexy friend to let me know that! I would have already thought it many times and maybe eluded to it to gage her responses, so if she did hit on me for a night of good sex it would be a big relief. And I would fuck her silly.
tiny_tits
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I just had the wildest night of sex of my life.
For the past month or two, a guy I used to work with has kinda been like a ' friend with benefits'.
If you have read any of my past posts here, he was the beginning of my end with Kevin- I referred to him as 'Guy'.
Well, Guy has told me about when he and his brother shared an apartment back when he was in college. There were a few times when they hooked up with his brother's girlfriend for a MFM.
His brother came for a visit this week, and last night I was the 'girlfriend'.
For the past month or two, a guy I used to work with has kinda been like a ' friend with benefits'.
If you have read any of my past posts here, he was the beginning of my end with Kevin- I referred to him as 'Guy'.
Well, Guy has told me about when he and his brother shared an apartment back when he was in college. There were a few times when they hooked up with his brother's girlfriend for a MFM.
His brother came for a visit this week, and last night I was the 'girlfriend'.
tiny_tits
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Horus_rules
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Congratulations, my sexy little friend! Did you get all your sexy little holes filled properly?
I'm glad to see you back around exploring your sexuality. 
tiny_tits
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Congratulations, my sexy little friend! Did you get all your sexy little holes filled properly?
It was... wow.
Horus_rules
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Artfan2
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You must be getting pretty good at being a bad girl in the bedroom. Any details you'd like to share?
Jessie_Pinkman
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Any more nights to cum, or is the brother still in town?
tiny_tits
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He leaves tomorrow, but I don't think I can do another night.
Jessie_Pinkman
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Walking bowlegged, are we?
tiny_tits
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They've done this before, though I had not.
It was quite intoxicating, being with two males that knew what they were doing.
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