BBW Love

[Cipher]

Yes it is. And I think it's actually getting worse instead of better.

Now that's a depressing thought! Sheesh.

We'll find good ones girl! no worries!

 

[pete_polegs]

I like ladies with a bit of meat on them

My wife of 40 years has never been skinny and I have never felt her bones when I have put my arms round her so I would count myself in favour of well upholstered ladies, such as the lady who lives opposite and wears short skirts when weeding the garden!

I found it a bit worrying when I put my arms round a couple of other ladies that I fancied and found that I could feels their ribs and spines. They were both in their forties and had had several children so they must have made a big effort to stay so thin. The things that attracted me to them were their long blond hair and high heeled shoes. I never got the opportunity to take matters any further so I don't have any comparatively recent experience of making love to a thin woman.

Pete

 

[juvare]

Serious question:

Why is completely understood and acceptable for fat women to be insecure and have tons of people rally around giving support etc. but men are held in such disdain for their own insecurities?

That's what it is 9 times out of 10. Men who are naturally attracted to fat women but only publicly date those they consider more socially acceptable. It's insecurity. Seeking outside of ones self for acceptance. Men and women both do this but only men get lambasted for it.

 

[michaelinteas]

Serious question:

Why is completely understood and acceptable for fat women to be insecure and have tons of people rally around giving support etc. but men are held in such disdain for their own insecurities?

That's what it is 9 times out of 10. Men who are naturally attracted to fat women but only publicly date those they consider more socially acceptable. It's insecurity. Seeking outside of ones self for acceptance. Men and women both do this but only men get lambasted for it.

Men are not supposed to have insecurities. Men are the strong ones who are hunters, providers and the protector of the home. A weak man with insecurities gets swallowed up by the strong.

I personally think thats all bullshit and its kind of the same way society views you lovely ladies that post here. Just as a thin beautiful woman is a real prize to show off, So is a big strong man there for the skinny ladies to show off and not a weak man.

Societies views can really suck. But I say fuck society and enjoy those around you no matter what they look like.

Mini rant over now

 

[pullmyhair3717]

lol, well usually they end up regretting their moves, hmmmm maybe on the girlfriend part.

Not sure why we get that way and I mean guys and girls, there is more to people then the perfect body

In all reality who defines perfect. One man's idea of a perfect woman's body may disgust another .. perfection is indefinable .. whether you're fluffy or skinny you're perfect to someone.. myself I love being "fluffy" and there's an amazing man that wouldn't have me any other way. That's why I love this site. You don't have to be a toothpick to be accepted. This is the real world. We aren't all models and we don't all have perfect abs. So what ... Be happy with who you are

 

[Cipher]

Societies views can really suck. But I say fuck society and enjoy those around you no matter what they look like.

Mini rant over now

That's what i'm sayin!

 

[Cipher]

In all reality who defines perfect. One man's idea of a perfect woman's body may disgust another .. perfection is indefinable .. whether you're fluffy or skinny you're perfect to someone.. myself I love being "fluffy" and there's an amazing man that wouldn't have me any other way. That's why I love this site. You don't have to be a toothpick to be accepted. This is the real world. We aren't all models and we don't all have perfect abs. So what ... Be happy with who you are

So many aren't happy with who they are, that's the prob.
I know i'm "full figured", i have curves, i box & walk everyday, i also don't hesitate to eat a full plate of food either LoL and if it's that good, i might have a little more!..i do what i need to do to keep me happy & healthy. I've always said:

"If a persons not happy with themselves, they won't be happy with whoever they're with no matter what he or she may look like".

All the BBW's and FF ladies i've met and posted with through out the years are amazing people! The men and women who love us are amazing as well!

Let's all just have a good day!

 

[RjThoughts]

In all reality who defines perfect. One man's idea of a perfect woman's body may disgust another .. perfection is indefinable .. whether you're fluffy or skinny you're perfect to someone.. myself I love being "fluffy" and there's an amazing man that wouldn't have me any other way. That's why I love this site. You don't have to be a toothpick to be accepted. This is the real world. We aren't all models and we don't all have perfect abs. So what ... Be happy with who you are

Unfortunately, tv and print media have been what has been defning what constitutes "the perfect body." All sorts of magazines, all these television shows, show the size 2 and below models and teens as being perfect.

I've seen recent Sci-Fi movies where the women were skinny and obviously had silicone implants. Really? A Medieval woman that has the shape of Jutin Beiber was THE hotty?

 

[RjThoughts]

Serious question:

Why is completely understood and acceptable for fat women to be insecure and have tons of people rally around giving support etc. but men are held in such disdain for their own insecurities?

That's what it is 9 times out of 10. Men who are naturally attracted to fat women but only publicly date those they consider more socially acceptable. It's insecurity. Seeking outside of ones self for acceptance. Men and women both do this but only men get lambasted for it.

Media!! Media dictates that women MUST date the most buff, the most "healthiest", the most "Alpha" of males, so they can have a good husband.

 

[123hot]

Ya know..my logic is..a beautiful woman is a beautiful woman..just like a hot guy..is a hot guy..but there's more to it..if the attitude is ugly on a hot guy/hot girl..then they're exactly that..UGLY lol Just my opinion of course

Actually, I think that's true - many times I see what should be the standard beautiful slim woman, but if they have an attitude often it shows in their face and not well. A nice smile and personality usually shows up no matter what you look like. Probably, weirdly, why they reckon Lorraine Kelly is the most secretly desired woman in Britain (or was about 5/6 years ago anyway).

As for guys having insecurities too - of course we do, but it's another warped society effect as it's not just blokes and their mates that pile on the pressure but also it would seem many women have similar views of what should and should not be. For example many seem to have a thing for bad boys - sorry, I'm no lady but I can't think of anything worse than having a relationship with an oik who's favourite pass-times are driving cars around in a circle making noise and shouting abuse at others. I wonder if ladies really do love it or if they, too, are just trying to save face in public.

Rude boys/girls - urgh!

 

[ctgirl1]

As for guys having insecurities too - of course we do, but it's another warped society effect as it's not just blokes and their mates that pile on the pressure but also it would seem many women have similar views of what should and should not be. For example many seem to have a thing for bad boys - sorry, I'm no lady but I can't think of anything worse than having a relationship with an oik who's favourite pass-times are driving cars around in a circle making noise and shouting abuse at others. I wonder if ladies really do love it or if they, too, are just trying to save face in public.

Rude boys/girls - urgh!

I have never been attracted to men who shout abuse at others and drive cars around in circles. Neither have I ever been attracted to the gangsta wanna-be's with "gold" teeth and baggy clothes. These are the types of men that are today considered the Alpha male by most.

These are complete turn offs to me.

 

[RjThoughts]

I have never been attracted to men who shout abuse at others and drive cars around in circles. Neither have I ever been attracted to the gangsta wanna-be's with "gold" teeth and baggy clothes. These are the types of men that are today considered the Alpha male by most.

These are complete turn offs to me.

I wear baggy jeans, relaxed fit, because my thighs, butt and calves are STILL muscular. But, I wear a belt and keep them up. I do not want to be called, what one grandmother called her grandson IN a mall Saturday: Skid Mark!! That's a fashion I wish would go away!!

 

[123hot]

I have never been attracted to men who shout abuse at others and drive cars around in circles. Neither have I ever been attracted to the gangsta wanna-be's with "gold" teeth and baggy clothes. These are the types of men that are today considered the Alpha male by most.

These are complete turn offs to me.

Haha, well, you have a brain I guess

Personally I don't care what anyone wears or looks like, but the way they treat others is important so like you I get totally turned off by people being abusive (sadly, ladies can be equally nasty when they want to be). Still, I'm not in a position to choose so maybe that's where I'm going wrong haha.

Take it easy.

 

[neukmale]

love bbw the dom type that sit on your face ! xx

 

[ctgirl1]

I wear baggy jeans, relaxed fit, because my thighs, butt and calves are STILL muscular. But, I wear a belt and keep them up. I do not want to be called, what one grandmother called her grandson IN a mall Saturday: Skid Mark!! That's a fashion I wish would go away!!

By baggy, I do mean where the clothes are 5 times too big and the pants hang down to show the underwear. All it does is make me want to smack them upside their heads and tell them to pull up their pants and wear a belt.

Unfortunately, my big chest tends to attract those types of guys.

Haha, well, you have a brain I guess

Personally I don't care what anyone wears or looks like, but the way they treat others is important so like you I get totally turned off by people being abusive (sadly, ladies can be equally nasty when they want to be). Still, I'm not in a position to choose so maybe that's where I'm going wrong haha.

Take it easy.

Oh yes. Women can be complete bitches. I can be too when someone gets on my bad side. But for me, it's not my usual state and I'm not abusive to people.

Also, everyone is in a position to choose. Never settle for less than what you think you're worth. I'm single because I won't settle for a lesser quality of person.
Don't forget, there's a lot more women than there are men in this world. Good for the men, bad for the women (hetero's anyway).

 

[eroticardr]

Honestly I don't give a damn what others think. I have NEVER not taken a sexy BBW out with me anywhere just to please others. If I can't be seen in public or private with the woman I want to be with, what's the point of being with them. Some guys need to just grow a pair! I'm telling you though, the fact that they don't leaves me more opportunities

 

[morena_69]

Challenge Issued

Reading this post, after I started it, reading the heart breaking stories of older BBW and the struggles of men who love them has made me think. I changed my attitude and way of thinking these past months because I didn't want to let anymore time pass by thinking that my body was inadequate. So, I did a little make-over, showed a little skin, had a bit more confidence and I tell myself everyday, "You are sexy, you are beautiful, you are gorgeous and don't let anyone tell you different." And, it helps that I started to be sexually open and stopped depriving myself of sexual pleasure.
People noticed, I was invited to participate in a beauty contest for young curvy women and have already made it through the second rounds. The prize is a modeling contract.

Do the same ladies. Tell yourself the opposite of what society tells you. This isn't a thread for moping, its a thread of confidence and support.

 

[morena_69]

hmmm...

Though I do enjoy a nice fat thick cock, even black night sticks I have seen big white cock as well. And not all curvy women like thick dick.

... Its also apparent that you must like curvy women. Though, its not "blubber" baby, its more love. My meat is toned. Gain some knowledge.

Fat chicks loves black cock cuss we can get past the blubber to her sweet spot unlike the little weenie honkies

 

[LindsayRae]

Fat chicks loves black cock cuss we can get past the blubber to her sweet spot unlike the little weenie honkies

Though I do enjoy a nice fat thick cock, even black night sticks I have seen big white cock as well. And not all curvy women like thick dick.

... Its also apparent that you must like curvy women. Though, its not "blubber" baby, its more love. My meat is toned. Gain some knowledge.

Reasoning with a troll is pointless, FYI.

 

[RjThoughts]

Reasoning with a troll is pointless, FYI.

Sad is that there are real men like that! I just spent an hour on the phone with my wife because someone like "TrollSaySo" cornered her in the parking lot and told her she was going to be "his fat white bitch!"

 

[Cipher]

I've always gone out in public with my larger ladyfriends--love showing them off. And I like it when they like to show off a bit, too. Gotta have that soft round flesh in my hands (and elsewhere).

LoL@ "and elsewhere"

 

[soflabbwlvr]

Reading this post, after I started it, reading the heart breaking stories of older BBW and the struggles of men who love them has made me think. I changed my attitude and way of thinking these past months because I didn't want to let anymore time pass by thinking that my body was inadequate. So, I did a little make-over, showed a little skin, had a bit more confidence and I tell myself everyday, "You are sexy, you are beautiful, you are gorgeous and don't let anyone tell you different." And, it helps that I started to be sexually open and stopped depriving myself of sexual pleasure.
People noticed, I was invited to participate in a beauty contest for young curvy women and have already made it through the second rounds. The prize is a modeling contract.

Do the same ladies. Tell yourself the opposite of what society tells you. This isn't a thread for moping, its a thread of confidence and support.

Morena, you are a BBW who gets it. Curves are sexy. Big girls who are confident in themselves, feminine, and not afraid of their sexuality are the most desirable women on earth.

I am not someone who believes in moderation. I indulge myself in the most decadent pleasures that this world has to offer. I prefer thick, juicy steaks; full-bodied cabernets; single malt scotch; hand rolled, maximum strength, maduro cigars; and rich, sinful desserts. But more than anything I enjoy lush, curvy women with thick thighs, soft bellies, wide hips, round buttocks, an abundance of flesh, and a personality to match.

I may die young, but I'll die happy.

 

[LindsayRae]

Sad is that there are real men like that! I just spent an hour on the phone with my wife because someone like "TrollSaySo" cornered her in the parking lot and told her she was going to be "his fat white bitch!"

Yikes. Sounds like it's time for a police report.

 

[RjThoughts]

Yikes. Sounds like it's time for a police report.

Most of the call was spent telling her NOT to break his legs. She filled a report. He's been fired and was escorted out.

This wasn't the first time at work has thought she was easy.

 

[braincum]

Hello to All of You

A bump from a guy who appreciates the wonders of a large, lovely lady. Greetings to all of you gorgeous, fleshy gals whose curves set me off so...