Cipher
*Queen IDGAF*
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Yes it is. And I think it's actually getting worse instead of better.
Now that's a depressing thought! Sheesh.
We'll find good ones girl! no worries!
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Yes it is. And I think it's actually getting worse instead of better.
Serious question:
Why is completely understood and acceptable for fat women to be insecure and have tons of people rally around giving support etc. but men are held in such disdain for their own insecurities?
That's what it is 9 times out of 10. Men who are naturally attracted to fat women but only publicly date those they consider more socially acceptable. It's insecurity. Seeking outside of ones self for acceptance. Men and women both do this but only men get lambasted for it.
lol, well usually they end up regretting their moves, hmmmm maybe on the girlfriend part.
Not sure why we get that way and I mean guys and girls, there is more to people then the perfect body
Societies views can really suck. But I say fuck society and enjoy those around you no matter what they look like.
Mini rant over now
In all reality who defines perfect. One man's idea of a perfect woman's body may disgust another .. perfection is indefinable .. whether you're fluffy or skinny you're perfect to someone.. myself I love being "fluffy" and there's an amazing man that wouldn't have me any other way. That's why I love this site. You don't have to be a toothpick to be accepted. This is the real world. We aren't all models and we don't all have perfect abs. So what ... Be happy with who you are
In all reality who defines perfect. One man's idea of a perfect woman's body may disgust another .. perfection is indefinable .. whether you're fluffy or skinny you're perfect to someone.. myself I love being "fluffy" and there's an amazing man that wouldn't have me any other way. That's why I love this site. You don't have to be a toothpick to be accepted. This is the real world. We aren't all models and we don't all have perfect abs. So what ... Be happy with who you are
Serious question:
Why is completely understood and acceptable for fat women to be insecure and have tons of people rally around giving support etc. but men are held in such disdain for their own insecurities?
That's what it is 9 times out of 10. Men who are naturally attracted to fat women but only publicly date those they consider more socially acceptable. It's insecurity. Seeking outside of ones self for acceptance. Men and women both do this but only men get lambasted for it.
Ya know..my logic is..a beautiful woman is a beautiful woman..just like a hot guy..is a hot guy..but there's more to it..if the attitude is ugly on a hot guy/hot girl..then they're exactly that..UGLY lol Just my opinion of course
As for guys having insecurities too - of course we do, but it's another warped society effect as it's not just blokes and their mates that pile on the pressure but also it would seem many women have similar views of what should and should not be. For example many seem to have a thing for bad boys - sorry, I'm no lady but I can't think of anything worse than having a relationship with an oik who's favourite pass-times are driving cars around in a circle making noise and shouting abuse at others. I wonder if ladies really do love it or if they, too, are just trying to save face in public.
Rude boys/girls - urgh!
I have never been attracted to men who shout abuse at others and drive cars around in circles. Neither have I ever been attracted to the gangsta wanna-be's with "gold" teeth and baggy clothes. These are the types of men that are today considered the Alpha male by most.
These are complete turn offs to me.
I have never been attracted to men who shout abuse at others and drive cars around in circles. Neither have I ever been attracted to the gangsta wanna-be's with "gold" teeth and baggy clothes. These are the types of men that are today considered the Alpha male by most.
These are complete turn offs to me.
I wear baggy jeans, relaxed fit, because my thighs, butt and calves are STILL muscular. But, I wear a belt and keep them up. I do not want to be called, what one grandmother called her grandson IN a mall Saturday: Skid Mark!! That's a fashion I wish would go away!!
Haha, well, you have a brain I guess
Personally I don't care what anyone wears or looks like, but the way they treat others is important so like you I get totally turned off by people being abusive (sadly, ladies can be equally nasty when they want to be). Still, I'm not in a position to choose so maybe that's where I'm going wrong haha.
Take it easy.
Fat chicks loves black cock cuss we can get past the blubber to her sweet spot unlike the little weenie honkies
Though I do enjoy a nice fat thick cock, even black night sticks I have seen big white cock as well. And not all curvy women like thick dick.NiggerSayWhat said:Fat chicks loves black cock cuss we can get past the blubber to her sweet spot unlike the little weenie honkies
... Its also apparent that you must like curvy women. Though, its not "blubber" baby, its more love. My meat is toned. Gain some knowledge.
Reasoning with a troll is pointless, FYI.
I've always gone out in public with my larger ladyfriends--love showing them off. And I like it when they like to show off a bit, too. Gotta have that soft round flesh in my hands (and elsewhere).
Reading this post, after I started it, reading the heart breaking stories of older BBW and the struggles of men who love them has made me think. I changed my attitude and way of thinking these past months because I didn't want to let anymore time pass by thinking that my body was inadequate. So, I did a little make-over, showed a little skin, had a bit more confidence and I tell myself everyday, "You are sexy, you are beautiful, you are gorgeous and don't let anyone tell you different." And, it helps that I started to be sexually open and stopped depriving myself of sexual pleasure.
People noticed, I was invited to participate in a beauty contest for young curvy women and have already made it through the second rounds. The prize is a modeling contract.
Do the same ladies. Tell yourself the opposite of what society tells you. This isn't a thread for moping, its a thread of confidence and support.
Sad is that there are real men like that! I just spent an hour on the phone with my wife because someone like "TrollSaySo" cornered her in the parking lot and told her she was going to be "his fat white bitch!"
Yikes. Sounds like it's time for a police report.