Let’s talk about the female orgasm

[FatPhim]

So I’ve been thinking about this and I’d love to get some insight from you awesome ladies and gentlemen, but especially the ladies

A true, authentic female orgasm is such a beautiful sight to behold and in my opinion, impossible to fake. The physiological changes alone make that extremely difficult: the flushing of her face, pupil dilation, loss of body control, nipple sensitivity, breathing changes. The list goes on and on. It’s nothing like you see in professional porn, which in my opinion is complete trash and in no way reflects reality. I sometimes worry that we’re raising a generation of young men who have absolutely no idea what a real female orgasm looks like.

So ladies! Please tell us, what does it take for you to achieve orgasm? Can you orgasm through penetration alone or is clitoral stimulation required? This seems quite rare, but my partner can orgasm this way if she is on top and controlling the movements. It blows my mind that some women experience their first orgasm in their 40s or 50s, so when did you experience your first real orgasm and was it a surprise? How does it feel for you and what was the most powerful orgasm you had? I’d love to hear everything and anything you ladies would be willing to share.

And gentlemen! Are you able to help your lady achieve orgasm? What does it take and what kinds of physical reactions do you notice? Can you tell when she might be faking it?

Sharing a true orgasm with a lady is such a beautiful experience in my opinion, especially if it can be made to happen simultaneously (difficult but definitely doable).

Share your experiences Literoticans!

 

[gtnlynn]

My first experience with a female orgasm was when I was dating my wife. We were at a drive-in movie and making out. She was straddling my leg, apparently rubbing her pussy on my leg. When her orgasm started, it was such a full body experience that I thought she was having a seizure of come kind. I stopped kissing her and just watched. When she calmed down, I realized what I had just witnessed. After that, my goal was to help her have more of those. Once we started having sex after we married, I found that the best way to cause her to have an orgasm was through oral sex or fingering her. The very best was with her straddling my face. I can get her to the edge and then bring her to an orgasm through penetration, but that is always after a lot of foreplay. I don't think she has orgasms with little foreplay and penetration alone. She says she had orgasms from just fucking when dating other guys in college, but then she remembers that her orgasm was after a lot of hot foreplay, so maybe it wasn't from penetration alone.

 

[FatPhim]

My first experience with a female orgasm was when I was dating my wife. We were at a drive-in movie and making out. She was straddling my leg, apparently rubbing her pussy on my leg. When her orgasm started, it was such a full body experience that I thought she was having a seizure of come kind. I stopped kissing her and just watched. When she calmed down, I realized what I had just witnessed. After that, my goal was to help her have more of those. Once we started having sex after we married, I found that the best way to cause her to have an orgasm was through oral sex or fingering her. The very best was with her straddling my face. I can get her to the edge and then bring her to an orgasm through penetration, but that is always after a lot of foreplay. I don't think she has orgasms with little foreplay and penetration alone. She says she had orgasms from just fucking when dating other guys in college, but then she remembers that her orgasm was after a lot of hot foreplay, so maybe it wasn't from penetration alone.

Thank you for sharing your experience, that’s awesome! Yes, what differentiates the female orgasm is that it is a full body experience. For us guys, we experience it mainly in our cocks, but for her it almost looks like a full on seizure!

I think a lot of women can orgasm from oral sex alone due to the direct clitoral stimulation, probably made more powerful if fingered simultaneously. I’ll let the ladies confirm that though lol.

You also bring up a great point about foreplay. I think a lot of ladies need to really warm up before being able to cum, the more foreplay the more powerful the orgasm.

 

[IvyMarron]

So I’ve been thinking about this and I’d love to get some insight from you awesome ladies and gentlemen, but especially the ladies

A true, authentic female orgasm is such a beautiful sight to behold and in my opinion, impossible to fake. The physiological changes alone make that extremely difficult: the flushing of her face, pupil dilation, loss of body control, nipple sensitivity, breathing changes. The list goes on and on. It’s nothing like you see in professional porn, which in my opinion is complete trash and in no way reflects reality. I sometimes worry that we’re raising a generation of young men who have absolutely no idea what a real female orgasm looks like.

So ladies! Please tell us, what does it take for you to achieve orgasm? Can you orgasm through penetration alone or is clitoral stimulation required? This seems quite rare, but my partner can orgasm this way if she is on top and controlling the movements. It blows my mind that some women experience their first orgasm in their 40s or 50s, so when did you experience your first real orgasm and was it a surprise? How does it feel for you and what was the most powerful orgasm you had? I’d love to hear everything and anything you ladies would be willing to share.

And gentlemen! Are you able to help your lady achieve orgasm? What does it take and what kinds of physical reactions do you notice? Can you tell when she might be faking it?

Sharing a true orgasm with a lady is such a beautiful experience in my opinion, especially if it can be made to happen simultaneously (difficult but definitely doable).

Share your experiences Literoticans!

I can come from penetration but find it easier to orgasm through clitorial stimulation

 

[FatPhim]

I can come from penetration but find it easier to orgasm through clitorial stimulation

Thanks for sharing your experience! Is the orgasm different for you depending on whether it’s clitoral or by penetration?

 

[IvyMarron]

Yes very different

 

[FatPhim]

I’ve always wondered about that.

Yes very different

Is one more powerful than the other? The other thing I’d love to know is if it’s possible to have both types at the same time.

 

[Wonderer67]

I am very lucky, and have a very orgasmic wife.

I have been with women who had a very difficult time cumming, and w others (like my wife) who orgasm very easily.

I love making her cum. Her pleasure is my measure!!

Her go-to move is to use her hitachi. She’s been using one for years, and I got her a new one, because she wore her old one out.

She says she has many diffent types of orgasms…

- penetration. From a good hard fucking or a nice loving one….
- body orgasms, where something hot or sexual simply makes her body quiver
- runny ones… she says “I just came in my pants.” And I know a small amount of wetness just went into her panties.
- clitoral (see below) with her permission.

https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/yheg...Cums.mov?rlkey=65gb825f5pydewb61i0ow7efz&dl=0

 

[IvyMarron]

Wow looks intense

 

[Wonderer67]

And she has g spot ones…. That typically result in a gush of her pussy fluid.

Also w her permission.
https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/4670l3lorco8vyzfu5rmz/Squirt.mov?rlkey=6qgsf8gfhxvuk7lum7pplhyzv&dl=0

She cums and squirts/gushes like crazy and female superior, cowgirl, or reverse cowgirl. See (Squirting aftermath thread for more…)

 

[FatPhim]

I am very lucky, and have a very orgasmic wife.

I have been with women who had a very difficult time cumming, and w others (like my wife) who orgasm very easily.

I love making her cum. Her pleasure is my measure!!

Her go-to move is to use her hitachi. She’s been using one for years, and I got her a new one, because she wore her old one out.

She says she has many diffent types of orgasms…

- penetration. From a good hard fucking or a nice loving one….
- body orgasms, where something hot or sexual simply makes her body quiver
- runny ones… she says “I just came in my pants.” And I know a small amount of wetness just went into her panties.
- clitoral (see below) with her permission.

https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/yheg...Cums.mov?rlkey=65gb825f5pydewb61i0ow7efz&dl=0

Wow that’s amazing, thanks for sharing!

 

[KatieDoes]

So I’ve been thinking about this and I’d love to get some insight from you awesome ladies and gentlemen, but especially the ladies

A true, authentic female orgasm is such a beautiful sight to behold and in my opinion, impossible to fake. The physiological changes alone make that extremely difficult: the flushing of her face, pupil dilation, loss of body control, nipple sensitivity, breathing changes. The list goes on and on. It’s nothing like you see in professional porn, which in my opinion is complete trash and in no way reflects reality. I sometimes worry that we’re raising a generation of young men who have absolutely no idea what a real female orgasm looks like.

So ladies! Please tell us, what does it take for you to achieve orgasm? Can you orgasm through penetration alone or is clitoral stimulation required? This seems quite rare, but my partner can orgasm this way if she is on top and controlling the movements. It blows my mind that some women experience their first orgasm in their 40s or 50s, so when did you experience your first real orgasm and was it a surprise? How does it feel for you and what was the most powerful orgasm you had? I’d love to hear everything and anything you ladies would be willing to share.

And gentlemen! Are you able to help your lady achieve orgasm? What does it take and what kinds of physical reactions do you notice? Can you tell when she might be faking it?

Sharing a true orgasm with a lady is such a beautiful experience in my opinion, especially if it can be made to happen simultaneously (difficult but definitely doable).

Share your experiences Literoticans!

Oh, that’s adorable. Bless your heart.

 

[IvyMarron]

Is that you patiently waiting

 

[FatPhim]

Oh, that’s adorable. Bless your heart.

Please enlighten me

 

[Meduus]

Hmm I can cum by penetration, clit and pain
They do differ…
Penetration and clit are similar
Pain depends it can be pretty intense but not as fysical…

 

[FatPhim]

Thanks for sharing! What type of pain can make you orgasm?

 

[Meduus]

Thanks for sharing! What type of pain can make you orgasm?

Sharp pain during play time all over my body
And pain on my nipples always helps to make my cum

 

[30bandits]

Sharp pain during play time all over my body
And pain on my nipples always helps to make my cum

i could bite them.

 

[FatPhim]

And she has g spot ones…. That typically result in a gush of her pussy fluid.

Also w her permission.
https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/4670l3lorco8vyzfu5rmz/Squirt.mov?rlkey=6qgsf8gfhxvuk7lum7pplhyzv&dl=0

She cums and squirts/gushes like crazy and female superior, cowgirl, or reverse cowgirl. See (Squirting aftermath thread for more…)

Those videos are awesome, especially that last one. I’m a huge fan of extremely wet orgasms

 

[WildFireTN]

My first experience with a female orgasm was when I was dating my wife. We were at a drive-in movie and making out. She was straddling my leg, apparently rubbing her pussy on my leg. When her orgasm started, it was such a full body experience that I thought she was having a seizure of come kind. I stopped kissing her and just watched. When she calmed down, I realized what I had just witnessed. After that, my goal was to help her have more of those. Once we started having sex after we married, I found that the best way to cause her to have an orgasm was through oral sex or fingering her. The very best was with her straddling my face. I can get her to the edge and then bring her to an orgasm through penetration, but that is always after a lot of foreplay. I don't think she has orgasms with little foreplay and penetration alone. She says she had orgasms from just fucking when dating other guys in college, but then she remembers that her orgasm was after a lot of hot foreplay, so maybe it wasn't from penetration alone.

This takes us back to some great times. Thanks for sharing!
My wifey could have been more sexually involved in HS/college. She came from a family where you were supposed to wait until marriage. Her experiences of foreplay, kissing, touching, feeling, j/o boyfriend, still bring us shared fun. Thinking about writing her story.

 

[gtnlynn]

This takes us back to some great times. Thanks for sharing!
My wifey could have been more sexually involved in HS/college. She came from a family where you were supposed to wait until marriage. So he experiences of foreplay, kissing, touching, feeling still bring us shared fun. Thinking about writing her story.

Write the story. You will enjoy it.

 

[ArseGratiaArtis]

I have had all kinds of experiences with the wonderful female orgasm. My most recent lover would cum from penetration, usually in under a minute, then build to ever more intense climaxes over 30 or 40 minutes that subsided when I came in her. She liked clit play but it wasn't easy to make her cum that way. She would occasionally cum from sucking me off, especially if I talked to her as she did it.

I have had a few women who could orgasm from anal sex as long as I played with their clits, too. And two who could have orgasms from extended nipple play, although after that they needed to be fucked, and they would cum from that, too.

Something else I have seen is that for most women to cum from penetration, they need to be fucked hard. I have to build up to it a little, but slower, gentler motion usually doesn't do it.