Katyusha
Kitten at Heart
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I can speak for me and me alone but the arousal sequence goes sort of like this.
1--- Initiation: Something that sparks the imagination, either a visual or a mental image that has that sexual connotation but is still inconsequential and could either grow or go away.
2-- Inspiration: The spark actually kindles. My mood and that instance, whatever it was, connect. Its still not full arousal yet but the potential is now 50-50 or better. Not boner yet but the stiffening has begun.
3-- Invitation: There is enough mental engagement, emotional connection, and curiosity or hunger to go further, regardless of situation or circumsatnace.
4-- Ignition: the fantasy is fully formed, the senses are stimulated, the mind is racing and the body is reacting. This is where we have true real boner.
What happens next is an entire other process
Hmm...this process doesn't take very long for me (as it pertains to the female equivalent of a boner).