Your partner's surprise turn on.

[southern_gal]

Does your partner have a fetish or something that gets him or her aroused that took you somewhat by surprise when you found out? Is it something that you know about but they have not admitted to? Mine has his fair share of kinks and very little surprises me but sometimes....

 

[NotSoWellNdowed]

Not so much of a fetish, per say, but I got some pic's while away from home of her engaging her bi-curious side while sober. There had been a few drunken make out sessions with a couple of her girlfriends in the past, but when whipped cream got licked off tits and no liquor was present... My mind & load were blown. Lol.

 

[southern_gal]

This was a surprise to you? It was no surprise at all when I told my husband once that I would like the chance to be with another woman.

 

[hamburgerhelper]

My wife loves to be fisted. Started slow, but she kept wanting more fingers and then it was the whole hand. I love to do it too....

 

[conquen]

Does your partner have a fetish or something that gets him or her aroused that took you somewhat by surprise when you found out? Is it something that you know about but they have not admitted to? Mine has his fair share of kinks and very little surprises me but sometimes....

My wife was bitching at me once again for looking at porn on the net so I said " you mean to tell me that you're not thinking of another man while you fuck yourself with your toys? " it shut her up quick and got me hard as hell. I started kissing and fondling her and asked who she was thinkingof whe. She got off. When sbe said the name I almost came in my pants

 

[southern_gal]

My husband is the one that bought me my first toy. I used to feel guilty using it. Now I need to buy stock in everready. I am always amazed when men want to actually see their wife with another man. Maybe it is more of a pride thing? Kind of like showing off what he gets to play with all the time? Dunno?

 

[NotSoWellNdowed]

This was a surprise to you? It was no surprise at all when I told my husband once that I would like the chance to be with another woman.

"Surprise" is a sense of a fantasy slowly coming true. And surprised at the sober aspect.

 

[southern_gal]

"Surprise" is a sense of a fantasy slowly coming true. And surprised at the sober aspect.

Yeah a couple of mixed drinks can have an effect. Get a bunch of us together without the guys and after a couple of hours it becomes a sight. Not one that you'd want anyone else to see after but a sight none the less.

 

[marriedlooker73]

I have found a large number of non consent stories in our browser history. Ive recently been collecting videos of a rougher nature to share with her.

 

[southern_gal]

I have found a large number of non consent stories in our browser history. Ive recently been collecting videos of a rougher nature to share with her.

Left there on purpose?

 

[Makitsu_Trinity]

I don't know if this counts but I think it's at least close. If I can get my husband to laugh really hard, like gut busting, pee your pants laughing, and I am laughing with him (this is key) then it excites both of us and usually evolves into something we both enjoy.

 

[MatthewVett]

Well, it wasn't that wild, but it was pretty fun when I found out that by trilling my R, I could make my ex orgasm. I don't know why she was so morbidly sensitive to that noise, but damn, did I take advantage of it every chance I got...

 

[DallasDonna]

I was surprised when he wanted a finger up his ass while I was blowing him.

 

[KEZZER]

When I first got with my wife, we worked together.She would take off her panties and leave them in my locker.I would take them and jerk off into them, and put them in her locker. She would then collect them and wear them for the rest of the day.I would get a text saying ¨check your locker ¨to let me know when she'd left me them.
She said she loved walking round work in come soaked panties.I was always a fan of sticky underwear anyway, so I always obliged, and walked round work all day rock hard, thinking about her wearing them.The anticipation of fuckin her later, still wearing them, was so exiting for both of us.
Not great for our productivity at work mind...........

 

[bob88]

I was surprised when he wanted a finger up his ass while I was blowing him.

So Donna, will we assume that you both enjoyed the experience, or shall we be left to wonder?

 

[MoleskineScribbler]

I was surprised when he wanted a finger up his ass while I was blowing him.

Probably more common than you'd imagine.

 

[DallasDonna]

So Donna, will we assume that you both enjoyed the experience, or shall we be left to wonder?

Very much so.

I asked him if he wanted a vibrator or dildo, and he said no.

 

[ADIDAS00]

Very much so.

I asked him if he wanted a vibrator or dildo, and he said no.

Maybe he does but he's too shy to ask....or embarrassed.

My girl keeps bringing up the strapon fantasy in a joking manner. I think she really wants to do it in the near future....and I'm so excited to let her

 

[yourwhitewife]

im not surprised by anything these days

 

[soflabbwlvr]

Big clits

My wife has always been obsessed with breasts--the bigger the better. She loves having her DDs sucked, pinched and played with, and she goes right for the breasts of any woman with whom she is playing. About a year ago she surprised me when she asked me to find pics and videos of big clits. For about a week she had me pull up videos of big clit women every time we had sex. She still makes that request about once a month.

I don't know where this interest came from, but I suspect it can be traced to our first threesome. The other woman had a big, meaty clit--the first big one she had ever seen. For the next month she talked about it incessantly, but we never saw the woman again and the conversation died out. That was almost 15 years ago.

 

[southern_gal]

It seems to normally be a guy thing to be boob obsessed but I would have no problems at all with the right woman wanting mine. Cannot do much about the other thing because mine is no bigger than normal. It's about the only normal sized part of me.

 

[toshiskitten]

My fiance has a foot fetish that I was really surprised to learn about when we first got together. He'd worship my feet for hours if I'd let him. He also recently started talking about me fucking him with a strapon which shocked the hell out of me but also turned me on a little.

My boyfriend gets off by tickling me. Something about me laughing and squriming really gets him going. He tickled me so bad one day he came twice and I laughed so hard I started purring.

 

[soflabbwlvr]

It seems to normally be a guy thing to be boob obsessed but I would have no problems at all with the right woman wanting mine. Cannot do much about the other thing because mine is no bigger than normal. It's about the only normal sized part of me.

She loves her own breasts--they are her favorite feature. Plus, her nipples transmit so much pleasure to the rest of her body. She can cum just from having her nipples sucked or pinched in the right way. The surest way to get into her panties is to spend some time with her breasts, first. I think that love of her own breasts is what led to her obsession with other women's breasts.

As for the clit, well, she's only experienced that one large one. The other women she has played with were average or less than average in that department. No matter, its not a deal breaker. That's why she has me find pics or videos--the big ones are really, really rare.

 

[jhuson]

Dohhhhh!

 

[southern_gal]

My wife is pretty boring sexually.

When I ask her what her fantasies are or what she thinks about when masturbating she either says "all my fantasies are about you" or "that's private."

She's pretty repressed sexually so I wonder if she is being truthful or has some really "out there" fantasies she is afraid to share with me.

That being said, I think she fantasizes about having a dick. After sucking me awhile, she likes to kneel between my legs and jack me off so it looks like it's her dick. When I try to engage her in why she likes doing it, she gets weirded out and changes the subject.

Another time, I was rubbing my cock up and down her crack and all over her asshole. I then grabbed her by the hair, turned her around and put it in her mouth. She started sucking it and then stopped and said, "Ewww it tastes like my butt." I said, "Good. Now fucking suck it, whore." She really started going to town on it then and when I reached down and touched her, she was dripping. When I later tried to talk to her about it she got all embarassed and refused to talk about it.

So to answer the question, I'm not really sure what her surprise turn-ons are as she really won't talk much about them.

She will talk. I promise you she will. Just let it be on her terms and resist the urge to pry. It will come. I am certain of this because you are describing me to a T. Even after a few years of being married, I was embarrassed to talk to my husband about my fantasies. I had plenty. I was raised in an extremely strict household and it took me quite a while to loosen up. In fact I'm still trying. It was a relief when I finally got the nerve to tell mine about SOME of the things going on in my mind. He still has no idea of some of the darker ones and I doubt he ever will. That is ok too I think. I read erotic stories for many years before joining Lit. Perhaps she would enjoy this site or at least the idea of erotica. Be patient and keep making small steps and before you know it she may have you tying her to the bed posts.