You can now call me the bionic single Dom

[lady-kat]

Hi Richard..


Big old hugs and kisses cause I'm in need of them back..

Life's kicking me in the pants again, and I'm too sick to fight it off any more.

I miss her too, btw. If she doesn't check in soon, I'm calling out the tropps down there to check on her. I know she doesn't have regular access to a puter where she's staying, but I wish she'd check in.

(Yes Sir, I sent her a flaming email saying that, but no telling when she'll get it.)

{{{rose}}}
sorry to hear life is kicking you too ;-(

i hope she checks in very soon. i worry too

 

[Richard49]

my significant other. when i tell him to spank me he does it so lgihtly. it's like he's afraid i'll shatter...and when i asked him to spank my pussy he just gave me a weird look like "you're not serious are you?" and then he didn't do that hard either. i can't even imagine what he would say if i told him to tie me up.

don't they have to let her in the country if she is your wife? isn't that the law?

The idea that if you marry someone they have to be let in the country is false ...... and in this case I am not sure that if she were my wife ..... we could ever get her back in anyway .....
and ya I'd marry her

The other issue
brings up two questions that ope others wil lalso add there thoughts to

1) can a nilla be trained to be a Dom
2) why do those of us in BDSM waste time with nillas

 

[Richard49]

rose I forgot something

with a big old bear hug

 

[lady-kat]

The other issue
brings up two questions that ope others wil lalso add there thoughts to

1) can a nilla be trained to be a Dom
2) why do those of us in BDSM waste time with nillas

good questions.
may i expand on number one?
1a. is it worth the effort to try and train a nilla to be a Dom?

2. wondering - if it's even possible to be happy in a sexual relationship with a nilla if a person is really wanting a BDSM relationship. or..
if one partner is wired one way - and the other in a total opposit direction...?

 

[Bandit58]

Hi Richard, rose, lady_kat
Good news, Master will be home this evening, after his dialysis treatment. Because He will be spending time on haemodialysis they can still keep a watchful eye on Him without Him having to be there 24/7, and He is much happier at home anyway.

I am so happy...I miss Him when He is away

 

[Bandit58]

<snip>

1) can a nilla be trained to be a Dom
2) why do those of us in BDSM waste time with nillas

Master was in His 40s when He began as a Dom......though He did have dominant tendencies throughout His life. I believe if it is not in us somewhere then it just will not work, the heart will not be in it.

I am a new submissive in that I had not had any D/s experience before I met Master, but the submissiveness was always there in my nilla marriage, which got me taken advantage of and emotionally abused for years. Also fantasies as a child of being tied up, teased and controlled. I'm still exploring, reading and learning, and opening my mind to new things. I've also discovered how wonderful being spanked is!

 

[lady-kat]

Hi Richard, rose, lady_kat
Good news, Master will be home this evening, after his dialysis treatment. Because He will be spending time on haemodialysis they can still keep a watchful eye on Him without Him having to be there 24/7, and He is much happier at home anyway.

I am so happy...I miss Him when He is away

Hi Bandit.

that is great news! {{hug}}

 

[Richard49]

Hi Richard, rose, lady_kat
Good news, Master will be home this evening, after his dialysis treatment. Because He will be spending time on haemodialysis they can still keep a watchful eye on Him without Him having to be there 24/7, and He is much happier at home anyway.

I am so happy...I miss Him when He is away

This pleases me to hear
please keep us posted

 

[Richard49]

Master was in His 40s when He began as a Dom......though He did have dominant tendencies throughout His life. I believe if it is not in us somewhere then it just will not work, the heart will not be in it.

I am a new submissive in that I had not had any D/s experience before I met Master, but the submissiveness was always there in my nilla marriage, which got me taken advantage of and emotionally abused for years. Also fantasies as a child of being tied up, teased and controlled. I'm still exploring, reading and learning, and opening my mind to new things. I've also discovered how wonderful being spanked is!

I think what you shared above about your nilla marrage kind of proves my point ............................

 

[D's mariposa]

((((Richard, kat, Bandit)))

Glad E/everyone's doing sort of okay. (Well, some of us are more okay than other..)

Thanks for the card Richard, gave me a laugh.

 

[Richard49]

((((Richard, kat, Bandit)))

Glad E/everyone's doing sort of okay. (Well, some of us are more okay than other..)

Thanks for the card Richard, gave me a laugh.

Check your e-mail

OK = it could be better but it also could be worse

 

[D's mariposa]

Got it..

 

[Richard49]

Ysa called me
she was crying
said cause she was happy hearing my voice

she is ok
for now

 

[PrettyKitty427]

The idea that if you marry someone they have to be let in the country is false ...... and in this case I am not sure that if she were my wife ..... we could ever get her back in anyway .....
and ya I'd marry her

The other issue
brings up two questions that ope others wil lalso add there thoughts to

1) can a nilla be trained to be a Dom
2) why do those of us in BDSM waste time with nillas

I never really thought I was wasting my time. We get along very well. He is very good to me. It's not as though he never takes control. Whenever I go down on him he fills his hands with my hair and completely controls it. His problem is basically that he was with some dumbass straight lace puritan missionary only please chick for too long. He seems almost submissive at times. Hmmm..maybe I should try spanking him.

 

[PrettyKitty427]

Master was in His 40s when He began as a Dom......though He did have dominant tendencies throughout His life. I believe if it is not in us somewhere then it just will not work, the heart will not be in it.

I am a new submissive in that I had not had any D/s experience before I met Master, but the submissiveness was always there in my nilla marriage, which got me taken advantage of and emotionally abused for years. Also fantasies as a child of being tied up, teased and controlled. I'm still exploring, reading and learning, and opening my mind to new things. I've also discovered how wonderful being spanked is!

if you think that is weird try this:
when i was a kid i used to imagine i was april o neill and the ninja turtles were taking advantage of me

(yes i know i have issues)

 

[Bandit58]

if you think that is weird try this:
when i was a kid i used to imagine i was april o neill and the ninja turtles were taking advantage of me

(yes i know i have issues)

LOL I checked your profile, you are almost the exact age of my son (and he and I used to watch Ninja Turtles together )

 

[PrettyKitty427]

LOL I checked your profile, you are almost the exact age of my son (and he and I used to watch Ninja Turtles together )

does he want to spank me? LOL

 

[Richard49]

I have finally reached the end of my rope
I can to handle any more
I sent Mary to her house with all her garden tools
and all plants that are not in ground here

I am thinking I need to release a person or two from any committment or obligation they have to me

I am so alone

on the upside
Denise has gotten better news on her cancer treatment

She will not have to, at this point, go for the 4 days massive chemo

 

[lady-kat]

I have finally reached the end of my rope
I can to handle any more
I sent Mary to her house with all her garden tools
and all plants that are not in ground here

I am thinking I need to release a person or two from any committment or obligation they have to me

I am so alone

on the upside
Denise has gotten better news on her cancer treatment

She will not have to, at this point, go for the 4 days massive chemo

Denise would like to be right now doing a big time "happy dance"
& who knows? i may yet <smile>

thank U my friend for sharing in my news and for caring that i had good news

wish i could spread some of that happy dance your way {{hug}}

 

[snowy ciara]

I'll join you for a happy dance, Ms. Kat.

And I see Richard got to talk to his young lady, too. Sorry about your garden issues, though.

Er, cat persons.. What do you do when your fuzzbrain brings you a present? Eeyore brought me a garter snake this afternoon. I told her what a brave and beautiful kitty she is, and then I realised the darn thing was still alive...

It slithered off into the grass and she chased it and brought it back, dead this time. So I, er, gave it a snakey little funeral, but now she's off doing the mighty huntress thing in the back yard again.

 

[Richard49]

It was NOT garden issues
it is issues with life
I am over whelmed
to much loss
to many tears
to hopeless and helpless

and damn no one listens to me

 

[Bandit58]

LOL ciara......she loves you, that's why she brings you gifts. Either that, or she wants you to prepare them for eating, like my cat used to when he brought me a small dead rabbit and dropped it on his feeding mat!

There are no snakes in NZ (where I used to live) but there definitely are in Australia (where I am now) but have yet to see one, and we don't have a cat here

 

[snowy ciara]

giggling madly You're right, Bandit.. I did a web search on the hunting habits of domesticated kitty beasts. I lost the link already, but the discovery channel sent me to a site that said that she's acting on instincts and she either thinks I'm her cub and is feeding me, or she thinks I am Alpha Kitty in her pride. I'd rather be the Alpha Kitty..

does a lioness like RAAAAAAAAAAR!

(I have a sneaking feeling she thinks I'm her cub, though; Richard told me she has me well trained.. Meow!)

 

[Richard49]

I lost another freind
Joe was sort of the founder of the BDSM community here
He also was VN vet
With lung problems
He was up to 3 liters of oxygen a day

so another VN vet bites the dust

me next I hope

 

[PrettyKitty427]

richard,darling, the PM box is full so I sent you an email

HUGS for you

Kitty