yes,another threesome thread

[boot lover]

I know there are other threesome threads but with this new format,I can't find jack-shit.And the search option doesn't seem to work.

Ok, I have known for quite some time now that my wife is bi-curious and wanted to explore that part of herself.We have talked about it for years but quite honestly,didn't know how to go about finding the third and we had concerns about someone being left out,jealousy,the day after ect.

Well,this weekend it actually happened.She had met this girl and through conversations and all 3 of us going out for a night out a few times,deterimind that this could work.

Now I had in my mind the fact that this was my wifes experiance and in effect that I was the third. It was auckward at first,but everyone got right into it,including me. We all made the effort not to exclude anyone and I can tell you from my personal experiance, it was TOTALLY AWESOME!!!!! Everyone enjoyed it .In fact,we are palnning on doing it again very soon.

The "day after" I had to work so I was gone before anyone woke up but my wife said it was very relaxed and "ok". Everytime I bring up the experince,she gets this perma-grin on her face,she really enjoyed herself as did the other woman.This other woman is very open minded when it come to sex.This was not her first time.

I am not asking any particulair question.I just had to tell someone and this is not the sort of thing you really tell just anyone.I don't know anyone that I would trust with this.

Anyone else have a positive experiance???

 

[Sh0t]

Pretty much all of my multiple-sex experiences have been positive. My wife is flammingly bi and her prime hobby is turning out bi-curious girls.

I'm happy you had a very positive experience. May you have hundreds more.

 

[tealsphynx]

My husband and I haven't tried the threesome thing (yet). Buut, I was in a relationship with someone and had a few good experiences with him and a couple other girls. Not to sound discouraging but I think the only reason those were good experiences was a point of view thing. He saw it as an acceptable way to cheat on me. The girls were happy because they wanted to sleep with him even if that meant sleeping with me too...and little did any of them know that I was using him as bait so I could sleep with them
So it was a happy disfunctional triangle!
My husband know's my feelings about other women and sex and has repeatedly told me I can go off on my own and sleep with them, but I also like to watch my partner fucking other women (which is another reason why I think threesomes are great!). And although we haven't done it yet it is on my list of things/parts of me I want to share with him.
Some people might think I'm wrong for doing/wanting this, so I'll just put my hand out and let them slap it and tell me I'm bad and continue doing as I please.

 

[Bluewolfcry]

My husband and I haven't tried the threesome thing (yet). Buut, I was in a relationship with someone and had a few good experiences with him and a couple other girls. Not to sound discouraging but I think the only reason those were good experiences was a point of view thing. He saw it as an acceptable way to cheat on me. The girls were happy because they wanted to sleep with him even if that meant sleeping with me too...and little did any of them know that I was using him as bait so I could sleep with them
So it was a happy disfunctional triangle!
My husband know's my feelings about other women and sex and has repeatedly told me I can go off on my own and sleep with them, but I also like to watch my partner fucking other women (which is another reason why I think threesomes are great!). And although we haven't done it yet it is on my list of things/parts of me I want to share with him.
Some people might think I'm wrong for doing/wanting this, so I'll just put my hand out and let them slap it and tell me I'm bad and continue doing as I please.

I agree with this.....any times i have had a threesome it was in an already dysfuctional relationship so if things did go sour i would not be too heartbroken.

I am glad that some people are able to detach thier jealousy and issues to be able to use the threesome as a GOOD thing!

But be prepared, just in case things do go bad.....

How will you feel if your wife and the new girl go at it just them and don't invite you????

Would that be considered cheating to you????

These are options that you should also discuss with your SO.

Once you open the gates of your relationship it is hard to close them, so be careful and PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE practice safe sex!

Good LUck!

 

[boot lover]

I agree with this.....any times i have had a threesome it was in an already dysfuctional relationship so if things did go sour i would not be too heartbroken.

I am glad that some people are able to detach thier jealousy and issues to be able to use the threesome as a GOOD thing!

But be prepared, just in case things do go bad.....

How will you feel if your wife and the new girl go at it just them and don't invite you????

Would that be considered cheating to you????

These are options that you should also discuss with your SO.

Once you open the gates of your relationship it is hard to close them, so be careful and PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE practice safe sex!

Good LUck!

Well I have thought of that ,the part of me not particpating.To be honest,her needs from a woman is something that I just cannot provide,no matter how hard I could try.I simply am not of that gender.Cheating??? Depends on your point of view.I'll know about it beforehand. As long as I am part of it sometimes?? I don't know yet. I f she wanted to be with another man,I would very much be hurt and would not stand for that at all.Not to sound controlling or bragging ,but I am a man after all and I should be able to fullfill that part of her.

 

[sxylegs]

Pretty much all of my multiple-sex experiences have been positive. My wife is flammingly bi and her prime hobby is turning out bi-curious girls.

I'm happy you had a very positive experience. May you have hundreds more.

Do you live close to Indy....would love to meet your wife!!!

 

[ghosst_K&H]

I serve a Bi Domme couple, so everytime we play it could be considered a threesome. It's worked well for oer a year now, and we plan on buying a house together.

 

[kingfisher8867]

i meet my girlfreind online over 4 years ago, she has a hubby and is happy ( its his kink) to see us 2 playing together and joining in.

I never saw myself as a 3some sort, but no one is being hurt and no marriage is being spilt up, we love it