Wow...

[PowerLifter84]

My girlfriend is starting to get pretty freaky. Her birthday is coming up in two weeks and we're heading to the porn store to buy some toys to use and she wants to use one on the ride home since she would find it hot masturbating while I drive. I'm sure this will last a whole two-to-three minutes, or until I can find a place to pull over and join in on the fun. Then last night talking on the phone, she tells me that she wants to try anal sex as long as I promise not to hurt her and I said I would do my best!!! I thought I was horrilbe in bed, to be honest, but she has NEVER been like this with anyone else before and even said it's fun thinking about and getting ready to do it, yet she's a bit nervous. I feel nervous, too, since it's both of our's first time on doing anal sex.

I don't want to ask a bunch of questions on anal that have been asked several times so I'm doing to do a little bit of research and see what I come up with. Afterward there may be a few questions and I'll attach them to this thread. I'm pretty happy about this and nervous at the same time since she's heard a lot of horror stories about how painful anal is. I may wait this one out till the end of next month since we're hitting up a NIN concert and getting a hotel afterwards since it would be too late to make the 3-hour drive home. At least we would be alone and have nothing to worry or rush us in there.

 

[pocahontas]

What a wonderful man

Hello there Powerlifter. You sound like a terrific lover. You want to pace things and take it slow. I hope every thing works out for you and your honey.

 

[PowerLifter84]

Ha, I don't know about terrific but apparently I'm doing something right. Tonight she wanted to have sex while I was at work but I had to decline since it was time to leave and go to the gym. She has also talked about taking some pics of us having sex but for some reason a video is out of the picture.

This is pretty wild for me since I'm not used to this. I'm sure for others it's just a walk in the park for them, LOL.

 

[-Nyx]

Where are you going to the NIN concert? I'm going to see one next month too.

And good luck with the anal, I wish I could help, but I've never done it either!

 

[Halo_n_horns]

And good luck with the anal, I wish I could help, but I've never done it either!

Both of you should read this: https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=327313
as well as the other info in the Blank Manual. Then its just a matter of having the right partner and having fun.

 

[SweetErika]

I'm glad things are going so well for you, PL! I think your idea to give anal a try when you're alone and unhurried is a good one, just make sure you're not too tired and have time for plenty of foreplay. Consider working up to it in the next month with fingers and toys (but use condoms with toys, particularly the "jelly" type, unless they can be cleaned really well). In addition to everything else, we learned:
1) The type of lube is almost important as using lots of lube. We recently started using silicone lube, and will never go back to water-based.

2) It's a process, and some pain or failure doesn't mean it's bad or hopeless. You just need to learn more (I think it'd help if she read up on it as well), try new things, and keep at it.

3) Clitoral, or other types of stimulation she really likes, during helps immensely. This is another place vibes really come in handy.

Happy reading!

 

[PowerLifter84]

-Nyx, the NIN concert we're going to is in Lexington, KY.

Erika,

Lube is definitly a must and I'll check into getting some AstroGlide (since a lot of people talk about how good it is) at the store when we go in a few weeks. Starting out with a finger and moving up sounds like a great idea and will give it a shot. Since you recommend using a condom on a toy and dick, what about the finger, or is it not that bad?

 

[houseman]

Ha, I don't know about terrific but apparently I'm doing something right. Tonight she wanted to have sex while I was at work but I had to decline since it was time to leave and go to the gym. She has also talked about taking some pics of us having sex but for some reason a video is out of the picture.

This is pretty wild for me since I'm not used to this. I'm sure for others it's just a walk in the park for them, LOL.

My girl gets pissed off when I decline sex for the gym.

Never have I ever passed up the gym for sex. Some thing in life are just TOO important!

 

[PowerLifter84]

Exactly!

Three things I will pass sex up on are food, gym and sleep. I become cranky if I miss a meal, not 8 hours of sleep or training hard in the gym, LOL. Any other time of the day is fair game.

 

[houseman]

Exactly!

Three things I will pass sex up on are food, gym and sleep. I become cranky if I miss a meal, not 8 hours of sleep or training hard in the gym, LOL. Any other time of the day is fair game.

Ditto that. Sleep I might be able to get away with but not often.

Food? Don't think so. Get me between one of my 8 meals. Not during!

Damn women. Easy concept to understand....

lol

 

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[silverwhisper]

that's fucking awesome!

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