Would you wait...

[WARNINGWARNING]

rooted too much in the past.

Though our history informs our future, but does not direct it.

 

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wait,what?

 

[SonNeedsMommy]

... until someone you were stalking posted before replying?

I have done this once or twice

 

[WARNINGWARNING]

I have done this once or twice

but THIS was not such an instance.

 

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...only for a year or so.

 

[THROBBS]

wait...what?

 

[Iceprincess12]

People I stalk rarely post so I would be waiting forever.

 

[THROBBS]

People I stalk rarely post so I would be waiting forever.

That makes me wonder just what makes them stalk-worthy?

 

[Iceprincess12]

That makes me wonder just what makes them stalk-worthy?

They may have posted in another thread and said something I found intriguing. They have an interesting profile. I like avatars also. I am one of those people that judge a book by the cover. After all there is a reason you chose your avatar.

 

[THROBBS]

They may have posted in another thread and said something I found intriguing. They have an interesting profile. I like avatars also. I am one of those people that judge a book by the cover. After all there is a reason you chose your avatar.

ah.

In that case rather than wait, are you proactive?

 

[Iceprincess12]

ah.

In that case rather than wait, are you proactive?

Absolutely. If I want to talk with someone I have no problem sending a pm.

 

[THROBBS]

Absolutely. If I want to talk with someone I have no problem sending a pm.

That seems to be a good general policy.

 

[Iceprincess12]

That seems to be a good general policy.

Yes, it has worked well. I think most ladies here are probably the same though. They reach out if they are interested rather than wait. Men are sometimes slow, haha.

 

[coacheric]

Yes, it has worked well. I think most ladies here are probably the same though. They reach out if they are interested rather than wait. Men are sometimes slow, haha.

I'd agree with being slow for myself. I tend to think that I probably send that PM and just say hi but more times I don't send it along.

 

[THROBBS]

Yes, it has worked well. I think most ladies here are probably the same though. They reach out if they are interested rather than wait. Men are sometimes slow, haha.

I'd agree with being slow for myself. I tend to think that I probably send that PM and just say hi but more times I don't send it along.

hmmmm.

I suspect the "slow" group of men are over-shadowed by the "shot-gun" men (who are all — "can I have yo' number? Can I have it?")

 

[Iceprincess12]

I'd agree with being slow for myself. I tend to think that I probably send that PM and just say hi but more times I don't send it along.

you could always send 1 from the random pm thread if you are worried. Most people are not offended by thread pm's.

 

[Iceprincess12]

hmmmm.

I suspect the "slow" group of men are over-shadowed by the "shot-gun" men (who are all — "can I have yo' number? Can I have it?")

Those are usually the random guys that send it to everyone. I don't think anyone falls for those.

 

[THROBBS]

Those are usually the random guys that send it to everyone. I don't think anyone falls for those.

yes. "shot gun"... aka "scatter gun"

hope to hit something.

I expect that some are successful, if they tailor their "loads" heh heh.

Squeaky wheels and all.

 

[coacheric]

you could always send 1 from the random pm thread if you are worried. Most people are not offended by thread pm's.

I'm getting better. I sent you one from one of them threads but I have reached out to others because of something they posted or how they replied.

But I will say that there have only ever been maybe two women that contacted me first....other then the 2 posts and then a PM asking me for sex......PASS!

 

[Iceprincess12]

yes. "shot gun"... aka "scatter gun"

hope to hit something.

I expect that some are successful, if they tailor their "loads" heh heh.

Squeaky wheels and all.

I have met a few people who turned out to be fun, but most of them are more desperate.

 

[THROBBS]

I have met a few people who turned out to be fun, but most of them are more desperate.

Some time it feels that way (either that a few are nice and most are desperate — or— it feels desperate)

 

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AH HA!
so THAT was my password!

I wasn't just waiting, just forgetting.

 

[Little_Sister]

AH HA!
so THAT was my password!

I wasn't just waiting, just forgetting.

2006!!

 

[THROBBS]

2006!!

is it!?

wooooaaaah!

talk about day light savings time...
or sumthin!

Or, do you mean that you've been waiting since 2006!?