Would you sleep with a married person?

It depends on the circumstances. I certainly wouldn't, and haven't, ever put myself in the position of being a "home wrecker".

I've had sex with three married people in my 61 years of life.

The first was my second boss ever and the first after I'd graduated from college. She was 16 years older than me but didn’t look it. She had a very youthful face, and was very short and petite with a fit and shapely body and strawberry blond hair. She was cute and that big red hair was always seductively teased and tousled. She wasn’t classically “beautiful”, but was just about the cutest girl…err woman…I have EVER seen. I was smitten the first time I saw her which was in my pre-employment interview. Her husband, who was the general manager of HER family's business, was a cheating, philandering, drunkard and she was way too good for him.

In any event, we became very close and I'd hang out at their place, with HER, while he was out fucking around. It was inescapable and, as it turned out, she'd really been pursuing me but I'd been a bit slow on the uptake. When I finally made "the move" she'd been wanting me to make, she literally gasped (around our intertwined tongues), "What too you so long?"

The second....when I was in my mid to late twenties, was a cute young cowgirl (sadly now passed from breast cancer) with a six year old son. She was separated from her abusive husband and was in the midst of divorce proceedings. She got her final divorce judgment while we were still dating. I would have loved to make a life with that girl but I was, "Too good," as she, ultimately, was interested in the "bad boy" type. She married, and divorced, what turned out to be another abuser.

25 years later and the last was a married bisexual man (like me)with whom I corresponded for sometime before we finally arranged a "date"...as noted in one of my stories.

That's it. Not really a cereal philanderer but...YES...I would again sleep with the right married person, under the right circumstances, but only with men. In my "mature" years I've no interest, or intention, of sleeping with any woman but my wife.
 
Yes, if it's problem it's his problem.
I was once seeing a married guy at work. We'd normally go to a hotel after work but sometimes do it at work late when others had gone.
One time we had a party at work and partners were invited. He came with his wife and I thought I'd have some fun. So I pursuaded him to come upstairs to his office and started sucking him off. Then I asked him to come in me. He went downstairs first and I stayed to tidy up, then went down, went over to him and his wife and started chatting to them. I didn't tell her that her husband's spunk was dribbling into my knickers!

I've been friends with women whose husbands are/have been my lovers. But except for my cousin and her husband, it's never been this short a span between fucking the husband and socialising with the wife.
 
I do most nights.
If I am sleeping with someone, she is married just about all the time
No wait... all the time since I have been married
 
I did many years ago. I was single and she was married. We became good friends and eventually lovers. At first she "only" gave me blow jobs. Eventually we did screw too. She was in a loveless marriage and did not want to leave because of the kids. It worked for a while. Eventually she did leave her husband, but not for me. And has since happily remarried, as have I. I do recall those times fondly. We weren't meant to spend our lives together, but man we had some fun times.
 
I would and I do. I have sex with a married man on a regular basis. I felt guilty about it the first time and swore to never let it happen again but it did and then it became a regular thing. It's just sex - good sex too. I don't have any expectations. I don't see the harm. He's the cheater, not me.
 
I have slept with few married woman and have shared their husbands if they were right for me.
 
I haven't knowingly. All partners know and accept yes. I would never accept or trust someone that is sneaking around.
 
I ask why? You can't trust them. Or maybe it's a one off because you got lucky
 
I ask why? You can't trust them. Or maybe it's a one off because you got lucky

The question is not about trust - but about sexual relationship. One can never know why a married person strays outside marriage.

I personally believe that monogamy is unnatural. Sexual attraction can happen at any time with anybody. It's a physical response and it has nothing to do with verbal or emotional commitments.
 
Only caper with married men

I'm married and reasonably happy with my husband, but Monogamy dont work for me. If i do go out on him, i prefer a married guy who is happy in his marriage. Last thing i need is a BF driving by my house, sending me flowers, or any of that. Also, i wont have anything to do with a guy if i know his wife.
 
I'm married and reasonably happy with my husband, but Monogamy dont work for me. If i do go out on him, i prefer a married guy who is happy in his marriage. Last thing i need is a BF driving by my house, sending me flowers, or any of that. Also, i wont have anything to do with a guy if i know his wife.

I agree as well maybe not in every sense cuz we haven't talked extensively about this. However, I do believe that you can have a relationship outside of your marriage that does not take away from the marriage. There are times when it's simply a physical act and there's times when your meeting and need that you're not getting in your marriage. I love my wife and coming to this site is not a matter of not caring about her or her not turning me on it's about meeting a need that's just not met in my everyday life.
 
My "rule" has always been that I would only do something if I would be happy to tell my wife about it (and she wouldn't be upset to hear it). Even when my first marriage was failing I turned down opportunities.

Then, after we split, I met a woman whom I knew was married (her marriage was also falling apart) and we became lovers - part of comforting each other I guess and it helped both of us.

However another woman I met and jumped into bed with hadn't told me she was married, when I found out I ended it as I wasn't happy with the deceipt.

A bit of a ramble to say that these things are not always black and white.
 
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