Would you consider it a sign of low self-esteem…

[J.B.]

If you have this need to keep voicing who your SO is and basically making sure the world could not mistake that this person was with you?

 

[honeylick]

-giggle-

 

[LukkyKnight]

Is it a real or imaginary SO?

 

[Olivianna]

Did you ever consider that this person is just attempting to present a good cover for their undercover job as a double agent?

 

[Rambling Rose]

Wait. Are Jessie and Cibo back together again?

 

[peachykeen]

Dunno, depends on the situation and how they were going about it. Maybe they just wanna show off a bit, you know? Like when you buy a new outfit that makes your bum look great or whatever and you walk around all like, "Like my new jeans? They were on sale" and then everyone has to look at your bum.

 

[Rambling Rose]

Girls do that a lot with breast implants too, peachy.

 

[estevie]

If you have this need to keep voicing who your SO is and basically making sure the world could not mistake that this person was with you?

Perhaps.


Maybe its shock. Ya know, "He's with me?!?

 

[kotori]

Dunno, depends on the situation and how they were going about it. Maybe they just wanna show off a bit, you know? Like when you buy a new outfit that makes your bum look great or whatever and you walk around all like, "Like my new jeans? They were on sale" and then everyone has to look at your bum.

Or your tattoo. That is your tattoo, PK. I miss that "bum."

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I don't think so.. sometimes, you're just so happy, you wanna tell the world.

 

[J.B.]

Is it a real or imaginary SO?

I duno never met the SO. I just keep hearing this person harp and harp on the fact the (s)he's with him/her.
I'm shutting up now

 

[Bluesboy2]

I periodically make mention or flirt with my SO, whom I met here at Lit. She also is an avid poster as am I. So, since I am an incorrigible flirt I like to remind her that she is always the first on the list.
However, it is not out of a need to let the world know. It is to remind HER. Usually if she is being flirted with I avoid that thread so as to avoid scaring them off.

 

[hiddenself]

If it goes past...

the first few weeks of the relationship, I'd wonder...

Low self-esteem? Maybe.
Insecurities?
Competitiveness? (if the SO is hot, rich, whatever)

Send him/her to a therapist.

hs

 

[sexy-girl]

i like my girlfriend shes my best friend and i do a lot of stuff together with her


so when i talk about the things i do or have done her name usually comes up


i dont think it matters if someone talks about their SO a lot

 

[april-wine]

i like my girlfriend shes my best friend and i do a lot of stuff together with her


so when i talk about the things i do or have done her name usually comes up


i dont think it matters if someone talks about their SO a lot

You never TALK about the juicy stuff though.......

 

[sexy-girl]

You never TALK about the juicy stuff though.......

i guess im a tease at heart ... or just shy one of the two

 

[april-wine]

i guess im a tease at heart ... or just shy one of the two

TEASE

 

[freakygirl]

Are you talking about someone in real life or online?

 

[april-wine]

Hmmmm I don't mention my lover much at all......'Cept there in my location........

 

[J.B.]

I know I should let this die because I can see where this is leading, but …

I’m not talking about the occasional brag or reassurance. I’m talking about the “well blah blah blah because <name> is with me.”

“blah blah blah <name> and I have been together X number of weeks/months/years.”

“<name> is my so”
and on, and on, and on…

I’m going to let this drop now because this can only lead to me getting in to trouble.

 

[april-wine]

I could lead you into trouble......

 

[J.B.]

I could lead you into trouble......

who's complaining about that?

 

[Khadgar]

low self esteeme? i knew someone like that.... thought my firend was the god of sliced bread. i don't think she had low self esteem, but she had some serious obsession and stalking problems....

 

[Rambling Rose]

I’m going to let this drop now because this can only lead to me getting in to trouble.

No fucking way! You weren't so worried about the trouble it would cause when you chose to start a thread about this issue.

Who's pushin' your buttons, JB? Just say it.

 

[freakygirl]

No fucking way! You weren't so worried about the trouble it would cause when you chose to start a thread about this issue.

Who's pushin' your buttons, JB? Just say it.

I heart you.