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I never cheated in my 2 marriages. It just didn't seem right. The wife would be upset and hurt. That was enough.
 
Over half of all women cheat... Yet none of them are Literotica users.

How strange!
 
vizio said:
If you knew you wouldn't get caught would you cheat on your spouse or significant other?
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If that question had been posed to me years ago I would have said no, absolutely not. If my lady did it to me Id be devastated. Now, that said my lady and I are decades down the line, and whilst we are not in a sexless marriage were pretty dammed close!

I will state from the outset that as I write this I have never "cheated" on my wife! I know that in essence, the definition of cheating can vary from person to person. Some consider texting and flirting cheating, and I get that. But what we are talking about here I assume is physical sexual contact, with the emphasis on the sexual bit. I say this for a reason. In my marriage, I crave physical contact. It is a fact that my sex drive and imagination are more active now than they were years ago, whilst my ladys has sadly wained! Now I still train and go to the gym, and I sometimes have a female partner. Is that wrong? Is that cheating? No, of course it isnt, so is mutual masturbation (sex) using each others bodies cheating. Its basically no different from me masturbating myself! Its a required physical release in much the same way as going town the gym or playing squash!

Now, I know some will take exception to this and say that Im trying to justify going over the side as were. Maybe I am, who knows. But let me finish by saying this. I love my wife dearly. She is sexy, intelligent, and I still desire her as much now as I did thirty-odd years ago. If I didn't maybe life would be much much simpler! So if this is a way for me to be better focused on my family, life, and work without constantly being sexually frustrated, irritable, and even allowing bitterness at some point to creep into our relationship why shouldn't I in this day and age consider that option of a friend with benefits. Isn't it just like having a squash partner?!

I dare say I will get flack for this opinion, but lets see what come back?
 
I think it would be exciting and hot if my wonderful Mom cheated on my dad with many different people
 
vizio said:
If you knew you wouldn't get caught would you cheat on your spouse or significant other?
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I would prefer to have the fortitude not to. It's not about a spouse or significant other it's about personal integrity and one's tolerance for feelings of guilt. My tolerancefor guilt is low. I prefer not to feel that way.

That said, given the opportunity and circumstances where a person is emotionally or sexually needy, everyone cheats. Those that don't are fairly sated amd or have little opportunity. Attractive people have more opportunity.

It strikes me as odd how often it seems, anecdotally, that a fairly attractive person will cheat with a less attractive person. Mates tend to be somewhat matched, cheaters less so.
 
No. I have had the opportunity. But sex with out my wife involved doesn't interest me.
 
vizio said:
If you knew you wouldn't get caught would you cheat on your spouse or significant other?
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If you're going to be any good at infidelity, that's the whole idea.

The fear of getting caught is a control mechanism to enforce sexual faithfulness.

That's why online forums are so popular, reduced chance of getting caught.

It's also why business travel, conferences and conventions are such a big industry.
 
I was recently befriended by a woman online at one of those cheating web sites.

I agreed to a meet and greet today at a nearby store to browse dresses, lingerie, panties, which is a safe, comfortable way to meet an online woman in a public place.

I never post pictures of myself, so she wanted to meet first in the parking lot before going in the store to make sure I wasn't hideous, etc

If you know how these online things usually go, the woman's pictures are usually from 10 years ago and your first instinct is "oh shit, need an excuse to leave now".

What a surprise.

5'3", maybe 120lbs, blonde, in a little tube top and short skirt, heels.

Tanned, fit, tiny tits, big nipples, and the softest skin I've touched in some time. Big smile, walked up and kissed me immediately.

We wound up going for a drive in my convertible, picked up some chilled white wine at the store and went to a big lakeside park and started making out at a picnic table like teenagers, then into the woods to lie down, where she unzipped me and gave me the best outdoor blowjob I've had in a lonng time.

Best of all, she's married, doesn't want to leave her husband, just wants one adventurous/kinky lover, no commitment.

We'll see how that goes, but yum, that was fun.
 
I only cheat on croquet.
But not in relationships. If they will cheat with you they will cheat on you. Plus, it's a form of lying and I'm a terrible liar. Can't stop laughing, which is why I can only do it during a "fun" outdoorsy drinking game.
Also, lying liars lie. So, how can you believe anything out of a liars mouth? Like, if they will lie straight to your face. The whole relationship is a lie.
 
If I'm in a place where I want to be with someone new and don't want my partner to know, I might as well cheat. The current relationship is clearly not working
 
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