Women. Would you be put off dating a guy if things were going well, then...

[Slimmyme]

after several weeks he told you he occasionally wore make-up and skirts?

 

[Technodivinitas]

Oh, HELL no!

Unless it turned out that he looked like absolute shit in them...

 

[snowy ciara]

No I wouldn't, but if he looked better than me, or if he had better breasts than me, I might ask him not to cross dress when we're out together. I wanna be the cute one, darnit!!

 

[tythisredheadup]

Re: Oh, HELL no!

Unless it turned out that he looked like absolute shit in them...

Actually, it would depend if he looked BETTER than I did in them..

 

[Netzach]

my fiance looks better in fishnets than I do, the cunt.

 

[shy slave]

after several weeks he told you he occasionally wore make-up and skirts?

This is going to sound terrible but I would struggle to cope with it. Never thought I would and had always thought I was open minded. A friend has a partner who needs to do this regularly, He subscribes to particulr sites and cannot have sex or play out fantasies unless dressed in this way. So please feel free to levy all/any critical comments at me, I do not have issues with anyone else who does dress up, (have met her partner he is a nice man) but would not feel comfortable about dating someone who cross-dressed. *Hangs head for being honest and waits for comments about being narrow minded*

 

[snowy ciara]

hugs shy

I think I understand the cross dressing guy thing just cause sometimes I want to do the boy thing. But there are some things that squick me. Like humiliation stuff. I can take the lighter stuff, but some of the stuff I've read here makes me want to punch the humiliator in the nose. Not that I would, cause it's between them and the humiliatee.

Er, the gist of that is, i'm not gonna throw rotten tomatoes at you for the way you feel.

Unless it's your kink. Then maybe I would.

 

[shy slave]

Thanks Snowy

hugs shy

I think I understand the cross dressing guy thing just cause sometimes I want to do the boy thing. But there are some things that squick me. Like humiliation stuff. I can take the lighter stuff, but some of the stuff I've read here makes me want to punch the humiliator in the nose. Not that I would, cause it's between them and the humiliatee.

Er, the gist of that is, i'm not gonna throw rotten tomatoes at you for the way you feel.

Unless it's your kink. Then maybe I would.

Glad your not offended but you have made me smile, if you look at some of the threads, humiliation is very much my thing lol

what me to fetch the tomatoes now

 

[snowy ciara]

If you want me to! I can google (random cricket reference) your tomatoes like there's no tomorrow..

The reason I say I'm a lightweight re humiliation is cause I can take the more teasing stuff. But if it got really cruel, I'd probably cry.

 

[incubus'_sub]

You can send some tomatoes my way too because it's one of the few things that would actually turn me off. I'm not horrified, worried by it, disgusted by it in any way, it's just on my small list of turn offs, together with adult babies in nappies. I just like my men to be men.

 

[Netzach]

I'm turned off by guys who try yanking my hair. It works wonders for some people, there's nothing wrong with it, I'd wager a majority of the women around here like it, I just don't and won't.

You don't have to apologize for turnoffs.

 

[Technodivinitas]

For the record, one of my longest running fantasies is to get hit on, picked up, and taken home by an absolutely fabulous hot sexy woman, then get hot and heavy, and, just at the last moment, discover she's got alternate equipment. (Not to say I would be miserable if she was actually a she, but the fantasy is the twist at the end. I like mind-tweaks.

 

[D's mariposa]

For the record, one of my longest running fantasies is to get hit on, picked up, and taken home by an absolutely fabulous hot sexy woman, then get hot and heavy, and, just at the last moment, discover she's got alternate equipment. (Not to say I would be miserable if she was actually a she, but the fantasy is the twist at the end. I like mind-tweaks.

Dreaded "me too" post. I'd not even mind if she was a femme who was packing. Of course, I like guys and girls and most of the flavors thereof.

 

[Netzach]

*starts lurking in this post like a troll under a bridge, slurp, mmm.*

 

[D's mariposa]

*starts lurking in this post like a troll under a bridge, slurp, mmm.*

pulls on some seamed hose, and fuck me shoes and sits on the troll bridge, dagling feet over the edge

stalking, it's not just for trolls anymore.

 

[Queen Bee]

For the record, one of my longest running fantasies is to get hit on, picked up, and taken home by an absolutely fabulous hot sexy woman, then get hot and heavy, and, just at the last moment, discover she's got alternate equipment. (Not to say I would be miserable if she was actually a she, but the fantasy is the twist at the end. I like mind-tweaks.

I have this one, too, only in recent weeks it's taking home a sullen, sinewy boy only to discover a soft pack and a damp little pussy in the BVDs. Then the taunting begins, but that's fodder for another thread.

My only worry about a full time relationship with a cross-dressing man would be that I would get irritated if it emerged that he wanted to invest tons of time and money and focus in the costuming and was endlessly primping.

 

[bridgeburner]

Well, men in kilts are hot and Tim Curry could eat crackers in my bed any day of the week even in full Frank N Furter make-up, but it would really depend on the guy. I like the tough guys and I'm generally suspicious of men who take longer to get dolled up than I do ---- I start worrying that I won't measure up.

And then it would bug me if he looked better in lingerie than I do.....but I'd still enjoy looking.

So, I suppose my answer is that it is not at all a deal-breaker but I'd have some questions.


-B

 

[Netzach]

My only worry about a full time relationship with a cross-dressing man would be that I would get irritated if it emerged that he wanted to invest tons of time and money and focus in the costuming and was endlessly primping. [/B]

This will happen, it really will.

And you will find yourself doing insane things.

Like buying your new girlfriend expensive panties and feeling exceptionally genteel and butch.

Then wanting to snip them off with scissors, and doing it all over again.

I am pussywhipped. By sissies.

 

[Netzach]

pulls on some seamed hose, and fuck me shoes and sits on the troll bridge, dagling feet over the edge

stalking, it's not just for trolls anymore.

How to view my soft underbelly? Get a bunch of women all hot for genderfuck.

 

[bridgeburner]

I am pussywhipped. By sissies.

This was my best chuckle of the day!




-B

 

[shy slave]

after several weeks he told you he occasionally wore make-up and skirts?

Its late here 1.20am, but it just occured to me...Slimmyme: what made you ask??

 

[snowy ciara]

How to view my soft underbelly? Get a bunch of women all hot for genderfuck.

I'm there..

 

[cellis]

I have to admit... that until recently I could not really get into the sissy boy thing... however... twisted as I am.... I understand the appeal of boys all dressed up. I love going to drag shows and find the whole more than a little tittilating... Wondering and perfering them not to disrobe fully... I like my imagination active...

 

[fallon2]

True Story

Several years ago, I had a sub who looked like a young Jackie Kennedy. She asked if I would like to meet her friend.

We meet at a very nice restaurant and her friend is pretty but fails to compare with my sub. But there is something about her . . .

To make a very long story we ALL decide to go upstairs . . .

I have the ladies undress each other . . .

Yep . . . one of those ladies was NOT a lady.

After I stopped laughing I kicked his ass out.

 

[AvaAdore]

have any of you heard of the show "there's something about miriam"? i havent actually watched it (i dont really watch TV), but it's a reality TV thing where 6 english guys are competing for the affections of miriam, who is mexican or something. the only thing they dont know is that she is a pre-op transexual, which i suppose will be revealed at the end. i saw pictures of her/him, and s/he's very convincing.