Women, do you pursue men?

[Ms_Lilith]

I don't necessarily mean that you are the one to make contact.. but once contact is made, and you realize that you have an interest, will you pursue? Or do you believe it is his job to pursue?


And are you the one who makes initial contact anyway?

 

[plasticman33]

I don't necessarily mean that you are the one to make contact.. but once contact is made, and you realize that you have an interest, will you pursue? Or do you believe it is his job to pursue?


And are you the one who makes initial contact anyway?

STALK

 

[Willing and Unsure]

it depends on the situation for me. like the guy I was out with last night, I made first contact, but he's the one that seems to be pursuing me. the last guy I had a relationship with, he made contact with me and pursued me. But I dont just leave it all up to the guy when it comes to pursuing. I let him know that I'm interested and that I would like to spend more time with him, etc.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

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STALK

-sta.....


waitaminute, this won't work! We'll stalk ourselves into circles.....




hopefully meeting at the middle and making some sweaty, passionate love!

 

[k¡tty]

I never persue.

If someone is interested in me they have to do the persuing.

lol I won't even call a man.

 

[plasticman33]

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-sta.....


waitaminute, this won't work! We'll stalk ourselves into circles.....




hopefully meeting at the middle and making some sweaty, passionate love!

Sounds like a plan!!

 

[Temptress_1960]

I don't pursue. I allow myself to be enticed *G*

I don't think it's a gender issue, more of a personality issue. It's not in my personality to pursue.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

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Sounds like a plan!!

alright, come here!

*pounce*

*kisses all over*

 

[plasticman33]

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alright, come here!

*pounce*

*kisses all over*

Mmmmmm, sure glad you don't pursue!!

 

[Ms_Lilith]

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Mmmmmm, sure glad you don't pursue!!

never said I didn't, did I?

 

[intrigued]

I don't necessarily mean that you are the one to make contact.. but once contact is made, and you realize that you have an interest, will you pursue? Or do you believe it is his job to pursue?


And are you the one who makes initial contact anyway?

Not only does he have to make first contact, but he has to continously make it.
Even in the very serious, committed relationship I am in now, the only advances I make are sexual.



Ummm.....hmmm.

 

[StarXChyld]

If I see something I like, I go for it! It's definitely a control issue. I get very wierd if someone comes on to me first. . .

Sexually, I'm the exact opposite. Very rarely will I make the first move.

Hmmmm, I wonder what this all means?

 

[sheath]

Depends on how comfortable I am from the moment I meet him.

If he makes me comfortable, then I pursue. Sure.

Otherwise, he has to earn it.

Unless, of course, he's carrying a guitar. Then I'm all over that axe like melting snow on hot pavement.

S.

 

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[april-wine]

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This is Hanns_Schmidt we're talking about....he's lame and impotant as usual.

And uglier than those cute canines.

 

[snowbunnie]

It depends. Ideally I like to both persue and be persued. Like a really hot game of tag.

 

[shescurious]

Idefinately don't pursue. I am way too shy for that...Worse yet I don't see it when most men pursue me....lol..

Oh well...

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Depends on how comfortable I am from the moment I meet him.

If he makes me comfortable, then I pursue. Sure.

Otherwise, he has to earn it.

Unless, of course, he's carrying a guitar. Then I'm all over that axe like melting snow on hot pavement.

S.

Should I go back to my original av, with the blue guitar?

 

[alexandraaah]

I pursue.

I usually like the reserved types and have no patience to try hinting to men that don't take hints well.

If a man doesn't like a woman pursuing him, it's a man I'm not likely to pursue.

 

[perks]

yep, I do what I want.

 

[cutie pie]

I tend to be more introverted so usually he must initiate and pursue. The guy I'm dating right now, I did initiate contact, but we kinda-sorta knew each other already. He stalked. . .err, I mean pursued me. . .after that.

Although, like intrigued, I have no problem initiating sexual contact.

 

[Purrde Flower]

I don't necessarily mean that you are the one to make contact.. but once contact is made, and you realize that you have an interest, will you pursue? Or do you believe it is his job to pursue?


And are you the one who makes initial contact anyway?

I think it really depends on the guy.

 

[bad kitty]

*sigh* I have always had to persue. Just once I would love for a man I am interested in to persue me. Every time I sit back and try to let him do that I never hear from him again. I got tired of never being wanted.

 

[J.B.]

Depends on the situation. I've made first contact & vice versa. Usually though I don't do much pursuing. I dunno. Maybe that's why I'm still single and don't get regular sex.