Women and Strap ons. I Just don't get it.

Mr. Bootie

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What is the appeal for women to use a strap on?? What is this all about?? I mean no disrepect to the women that use them but why?? I am trying to understand this. I am not trying to criticize or put down, I'm only trying to understand this.


I've been told that "lesbians" are not trying to be men, so I'm wondering. If that is the case why use a strap on?? If women want t a cock. Why not get one that is already attached to a male. I'm just trying to figure out why the strap on. It appears to me that the women that are "taking" the strap on have nothing against a cock. But isn't the real thing better than fake??


Women using a strap on can "simulate" fucking, but is it really the same as a man?? Hmmmmm?? These are just questions I have and leaving it up for discussion. Again, I'm not trying to be disrepectful or put anyone down. I'm trying to gain a bit of knowledge and understanding. Thank You.



kgboot
aka "Mr. Bootie"
 
A man with a cock is a man.

A lesbian with a strap on is a woman.

Lesbians like women.

What part don't you get?
 
Yes peachkeen but...........

peachykeen said:
A man with a cock is a man.

A lesbian with a strap on is a woman.

Lesbians like women.

What part don't you get?



Lesbians like women. Okay I get that, but........ a cock is a male part. So, if lesbians only like women and not men. Why the need for a male part?? Thier is a part of the male that they like right??
So why not just get a male? Is this making sense?? Am I phrasing the question right??



kgboot
aka "Mr. Bootie"
 
*takes a few deep breaths*

i know you're not trying to be offensive, but you're still doing a pretty good job of it.



using a dildo feels good because it stimulates nerve endings in the vagina. a penis can achieve the same means, but those are attached to men, which lesbians do not find sexually attractive.

when women use a strap on they aren't simulating fucking, they are fucking. they are getting their partner off in an extremely erotic way. when you use a strap on your hands are free to do other things, unlike when you use the dildo without the harness.

it has nothing to do with men. it has everything to do with pleasure.
 
Re: Yes peachkeen but...........

kgboot said:
Lesbians like women. Okay I get that, but........ a cock is a male part. So, if lesbians only like women and not men. Why the need for a male part?? Thier is a part of the male that they like right??
So why not just get a male? Is this making sense?? Am I phrasing the question right??



kgboot
aka "Mr. Bootie"

because people are more than just 'parts'.
 
That is almost as silly as saying why do lesbians masturbate with Dildos. Because it feels good. Duh! So why would they not want to pleasure their partner? That is all it is a method of pleasing their partner. And just so you know...not all women with strap-ons are lesbians.:D
 
As a man haven't you ever wondered what it feels like for a woman to be fucked? Have you ever wondered what it would feel like for you to have an orifice like the vagina that can take such penetration?

Many women want to know what it feels like to be the one doing the fucking. They want to know how it feels like to enter inside of someone, even if it's not truly a part of their body. The strap-on becomes an extension of the woman's body - much like a penis. Women can never know what it would be like to have a penis, much like men will never know what it is like to have a vagina.

A woman in a strap on is the closest thing one can come to, to answer this question that many wonder and fantasize about.
 
because I like to fuck my girlfriends.

and they like grabbing my ass when I thrust my cock in them. It's about the fact that I am a woman, not about the piece between my thighs.
 
lavender said:
As a man haven't you ever wondered what it feels like for a woman to be fucked? Have you ever wondered what it would feel like for you to have an orifice like the vagina that can take such penetration?

Many women want to know what it feels like to be the one doing the fucking. They want to know how it feels like to enter inside of someone, even if it's not truly a part of their body. The strap-on becomes an extension of the woman's body - much like a penis. Women can never know what it would be like to have a penis, much like men will never know what it is like to have a vagina.

A woman in a strap on is the closest thing one can come to, to answer this question that many wonder and fantasize about.

no hon...nothing like feeling the build up of cum at the base of your cock...waiting to shoot forward at an excellerated rate...
 
kgboot said:
I Just don't get it.

All right mister! I'll put on my strap on...you get on all fours....then we'll see if you understand!! :D


Just kidding!! :p I'm in a goofy mood!

:rose:
 
strap-on

Speaking as a man who thoroughly enjoys being penetrated by my wife wearing a strap-on, I'll weigh in. I don't find men attractive and wouldnt want a real penis anywhere near me...but my wife wearing it is so erotic, and the feeling of her inside me is wonderful.
 
lavender said:
As a man haven't you ever wondered what it feels like for a woman to be fucked? Have you ever wondered what it would feel like for you to have an orifice like the vagina that can take such penetration?

Many women want to know what it feels like to be the one doing the fucking. They want to know how it feels like to enter inside of someone, even if it's not truly a part of their body. The strap-on becomes an extension of the woman's body - much like a penis. Women can never know what it would be like to have a penis, much like men will never know what it is like to have a vagina.

A woman in a strap on is the closest thing one can come to, to answer this question that many wonder and fantasize about.

A woman using a strap-on does not have a clue in the world about what it feels like to have a penis, or to be doing the fucking, and she is deluding herself if she thinks otherwise.

The penis is very sensitive, and generates a very specific kind of pleasure, that is the whole key to the feeling of fucking. You're right that a woman can't know what it feels like, but wrong to think that using a strap-on is in any way "close".
 
Re: strap-on

richelle said:
Speaking as a man who thoroughly enjoys being penetrated by my wife wearing a strap-on, I'll weigh in. I don't find men attractive and wouldnt want a real penis anywhere near me...but my wife wearing it is so erotic, and the feeling of her inside me is wonderful.

Register!! We need more men like you around here!
 
takingchances42 said:
A woman using a strap-on does not have a clue in the world about what it feels like to have a penis, or to be doing the fucking, and she is deluding herself if she thinks otherwise.

The penis is very sensitive, and generates a very specific kind of pleasure, that is the whole key to the feeling of fucking. You're right that a woman can't know what it feels like, but wrong to think that using a strap-on is in any way "close".

first of all you're an idiot

Wearing a strap on has nothing to do with penis envy or wanting to have sex the same way a straight couple does.

Why have another girl use a strap-on me instead of fucking a guy?
1. I like the feeling of being penetrated
2. I like looking up and seeing beautiful breasts and a gorgeous smile instead of a man
3. Variety
4. It makes me horny
5. When I'm done she can just pull out instead of him coming to early or taking too long to come

Why use a strap-on?
1. Because it leaves my hands free to do other things the same way my hands free mic on my cell phone leaves my hands free to do other things
2. Because it turns on my partner
3. Because it's a new form of kink for me

Am I thinking about men?
Nope not at all...not even a bit

if you think that the penis is the key to fucking...I'm pretty sure you're either gay (and have no use for women or the clit or anything female related) or haven't EVER satisfied a woman. A cock does not a orgasm make.

And no, I'm not a lesbian...so there goes that theory that only lesbians use them.
 
deliciously_naughty said:
first of all you're an idiot

Wearing a strap on has nothing to do with penis envy or wanting to have sex the same way a straight couple does.

Why have another girl use a strap-on me instead of fucking a guy?
1. I like the feeling of being penetrated
2. I like looking up and seeing beautiful breasts and a gorgeous smile instead of a man
3. Variety
4. It makes me horny
5. When I'm done she can just pull out instead of him coming to early or taking too long to come

Why use a strap-on?
1. Because it leaves my hands free to do other things the same way my hands free mic on my cell phone leaves my hands free to do other things
2. Because it turns on my partner
3. Because it's a new form of kink for me

Am I thinking about men?
Nope not at all...not even a bit

if you think that the penis is the key to fucking...I'm pretty sure you're either gay (and have no use for women or the clit or anything female related) or haven't EVER satisfied a woman. A cock does not a orgasm make.

And no, I'm not a lesbian...so there goes that theory that only lesbians use them.

First... you're a moron. Read the post I answered. I didn't put down or object to women using strap ons, for whatever reasons they want to. I responded to what Lavy said, about a woman wanting to come close to feeling like what it would be to have a penis and to do the fucking, as part of the attraction for women using strap ons.

And I merely replied that there is no possible way that using an inanimate object could give a woman any idea of what it feels like for a man to have sex with a woman with his penis. Any men care to disagree?
 
peachykeen said:
A man with a cock is a man.

A lesbian with a strap on is a woman.

Lesbians like women.

What part don't you get?

Yeah...get him Peachy....
 
deliciously_naughty, I think you might have misunderstood takingchances post.

takingchances is not an idiot.

deliciously_naughty is not a moron.

There's really no need for hostility here.
 
HANS MY BITCH BOY SUB I KNOW

YOU WANT ME TO USE A STRAP ON WITH YOU BUT IT AINT HAPPENING. THE IDEA REPULSES ME TO HAVE THAT INTIMACEY WITH YOU. BACK YOU GO TO YOUR SEWER. MORE FOR YOU IN STORE.

*Continue on people nothing more to see here. Very interesting conversation and I am sure many want to seriously participate. carry on....

Peace,
Tulip
 
Hanns_Schmidt:
“Come back when you've mastered coherency”


For a Hanns insult that is quite vague. I am certain you can do better than that.
 
Never said:
deliciously_naughty, I think you might have misunderstood takingchances post.

takingchances is not an idiot.

deliciously_naughty is not a moron.

There's really no need for hostility here.

Yeah, well I wouldn't have called her a moron if she hadn't called me an idiot first.

I don't want to talk to her anyway, she probably has girl cooties. I think I'll play on the swings instead, at least until recess is over.
 
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