Women— is the mainstream media depiction of “Size Queens” accurate?

[lil_jenni]

With respect to some of the big dick energy type posts above, they are great examples of why this site needs the emoji as a reaction emoji.

 

[whenagain]

I think the OP was using 'media' in it's less colloquial sense. Media is the plural of medium, and in the context of information/entertainment, a medium is the method by which information and entertainment is conveyed (TV, radio, podcast, blogs, videos, photos, paintings, etc.). However, that meaning is becoming more technical as the colloquial meaning of media (i.e. news/opinion/editorial content) becomes more prevalent. However, media is still used in the more technical sense (e.g., 'mass media', 'popular media', etc.) with regard to entertainment sources, which is clearly what the OP meant.

Perhaps the OP should have used 'popular mass media' as that term covers a broader spectrum than 'mainstream media', as well as avoids the pitfalls of a term that has become conflated with traditional news sources rather than with various other types of media.

Yeah, I should have said “popular mass media” or “movies and tv shows” (since I was thinking specifically of those). . . “Mainstream media” has definitely been a co opted term.

 

[lil_jenni]

Fine, then join me in asking people who start threads to make it obvious that their post is about eliciting jerk-off banter and not about eliciting facts, or at least sincere opinions.

I love kink as much as the next guy, but I don't like tropes that can be harmful... So when I see threads like (paraphrasing) "Squirting - is it pee, or girl cum?" or "Do all white women crave BBC?" or "Does being pegged make you gay?" or this thread, the 10,000th about dick size, I chime in with what I believe about the subject. ..And I don't think being a guy necessarily disqualifies my opinions so long as I'm honest about my gender and substantiate my statements.

You are correct. We should all avoid hyper-generalizing others. Wait. Is that in itself a hyper-generalization? Well, fuck. Looks like I Obi-wan Kenobied the fuck out of that. You know, because "Only a Sith deals in absolutes."

 

[oldbutstillatit]

Interesting topic. Not sure about the main stream media part but I can talk from experience's with my wife of 42 years. And I can only give my perspective as she is no longer with us. I'm not huge nor small and she never complained.

After about twenty years of marriage and plenty of sex and porn I decided to introduce some toys. I didn't ask and bought a simple vibrator. While going down on her I snuck it into play. Funny how I remember this so vividly. She didn't say no and she had an impressive orgasm. I always got off seeing her cum.

As we moved along I purchased many sex toys for her. She never once went to the toy store with me or asked for anything special so It was all from my thinking. I wondered if a "big cock" would make her have an even bigger O. I would say from my experience that she did enjoy bigger sometimes and others not so much. She would stop things if it wasn't pleasurable.

I would also say that she most definitely enjoyed the fat ones better than the long ones! The first time I used the really thick one was an experience. She came really hard and that fat dildo was covered in her cream. Never got those results with any others.

All that being said he favorite was the rabbit type vibes. The Lelo being her favorite. That was my last purchase.

In conclusion, after having sex with the same person for over 42+ years I can say that there were times she enjoyed a big one, always enjoyed being stretched more than deep, could get off the hardest with a vibe and sometimes just plain old me was enough! It's a choice, should I have chicken or steak or fish for dinner? Eating the same meal all the time gets boring so we have many different choices. We never had the courage to open up our marriage but as I look back, that was a good thing.

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