I like to "bulge flash" women

"Gray sweat pants" keep being mentioned. I agree that they're very revealing, but they're so unflattering. Just about the worst. They really make a negative impression as far as who the person is and what kind of fun they might be.

Unless they're actually in a sweatpants-appropriate location and activity. That's a little different. Then the impression is neutral at best. But even then, no matter how revealing they are, they're still ugly and completely without style. And in that context, it's weird for someone to wear just the sweatpants and underclothes without an additional layer of shorts underneath, in which case, now the sweatpants aren't even revealing anymore.

Agreed. While I do like the bulge effect of grey sweatpants, I just can't bring myself to buy a pair. I don't like working out in anything but shorts anyway. However the shorts I have are tight enough to show something off.
 
I never used to notice bulges until I got older. I have to admit seeing it in public places is a turn on. You don't expect to see one just...there lol. If I have the opportunity to take a longer look I check for a curve and see how far it extends. It's hard being discrete while looking and I almost got caught once which was embarrassing but I do like seeing one when I get the chance.
I mean no disrespect, but based on your profile photo I have to imagine that you have "caught" many men looking at your cleavage/tits?
 
I mean no disrespect, but based on your profile photo I have to imagine that you have "caught" many men looking at your cleavage/tits?
Yes I have, men look at my chest first and then at me. Depending on the man and situation it can be awkward because they know I saw them looking. It happens to most if not all women even if you have a smaller bust, men are going to look.
 
I have a very prominent bulge in my pants and have definitely caught women peaking down below more than a few times. Usually when I got to work inside an office and I'm wearing a pair of slacks with a dress shirt tucked in or when I'm at the gym in a pair of sweatpants/joggers or any shorts where you can clearly see it bouncing around. A lady I briefly dated noted this to me when we first started going out that it was hard for her no to notice, especially with my 6'5" frame.
 
I have a very prominent bulge in my pants and have definitely caught women peaking down below more than a few times. Usually when I got to work inside an office and I'm wearing a pair of slacks with a dress shirt tucked in or when I'm at the gym in a pair of sweatpants/joggers or any shorts where you can clearly see it bouncing around. A lady I briefly dated noted this to me when we first started going out that it was hard for her no to notice, especially with my 6'5" frame.
I love to see dames look at my package on the bike trail.
 
Yes I have, men look at my chest first and then at me. Depending on the man and situation it can be awkward because they know I saw them looking. It happens to most if not all women even if you have a smaller bust, men are going to look.
Well yes god made men and women. Depends on the woman I’m speaking with I do at time talk to her cleavage and specially at her gorgeous camel toe..
 
I don't stare down a woman's blouse. I take fleeting glances. If they notice and don't try to button up or change position to hide it then I will take longer looks. It is a fun dance. Same goes for women checking out my bulge. If you are looking and I notice and I don't try to hide it, I am okay with you checking it out as much as you want.
 
I love catching a look at guys bulges especially if they’re already staring at my tits 😍😍
I don’t steal glances at your huge tits, I tap you on the shoulder and tell you I’m going to glare at your jugs and ask you to unbutton an extra button.
 
I don't understand this "bulge" thing at all. I have been wearing briefs my whole life. I have two brief designs that definitely accentuate my package. T-Bo, https://tbo.clothing/products/the-musthave-brief, and Jockey, https://www.jockey.com/catalog/product/jockey-mens-lightweight-seamfree-bikini?color=9468. There is no doubt that they both support and push out to a degree when worn but if there is a "look" when wearing pants that people notice, OK, but I can't really tell. They are sexier if they are worn alone but no one really sees that. The Jockeys are too small and don't completely contain my package. If one really wants to accentuate their stuff, try a cock ring worn behind the balls that doesn't constrict when flaccid.
 
The men at Home Depot are always top notch for some reason. I’ve only been a few times. One time, I was picking up some big gallons of paint for my mom, and I was struggling to get them into my cart, and this DILF appeared out of nowhere to help me lol. I thought about him for a while afterwards xD
I always offer to help a lady.....
 
Got a really nice look from an interesting looking woman today. Remind me to write about it when I have a real computer (on phone now)

There was a look, in passing, then wouldn’t you know it, I have crossed paths again with the same woman. She’s sitting 20 feet from me right now, hasn’t noticed me yet.

Maybe I’ll manage to flirt with her before we both leave. She’s talking to someone, so, I’m not trying to interrupt that.
 
Remind me to write about it when I have a real computer (on phone now)
OK so

I'm middle-aged but a college student. Walking to class today, a woman was coming toward me from the other direction. She was at least 10-15 years younger than me, but 15-20 years older than most of the students, so, I assumed she was a professor. Nice looking, fairly fit, makeup very subtle if any.

Since I liked how she looked, I instinctively anticipated the potential for a wordless flirt in passing. One of the ways I like to do this is what I did in this instance: I looked away from her. I didn't want to make eye contact until she had seen me first. So, 10-12 steps away from each other, before she had registered my own presence, I tipped my face toward the walking path looking at the ground between us, using my cap visor to hide my eyes and give her a chance to look first.

I do this because I like "catching" people looking, and letting them see me "catch" them looking. I finally looked forward when about 4-6 steps from each other. Sure enough, she was looking at me. She did that thing we see all the time: She avoided direct eye contact when she noticed me starting to be able to see her face. But it was there - that sixth sense people have when each one knows about the other person's awareness of their attention, even when direct eye contact isn't made.

So, with my peripheral vision I saw her stop looking at my face the instant before I subtly looked at hers. Not only could I tell she had been looking at my face, after looking away, her own peripheral vision definitely registered my brief, soft, casual attention. That's the game, the dance - sometimes flirting is about just barely missing direct eye contact, but cutting it so close that each person can sense the other person's look, you know?

This is how I know she was unselfconscious and maybe even deliberately performative about looking at the front of my jeans. With can't-help-myself energy to it, and with like-what-I-see results. All plain to see on her face.

Today wasn't even a day when I wore a pair of those really flattering underwear I've written about around here before. Just regular boxer-briefs. But it was still a pair of blue jeans, and we know how those "present" a guy's bulge even without the enhancement of a pair of well-presenting underclothes worn inside them.

So yeah, she looked down at the path in front of herself, between us, hiding her eyes. Then she looked straight at my crotch and smiled to herself while watching me walk. Maybe the smile was to me, too - still no eye contact, but I'm totally convinced she knew I could see her face, looking, smiling, interacting.

Then it was over. I thought that was an awful nice little encounter, and went about my day. Thinking about whether maybe I'll cross her path again on another Wednesday morning before class.

Surprise, she was in the study center later this afternoon. I was doing homework in the room where some professors have their office hours. A student was waiting for her, so, by the time I realized this same woman walked in and was confirmed to be a professor, she was already helping the other student. But I recognized her.

Didn't get a chance to interact again. She was focused on tutoring, and after half an hour she had to go. I don't think she even saw me there. I wasn't trying to get her attention or anything, I just did my own homework, head down, while she worked with the other student, and then she got up and left.

Turns out, she's Russian. I heard the accent.

So now I'm thinking maybe she has a European sensibility about interactions between men and women. This makes me think very differently about it than if I knew she were an American woman. It makes me think even more than I already did, that her look was deliberate, not unconscious, and that she either didn't care or fully intended that I saw it.

If I see her again, I'll be prepared with better underclothes and with more flirt energy.
 
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