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SpicyBean99 said:
I would LOVE too. Itā€™s literally on my sexual bucket list. Iā€™m going to ask you n50ā€¦ and why?
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My neck... to start with... it just sends shivers up and down me. And then... my frenulum. It makes me twitch and jerk and... just... šŸ„µ
 
ChasBozwell30 said:
This is fun. I'm curious about no 5 & 38....
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I have indeed. Parks, beach, mountain side, Scottish highlands, bent over a carā€¦. Many a place. But more to come hopefully! I LOVE partaking in public indecency šŸ˜‰

Ooofā€¦. Ummmā€¦. Probably when I downloaded tinder when I turned 18 and became a couples third without ever having researched or understood what that actually entailedā€¦. I could do a whole story on thatā€¦ šŸ¤£

Let me ask you 60 and why?
 
SpicyBean99 said:
I used to be a sugar babt and also an escortā€¦.it was just after I turned 19 (and a little here and there after too) I had come out of a really awful relationship. One of my favourite customers used to pay me Ā£500 just to eat me out in a hotel room, he never expected anything from me. I only ever had 1 or two long standing men who I used to actually sleep with. I loved it, I never felt unsafe, I became really close with most of them! Perhaps this makes me seem promiscuous to some of you, or, in the eyes of others, less desirable evenā€¦.but Iā€™ve come to believe that for women who have been hurt or violated by men, (which sadly there are many) there is a certain quiet reclamation of power to be found in sex work and escorting. Itā€™s obviously not the only path, and it isnā€™t without complexity, but choosing to engage in sex on your own terms can become a form of ownership.
Ownership over your body, your boundaries, your choices and it totally flips the power dynamic; at least it did for me! For those of us who have felt silenced, objectified, or controlled, thereā€™s something profoundly liberating in monetising what was once taken or devalued without consent. Not everyone will understand that.
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I've been to see girls in my time, often the most caring and strangely wholesome sex I've ever had. There can be such a strong sense of understanding and caring involved, people taking care of each other, in an odd sort of way ...
 
SpicyBean99 said:
I used to be a sugar baby and also an escortā€¦.it was just after I turned 19 (and a little here and there after too) I had come out of a really awful relationship. One of my favourite customers used to pay me Ā£500 just to eat me out in a hotel room, he never expected anything from me. I only ever had 1 or two long standing men who I used to actually sleep with. I loved it, I never felt unsafe, I became really close with most of them! Perhaps this makes me seem promiscuous to some of you, or, in the eyes of others, less desirable evenā€¦.but Iā€™ve come to believe that for women who have been hurt or violated by men, (which sadly there are many) there is a certain quiet reclamation of power to be found in sex work and escorting. Itā€™s obviously not the only path, and it isnā€™t without complexity, but choosing to engage in sex on your own terms can become a form of ownership.
Ownership over your body, your boundaries, your choices and it totally flips the power dynamic; at least it did for me! For those of us who have felt silenced, objectified, or controlled, thereā€™s something profoundly liberating in monetising what was once taken or devalued without consent. Not everyone will understand that.
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Fuck yes. I honestly love the shit out of that (the positive parts ofc) and am firmly in the camp that thinks all that makes you more desirable, not less.
 
SpicyBean99 said:
I have indeed. Parks, beach, mountain side, Scottish highlands, bent over a carā€¦. Many a place. But more to come hopefully! I LOVE partaking in public indecency šŸ˜‰

Ooofā€¦. Ummmā€¦. Probably when I downloaded tinder when I turned 18 and became a couples third without ever having researched or understood what that actually entailedā€¦. I could do a whole story on thatā€¦ šŸ¤£

Let me ask you 60 and why?
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A very open minded girl i didn't get to be with for nearly long enough. I ended up with a huge list of kinks cos of her. (mainly bdsm, anal, sun related) She was gentle and loved getting me to try new things and explore myself. The perfect combination....
 
ChasBozwell30 said:
I've been to see girls in my time, often the most caring and strangely wholesome sex I've ever had. There can be such a strong sense of understanding and caring involved, people taking care of each other, in an odd sort of way ...
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Iā€™m so happy youā€™ve had great experiences šŸ˜

I completely agree too. Some of the dinners Iā€™ve had while escorting were among the most respectful and comfortable experiences Iā€™ve ever had with men and not once did any of them make me feel unsafe or objectified (at least not without me asking for it šŸ˜‰). By contrast, Iā€™ve been on traditional dates where men expected a blowjob after buying me ONE drinkā€¦.i had a guy suggest we leave the bar for me to suck him off, pointing out his car around the cornerā€¦ absolutely not pal.

I think part of that disconnect comes from how I present myself online to be honest šŸ¤£ Iā€™m quite open and sexually expressive on certain platforms, so when men date me, they often assume Iā€™m going to be wildly uninhibited in real life. But that couldnā€™t actually be further from the truth. A few people here who know me personally can probably confirm that Iā€™m actually quite reserved and shyā€¦. Untilā€¦. Wellā€¦. Iā€™m not always that shy šŸ¤­

Back to my pointā€¦.when two consenting adults choose to engage in paid sex in a respectful and intentional way, it doesnā€™t feel have to feel dirty or transactional (unless thatā€™s how you want it to feel), in a negative sense at all. And it shouldnā€™t. Unless youā€™re a man cheating on your wife with a street corner hooker with your kids in. Bedā€¦. It should feel honest. Both people are there for a reason, and neither has to pretend theyā€™re not seeking something.

Now answer n4!
 
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SpicyBean99 said:
Iā€™m so happy youā€™ve had great experiences šŸ˜

I completely agree too. Some of the dinners Iā€™ve had while escorting were among the most respectful and comfortable experiences Iā€™ve ever had with men and not once did any of them make me feel unsafe or objectified (at least not without me asking for it šŸ˜‰). By contrast, Iā€™ve been on traditional dates where men expected a blowjob after buying me ONE drinkā€¦.i had a guy suggest we leave the bar for me to suck him off, pointing out his car around the cornerā€¦ absolutely not pal.

I think part of that disconnect comes from how I present myself online to be honest šŸ¤£ Iā€™m quite open and sexually expressive on certain platforms, so when men date me, they often assume Iā€™m going to be wildly uninhibited in real life. But that couldnā€™t actually be further from the truth. A few people here who know me personally can probably confirm that Iā€™m actually quite reserved and shyā€¦. Untilā€¦. Wellā€¦. Iā€™m not always that shy šŸ¤­

Back to my pointā€¦.when two consenting adults choose to engage in paid sex in a respectful and intentional way, it doesnā€™t feel have to feel dirty or transactional (unless thatā€™s how you want it to feel), in a negative sense at all. And it shouldnā€™t. Unless youā€™re a man cheating on your wife with a street corner hooker with your kids in. Bedā€¦. It should feel honest. Both people are there for a reason, and neither has to pretend theyā€™re not seeking something.

Now answer n4!
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They were all very positive experiences. There was a lot of conversation and emotional intimacy and trust. Often they were also just the loveliest and kindest people.

No4- most embarrassing? I told you I'm a grower, i had a girl laugh at me once, which did not help at all. A very deflating moment lol

What's number 4 for you?
 
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SpicyBean99 said:
I have indeed. Parks, beach, mountain side, Scottish highlands, bent over a carā€¦. Many a place. But more to come hopefully! I LOVE partaking in public indecency šŸ˜‰

Ooofā€¦. Ummmā€¦. Probably when I downloaded tinder when I turned 18 and became a couples third without ever having researched or understood what that actually entailedā€¦. I could do a whole story on thatā€¦ šŸ¤£

Let me ask you 60 and why?
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Would live to have sex outside, I wrote a story about two couples exploring nudism and outdoor sex, really turned me on to it.
 
SpicyBean99 said:
I wasnā€™t meaning too šŸ„ŗ I was SO turned on and the environment made me extra turned onā€¦. The moment that one finger slid in and did that magic little curve I couldnā€™t help myself, the mess was already being madeā€¦.

Oops I accidentally squirted are now the actual lyrics, Iā€™ve decided ; )
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It wouldn't be accidental if I had anything to do/say about it... ;)
 
Thankyouuu everyone šŸ˜šŸ˜ Iā€™m about to curl up in bed and watch an Indonesian horror film called May The Devil Take You. I fucking love a subtitled foreign horror, they pretty much always end up being the most gruesome!! Wish me luck! Iā€™ll come back here with a mini review later šŸ„°
 
SpicyBean99 said:
Thankyouuu everyone šŸ˜šŸ˜ Iā€™m about to curl up in bed and watch an Indonesian horror film called May The Devil Take You. I fucking love a subtitled foreign horror, they pretty much always end up being the most gruesome!! Wish me luck! Iā€™ll come back here with a mini review later šŸ„°
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Good luck!
 
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