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desperado1089 said:
I at least know you well enough to know the answers to 9 and 33 are 'yes' in your case, and there is ample proof on this very thread that the same goes for 44. 59 is kinda ironic because at one point you were one, but I'm curious to know if your previous sex work went as far as escorting (67).

My own answers to those questions are, in order, no, yes, no, yes, and maybe.
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I used to be a sugar baby and also an escortā€¦.it was just after I turned 19 (and a little here and there after too) I had come out of a really awful relationship. One of my favourite customers used to pay me Ā£500 just to eat me out in a hotel room, he never expected anything from me. I only ever had 1 or two long standing men who I used to actually sleep with. I loved it, I never felt unsafe, I became really close with most of them! Perhaps this makes me seem promiscuous to some of you, or, in the eyes of others, less desirable evenā€¦.but Iā€™ve come to believe that for women who have been hurt or violated by men, (which sadly there are many) there is a certain quiet reclamation of power to be found in sex work and escorting. Itā€™s obviously not the only path, and it isnā€™t without complexity, but choosing to engage in sex on your own terms can become a form of ownership.
Ownership over your body, your boundaries, your choices and it totally flips the power dynamic; at least it did for me! For those of us who have felt silenced, objectified, or controlled, thereā€™s something profoundly liberating in monetising what was once taken or devalued without consent. Not everyone will understand that.
 
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SpicyBean99 said:
SPICY SEX QUESTIONS WITH BEAN ​

I found a longer list of questions online since a few of you enjoyed asking/answering themā€¦. So Iā€™ll leave this list here and we can take turns asking each other and getting to know one and otherā€¦.thereā€™s enough here to keep us going šŸ˜‰ ( at least for a while ). Maybe Iā€™ll even share a few more pictures with you all a little laterā€¦. Iā€™m feeling super giving since itā€™s a Fridayā€¦

1. Have you ever had a one-night stand?
2. Whatā€™s your wildest sexual fantasy?
3. Have you ever had a threesome?
4. What is your most embarrassing sexual experience?
5. Have you ever had sex in public?
6. How old were you when you lost your virginity?
7. Whatā€™s the most adventurous place youā€™ve had sex?
8. Do you enjoy dirty talk?
9. Have you ever filmed yourself having sex?
10. Whatā€™s your favorite type of porn?
11. Have you ever used sex toys?
12. Whatā€™s the most orgasms youā€™ve had in one day?
13. Have you ever faked an orgasm?
14. Whatā€™s your favorite position?
15. Do you prefer to be dominant or submissive?
16. Have you ever had sex with someone much older or younger than you?
17. Have you ever had a sexual dream about someone you shouldnā€™t have?
18. Whatā€™s the longest youā€™ve gone without sex?
19. Have you ever been caught in the act?
20. Have you ever had a crush on a teacher or boss?
21. Whatā€™s your favorite part of your partnerā€™s body?
22. Have you ever been to a strip club?
23. What is your opinion on role-playing?
24. Whatā€™s the most people youā€™ve had sex with in one week?
25. Have you ever participated in a sex party?
26. Are you a member of the mile-high club?
27. Have you ever had sex in a pool or hot tub?
28. Have you ever been handcuffed or tied up during sex?
29. Whatā€™s your favorite type of foreplay?
30. Have you ever had sex with a friendā€™s partner?
31. Have you ever given or received a lap dance?
32. Whatā€™s the dirtiest thought youā€™ve ever had about a total stranger?
33. Have you ever sent a nude selfie?
34. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
35. Do you prefer casual sex or being in a relationship?
36. Whatā€™s the dirtiest text youā€™ve sent or received?
37. Have you ever had sex with more than one person in a day?
38. Whatā€™s the most sexually daring thing youā€™ve done?
39. Have you ever tried anal sex?
40. Whatā€™s your opinion on open relationships?
41. Have you ever been a part of an orgy?
42. What turns you on the most?
43. What is your biggest sexual regret?
44. Have you ever masturbated in a public place?
45. Have you ever engaged in sexting?
46. Whatā€™s the weirdest thing that turns you on?
47. Have you ever role-played during sex?
48. Whatā€™s the kinkiest thing youā€™ve ever done?
49. Have you ever had a sexual encounter you regret?
50. Whatā€™s your favorite spot to be kissed?
51. Have you ever had a crush on a co-worker?
52. Whatā€™s the most unusual place youā€™ve masturbated?
53. Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?
54. Have you ever used food during foreplay?
55. Whatā€™s the sexiest dream youā€™ve ever had?
56. Have you ever been to a swingers' party?
57. Have you ever had sex in a car?
58. Do you enjoy using lubricants?
59. Have you ever subscribed to an adult content provider?
60. Who was your best sexual partner, and why?
61. Have you ever tried BDSM?
62. Whatā€™s the most rounds youā€™ve gone in one night?
63. Have you ever been turned on by someone unexpected?
64. Do you like watching your partner pleasure themselves?
65. Have you ever had a crush on a celebrity?
66. Do you ever watch porn together with your partner?
67. Have you ever considered hiring an escort?
68. Whatā€™s your biggest sexual fear?
69. Have you ever had a sex encounter while drunk?
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This is fun. I'm curious about no 5 & 38....
 
SpicyBean99 said:
I would LOVE too. Itā€™s literally on my sexual bucket list. Iā€™m going to ask you n50ā€¦ and why?
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My neck... to start with... it just sends shivers up and down me. And then... my frenulum. It makes me twitch and jerk and... just... šŸ„µ
 
ChasBozwell30 said:
This is fun. I'm curious about no 5 & 38....
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I have indeed. Parks, beach, mountain side, Scottish highlands, bent over a carā€¦. Many a place. But more to come hopefully! I LOVE partaking in public indecency šŸ˜‰

Ooofā€¦. Ummmā€¦. Probably when I downloaded tinder when I turned 18 and became a couples third without ever having researched or understood what that actually entailedā€¦. I could do a whole story on thatā€¦ šŸ¤£

Let me ask you 60 and why?
 
SpicyBean99 said:
I used to be a sugar babt and also an escortā€¦.it was just after I turned 19 (and a little here and there after too) I had come out of a really awful relationship. One of my favourite customers used to pay me Ā£500 just to eat me out in a hotel room, he never expected anything from me. I only ever had 1 or two long standing men who I used to actually sleep with. I loved it, I never felt unsafe, I became really close with most of them! Perhaps this makes me seem promiscuous to some of you, or, in the eyes of others, less desirable evenā€¦.but Iā€™ve come to believe that for women who have been hurt or violated by men, (which sadly there are many) there is a certain quiet reclamation of power to be found in sex work and escorting. Itā€™s obviously not the only path, and it isnā€™t without complexity, but choosing to engage in sex on your own terms can become a form of ownership.
Ownership over your body, your boundaries, your choices and it totally flips the power dynamic; at least it did for me! For those of us who have felt silenced, objectified, or controlled, thereā€™s something profoundly liberating in monetising what was once taken or devalued without consent. Not everyone will understand that.
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I've been to see girls in my time, often the most caring and strangely wholesome sex I've ever had. There can be such a strong sense of understanding and caring involved, people taking care of each other, in an odd sort of way ...
 
SpicyBean99 said:
I used to be a sugar baby and also an escortā€¦.it was just after I turned 19 (and a little here and there after too) I had come out of a really awful relationship. One of my favourite customers used to pay me Ā£500 just to eat me out in a hotel room, he never expected anything from me. I only ever had 1 or two long standing men who I used to actually sleep with. I loved it, I never felt unsafe, I became really close with most of them! Perhaps this makes me seem promiscuous to some of you, or, in the eyes of others, less desirable evenā€¦.but Iā€™ve come to believe that for women who have been hurt or violated by men, (which sadly there are many) there is a certain quiet reclamation of power to be found in sex work and escorting. Itā€™s obviously not the only path, and it isnā€™t without complexity, but choosing to engage in sex on your own terms can become a form of ownership.
Ownership over your body, your boundaries, your choices and it totally flips the power dynamic; at least it did for me! For those of us who have felt silenced, objectified, or controlled, thereā€™s something profoundly liberating in monetising what was once taken or devalued without consent. Not everyone will understand that.
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Fuck yes. I honestly love the shit out of that (the positive parts ofc) and am firmly in the camp that thinks all that makes you more desirable, not less.
 
SpicyBean99 said:
I have indeed. Parks, beach, mountain side, Scottish highlands, bent over a carā€¦. Many a place. But more to come hopefully! I LOVE partaking in public indecency šŸ˜‰

Ooofā€¦. Ummmā€¦. Probably when I downloaded tinder when I turned 18 and became a couples third without ever having researched or understood what that actually entailedā€¦. I could do a whole story on thatā€¦ šŸ¤£

Let me ask you 60 and why?
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A very open minded girl i didn't get to be with for nearly long enough. I ended up with a huge list of kinks cos of her. (mainly bdsm, anal, sun related) She was gentle and loved getting me to try new things and explore myself. The perfect combination....
 
ChasBozwell30 said:
I've been to see girls in my time, often the most caring and strangely wholesome sex I've ever had. There can be such a strong sense of understanding and caring involved, people taking care of each other, in an odd sort of way ...
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Iā€™m so happy youā€™ve had great experiences šŸ˜

I completely agree too. Some of the dinners Iā€™ve had while escorting were among the most respectful and comfortable experiences Iā€™ve ever had with men and not once did any of them make me feel unsafe or objectified (at least not without me asking for it šŸ˜‰). By contrast, Iā€™ve been on traditional dates where men expected a blowjob after buying me ONE drinkā€¦.i had a guy suggest we leave the bar for me to suck him off, pointing out his car around the cornerā€¦ absolutely not pal.

I think part of that disconnect comes from how I present myself online to be honest šŸ¤£ Iā€™m quite open and sexually expressive on certain platforms, so when men date me, they often assume Iā€™m going to be wildly uninhibited in real life. But that couldnā€™t actually be further from the truth. A few people here who know me personally can probably confirm that Iā€™m actually quite reserved and shyā€¦. Untilā€¦. Wellā€¦. Iā€™m not always that shy šŸ¤­

Back to my pointā€¦.when two consenting adults choose to engage in paid sex in a respectful and intentional way, it doesnā€™t feel have to feel dirty or transactional (unless thatā€™s how you want it to feel), in a negative sense at all. And it shouldnā€™t. Unless youā€™re a man cheating on your wife with a street corner hooker with your kids in. Bedā€¦. It should feel honest. Both people are there for a reason, and neither has to pretend theyā€™re not seeking something.

Now answer n4!
 
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SpicyBean99 said:
Iā€™m so happy youā€™ve had great experiences šŸ˜

I completely agree too. Some of the dinners Iā€™ve had while escorting were among the most respectful and comfortable experiences Iā€™ve ever had with men and not once did any of them make me feel unsafe or objectified (at least not without me asking for it šŸ˜‰). By contrast, Iā€™ve been on traditional dates where men expected a blowjob after buying me ONE drinkā€¦.i had a guy suggest we leave the bar for me to suck him off, pointing out his car around the cornerā€¦ absolutely not pal.

I think part of that disconnect comes from how I present myself online to be honest šŸ¤£ Iā€™m quite open and sexually expressive on certain platforms, so when men date me, they often assume Iā€™m going to be wildly uninhibited in real life. But that couldnā€™t actually be further from the truth. A few people here who know me personally can probably confirm that Iā€™m actually quite reserved and shyā€¦. Untilā€¦. Wellā€¦. Iā€™m not always that shy šŸ¤­

Back to my pointā€¦.when two consenting adults choose to engage in paid sex in a respectful and intentional way, it doesnā€™t feel have to feel dirty or transactional (unless thatā€™s how you want it to feel), in a negative sense at all. And it shouldnā€™t. Unless youā€™re a man cheating on your wife with a street corner hooker with your kids in. Bedā€¦. It should feel honest. Both people are there for a reason, and neither has to pretend theyā€™re not seeking something.

Now answer n4!
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They were all very positive experiences. There was a lot of conversation and emotional intimacy and trust. Often they were also just the loveliest and kindest people.

No4- most embarrassing? I told you I'm a grower, i had a girl laugh at me once, which did not help at all. A very deflating moment lol

What's number 4 for you?
 
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SpicyBean99 said:
I have indeed. Parks, beach, mountain side, Scottish highlands, bent over a carā€¦. Many a place. But more to come hopefully! I LOVE partaking in public indecency šŸ˜‰

Ooofā€¦. Ummmā€¦. Probably when I downloaded tinder when I turned 18 and became a couples third without ever having researched or understood what that actually entailedā€¦. I could do a whole story on thatā€¦ šŸ¤£

Let me ask you 60 and why?
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Would live to have sex outside, I wrote a story about two couples exploring nudism and outdoor sex, really turned me on to it.
 
SpicyBean99 said:
I wasnā€™t meaning too šŸ„ŗ I was SO turned on and the environment made me extra turned onā€¦. The moment that one finger slid in and did that magic little curve I couldnā€™t help myself, the mess was already being madeā€¦.

Oops I accidentally squirted are now the actual lyrics, Iā€™ve decided ; )
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It wouldn't be accidental if I had anything to do/say about it... ;)
 
Thankyouuu everyone šŸ˜šŸ˜ Iā€™m about to curl up in bed and watch an Indonesian horror film called May The Devil Take You. I fucking love a subtitled foreign horror, they pretty much always end up being the most gruesome!! Wish me luck! Iā€™ll come back here with a mini review later šŸ„°
 
SpicyBean99 said:
Thankyouuu everyone šŸ˜šŸ˜ Iā€™m about to curl up in bed and watch an Indonesian horror film called May The Devil Take You. I fucking love a subtitled foreign horror, they pretty much always end up being the most gruesome!! Wish me luck! Iā€™ll come back here with a mini review later šŸ„°
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Good luck!
 
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