Wife hates toys and condoms

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My wife has always hated toys" I want the real thing" and she also hates condoms so when we did swap it was always bare.
Is she unique or is this fairly common amongst women?
 
From what I've heard, a dislike for condoms is pretty common.

If we have a choice between a dildo and a real penis, I doubt many would pick the dildo - it will never feel as nice and natural as the real thing.
Edited to add: Also, what we enjoy is often not so much the penetration itself, but the close body contact and intimacy that comes with it. You don't get that in the same way with a dildo.

However, toys are much more than dildos - vibrators provide an entirely different experience and can provide pleasure and orgasms much more easily than any penis. And why not enjoy both? A penis for penetration and a vibrator for added stimulation?

So I guess the answer really depends on what kind of toys are available :)
 
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I don’t enjoy the feel of a condom, so I would ask that one not be used. As for toys, it’s fun to start out with toys, but I would definitely want a real penis over a toy!
Anytime wife has sex with anyone with a condom on she stops takes it off, throws it on the floor abd says ok now you are ready
 
My wife has always hated toys" I want the real thing" and she also hates condoms so when we did swap it was always bare.
Is she unique or is this fairly common amongst women?
I definitely do not enjoy condoms, prefer it bare if I can. As far as toys, they're kind of an added bonus but if I had to pick between them or the real thing, the real thing wins almost every time.
 
My wife has always hated toys" I want the real thing" and she also hates condoms so when we did swap it was always bare.
Is she unique or is this fairly common amongst women?
My late wife was very much the same. Hardly ever used a condom and the one time she took it off mid way we ended up with our first.

As far as toys were concerned she would let me use them on her but never would touch them herself.

In addition to this she never masturbated herself and for various horrible reasons would never give a handjob.
 
I don’t enjoy the feel of a condom, so I would ask that one not be used. As for toys, it’s fun to start out with toys, but I would definitely want a real penis over a toy!
Lynn speaking. I agree I don't like the feel of a condom at all. As for toys ,some are fun and exciting but not a huge fan
 
I had an ex that was not interested, in any way what so ever, into toys. Not into strawberries and whipped cream, Not into anything that could spice things up.

Hence why she is an ex
 
I had an ex that was not interested, in any way what so ever, into toys. Not into strawberries and whipped cream, Not into anything that could spice things up.

Hence why she is an ex

My wife needs friends to get her imagination going.
When she bowled weekly our sexlife was way better because women talk to each other and give each other ideas
 
My wife needs friends to get her imagination going.
When she bowled weekly our sexlife was way better because women talk to each other and give each other ideas
That ex, and I hate to talk about her negatively, she was all about sex was just man and woman and that was it.

It was like she was raised in a cult. Seriously, if she came at all, it was bad. Came before me, bad. One time I was so drunk I couldn’t cum and she took it as a great offense against her.

It didn’t last long and I really really hope that her tinking has changed all these years later
 
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