Why is size always an issue?

[Johnny Mayberry]

My penis is too big...

 

[bknight2602]

Whether it’s penis, breasts, waist, thighs, arms, whatever we always wonder if the size is appealing to the person we’re trying to attract. I’m just curious why are we so obsessed??

I try to not be obsessed with size of anything. I find it is better to look at the person for what they are not really what they have/have not.

 

[Autoguy]

My penis is too big...

So is mine.

 

[J.B.]

I try to not be obsessed with size of anything. I find it is better to look at the person for what they are not really what they have/have not.

muah! long time no see.

 

[teddybear4play]

Whether it’s penis, breasts, waist, thighs, arms, whatever we always wonder if the size is appealing to the person we’re trying to attract. I’m just curious why are we so obsessed??

Because it's the only thing that's quantifiable.

Attraction is a very subjective process. A woman may think that Alec Baldwin is sexy, but Stephen Baldwin is not. A guy might consider Anna Nicole Smith hot but Tyra Banks hideous.

Most often our own personal criteria for whether or not we find someone attractive are so subtle that we can't even figure out what they are. We don't really know what sparks the feelings of desire and romantic or sexual chemistry in one person but not another.

What little that can be quantified, we overdo. 36-24-36. 38D. 8 inches. 6'4", 200 pounds.

The truly enlightened among us recognize that attraction can't be forced into a little box like that. Almost all of the women I've been attracted to have at least one thing about them that Madison Avenue would shun them for. So I quit trying to look only for women who have large breasts or long legs. For me, attraction never works that way.

TB4p

 

[teddybear4play]

Boy, something about me writing a dissertation on sexual attraction that just kills a thread.

TB4p

 

[J.B.]

You did not kill my thread. Most of my thread die by page 2 anyway you were just a victim of unfortunate circumstance.