why is it hard to find....

[eastbamacple]

it's hard to find bi-black women to hook -up with white couples in the south. any help/advice will be greatly appreciated. thanx , a bi-couple in bama

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

it's hard to find bi-black women to hook -up with white couples in the south. any help/advice will be greatly appreciated. thanx , a bi-couple in bama

Theyre out there. Around here (Tampa) white teachers seem to attract black bi-females. Look for black females who are active in sports.

 

[NightL]

entitlement?

There is indeed a world beyond your shores - I'm sure there are a myriad of views on this one.

My first thought is why should "bi-black women" bother? Of course that very statement can be interpreted in different ways...

Now this could have been worded "We are intrigued with the idea of hooking up with a woman of a different ethnic group - why don't they like us?"

How deep is the shoreline?

 

[soflabbwlvr]

The real issue for you is the difficulty couples have in finding single bi women of any race to hook up in a threesome. Among swingers, the single bi-fem is known as a "golden unicorn" because she is so rare and sought after by so many. Your quest is going to be even more difficult because you are limiting yourself to a subset of the unicorn population. Not only that, but you are also attempting to cross color lines in the opposite direction of the general flow. I wish you luck, but you are going to need to exercise patience.

First of all, given the relative scarcity of women actively seeking couples, you need to take a good look at the two of you and honestly evaluate your attractiveness. Whichever of the two of you is the least attractive, that is your ceiling in seeking a single bi fem. It is a buyer's market for her, so she can be selective. She is going to see your physicality long before sees your sparkling personality. Set your sights accordingly.

Second, put yourself in places where you are likely to meet single bi fems. If you live in a large town, join the swinging community. Sign up on swinger websites. Attend swinging events. Also, go to nightclubs and bars with racially mixed crowds. Go to art shows and street festivals. Talk to people. There is no symbol or handshake that identifies single bi fems. You must be proactive. Think of it as a treasure hunt. The more people you talk to, the better your odds of finding a unicorn.

 

[GorgeousGeekGirl]

it's hard to find bi-black women to hook -up with white couples in the south. any help/advice will be greatly appreciated. thanx , a bi-couple in bama

Because you're in Alabama!!!

1. Youre in some Jesus lovin redneck territory. People don't want it known they are gay or bi there in the Bible belt.

2. Y'all are white and she's black... in Alabama! Mixed race couples get a lot of crap, especially the blacks, and there are Klansmen and other nut jobs running around the neighborhood grocer. Gee, can't understand why she doesn't want to draw that kind of attention.

Your best bet is go to a whore house or find an escort service with a beautiful black woman who does service couples. The only other workable solution is to go to very sexually liberal city with open gay bars, and see if you find anyone.

 

[goofygus42]

it's hard to find bi-black women to hook -up with white couples in the south. any help/advice will be greatly appreciated. thanx , a bi-couple in bama

If you are in Bama, have you tried any of the swing socials? There are several all the way from Decatur to Mobile. They are fun parties and quite a few bi black ladies. To get locations and information, go to the Nasca website. It has an up to date list and contact information. You will also meet a lot of black couples where the wife is bi. We got with one bi black lady in Montgomery and she was unbelievable. Good luck.

 

[goofygus42]

Because you're in Alabama!!!

1. Youre in some Jesus lovin redneck territory. People don't want it known they are gay or bi there in the Bible belt.

2. Y'all are white and she's black... in Alabama! Mixed race couples get a lot of crap, especially the blacks, and there are Klansmen and other nut jobs running around the neighborhood grocer. Gee, can't understand why she doesn't want to draw that kind of attention.

Your best bet is go to a whore house or find an escort service with a beautiful black woman who does service couples. The only other workable solution is to go to very sexually liberal city with open gay bars, and see if you find anyone.

Alabama is loaded with swingers of all races. In the swinging life there is a lot less prejudice, there is some. We were at a party in north Alabama once, dancing and we were near a black couple dancing. She had one of the most incredible butts I have ever come across. My wife flipped her short dress up and kissed her right on her butt.. It lead to a great night. The south has changed.