Why do you giggle with the racists?

Peregrinator said:
I want to be clear about this, and this is in answer to BG also: I did not mean that as an allegation that you HAD posted personal info; it was an example of the kind of thing you COULD do if you were so inclined, a way of "attacking" someone you felt deserved it. A worst-case scenario. I do not think you have done it.

I think it's okay to chat with anyone; to me that doesn't mean I excuse other behavior of theirs. Maybe that comes from five years of working with seriously fucked up kids. People aren't black or white...err...all good or all bad to me. No one since, let's see, I can't think of anyone who was all one or the other. Sadaam Hussein, maybe? You get the point.

I'll concede, though, that if I think some chick on here is a blatant racist--Angelique, I think that was her name, comes to mind--I'm most likely to engage her in a conversation about that issue, and attempt to point out the errors of her position. I'm extraordinarily unlikely to flirt with or become friends with her.

Another problem is that there are some obvious racists, like Angelique and Makofin (they used to come here and post about how they made "beaners" eat their own shit and stuff like that; I don't know if you remember them), and then there are a lot of posters who for all I know are racists but I haven't seen it. Is atmas a closet racist? I know him really well, so I can say, no. Have you ever made a racist post? I have no idea. I like you though; tomorrow is someone going to spring on me that you're a racist? I seriously doubt it, but I hope you get the point.

I know people aren't black and white. And if you want to soul search individuals on this forum and find the good in them, go for it.

But when I see people chit chat with the likes of KS, Ishmael and Retrieval, it just makes me shake my head.

I can understand arguing or debating them (to an extent) but I can't understand discussing recent movies with them or talking about what you had for dinner with them. They are hateful bigots, why not discuss your dinner with one of the other thousands of registered users. There isn't exactly a shortage of people here that would limit your choices.
 
Queersetti said:
I thing I started this same thread in 2003, with the same results. The enablers either dodge the question, or avoid the whole issue, while the known bigots try to make the issue about anything other than racism.


~~Same as it ever was~~


Ain't it the truth?

Yet, to be intolerant of intolerance is hardly productive, except perhaps as a temporary feel-good measure.

The mistake we tend to make is to attribute racist beliefs to individuals, thinking that if we shun, scream at, or beat them over the head long enough, they'll suddenly see the light. Or if we just keep repeating the "racism is bad" mantra over and over long enough, it will magically go away one day. But they won't, and it won't, because our society, like many others in the world, needs racism, and so it keeps cranking out racists.

Until you understand that, and try to figure out how so many racists keep thriving when we've known racism was bad for centuries, you're just as deluded as the racists are.

(And I'm not saying "you" to Q in particular, because I think he knows this.)
 
KyleW said:
What does that even mean? You don't condone racism. GREAT. But you don't condone intolerance of any kind? Meaning you don't condone our intolerance of racists?

it means he's intolerant of intolerance of intolerance!

it's a dumb fricken stupid statement, is what it is.
 
Hamletmaschine said:
Ain't it the truth?

Yet, to be intolerant of intolerance is hardly productive, except perhaps as a temporary feel-good measure.

The mistake we tend to make is to attribute racist beliefs to individuals, thinking that if we shun, scream at, or beat them over the head long enough, they'll suddenly see the light. Or if we just keep repeating the "racism is bad" mantra over and over long enough, it will magically go away one day.

Not my intent. I have no expectation that the racists posting at lit will change their ways and see the light. I don't expect the racism to go away either.

But what I will do is point out the people that tolerate the racism. The people who allow it to go on in one thread, then in the next thread they will discuss their fabric softener with the racist. It is not acceptable behavior in my opinion.
 
Killswitch said:
No he didn't, but what he did say is that the genesis for this thread was not racism.

Its why people talk to Killswitch.

It's bothered him to no end I am still here thriving after he thought he brought me down posting my private photos.

It will be a stick in his craw until he decides to leave and never return and for a long time thereafter because Im not leaving or bowing down to the moron.

Just to make sure we are clear, I had nothing to do with posting your pictures. That was Kyle.

I did call you a lying piece of shit.
 
bg23 said:
it means he's intolerant of intolerance of intolerance!

it's a dumb fricken stupid statement, is what it is.

Are you being intolerant of his intolerance of intolerance of intolerance?

:rolleyes:
 
I no longer watch that Dr. G medical examiner show because she is racist. She said you could tell a persons race by their bone structure!!! How racist is that?! I mean, we have had it pounded into our heads that all people are the same inside and out and she dares say you can tell race by bone structure!!
 
KyleW said:
I know people aren't black and white. And if you want to soul search individuals on this forum and find the good in them, go for it.

But when I see people chit chat with the likes of KS, Ishmael and Retrieval, it just makes me shake my head.

I can understand arguing or debating them (to an extent) but I can't understand discussing recent movies with them or talking about what you had for dinner with them. They are hateful bigots, why not discuss your dinner with one of the other thousands of registered users. There isn't exactly a shortage of people here that would limit your choices.
Ah, we're on nearly the same page then. I don't think I ever fluff much with any of the more bigoted posters.
 
bigmeanpoophead said:
Are you being intolerant of his intolerance of intolerance of intolerance?
:rolleyes:

:(:(:(

i'm a christian, what can i say.
 
KyleW said:
Not my intent. I have no expectation that the racists posting at lit will change their ways and see the light. I don't expect the racism to go away either.

But what I will do is point out the people that tolerate the racism. The people who allow it to go on in one thread, then in the next thread they will discuss their fabric softener with the racist. It is not acceptable behavior in my opinion.

I think that your original question is a good one, actually. But, as Q pointed out and as we've seen once again, they all have their alibis.

I haven't read through the whole thread, though. Has anyone had one of those forehead-slapping, lightbulb-going-on moments where they've fessed up to being ideological dopes and promised not to do it ever again?
 
As soon as I find out that somebody is a racist/bigot on here - I don't want anything to do with them.

Everytime a racist is given the time of day, it is like the board collectively going "we don't give a shit" and that makes my stomach churn. I don't want anything to do with racists in real life, and I don't want anything to do with them on here. If I really believed that I could say something to change a persons mind, then I would do whatever it would take - but someone who doesn't think he or she has done anything wrong with using race as an insult, is past learning. And as for the fucking morons who suggest that all racism is the same has no understanding of history and should read more, or kill themselves so as not to waste more oxygen than they need to.
 
planetqueen said:
As soon as I find out that somebody is a racist/bigot on here - I don't want anything to do with them.

Everytime a racist is given the time of day, it is like the board collectively going "we don't give a shit" and that makes my stomach churn. I don't want anything to do with racists in real life, and I don't want anything to do with them on here. If I really believed that I could say something to change a persons mind, then I would do whatever it would take - but someone who doesn't think he or she has done anything wrong with using race as an insult, is past learning. And as for the fucking morons who suggest that all racism is the same has no understanding of history and should read more, or kill themselves so as not to waste more oxygen than they need to.

Well said Queenie. When so many of the lit populace chats merrily with a racist/bigot, they are essentially saying "I see your racism and I just don't care enough about it, so I'm going to chat with you about my day". People say "oh I would never say those things! Racism is wrong". But that sounds hollow when in the next thread you'll chat with those racists.
 
planetqueen said:
As soon as I find out that somebody is a racist/bigot on here - I don't want anything to do with them.

Everytime a racist is given the time of day, it is like the board collectively going "we don't give a shit" and that makes my stomach churn. I don't want anything to do with racists in real life, and I don't want anything to do with them on here. If I really believed that I could say something to change a persons mind, then I would do whatever it would take - but someone who doesn't think he or she has done anything wrong with using race as an insult, is past learning. And as for the fucking morons who suggest that all racism is the same has no understanding of history and should read more, or kill themselves so as not to waste more oxygen than they need to.

There it is, I knew that would pop up.

I bet you feel guilty about acts committed to people that are now dead, by people that are now dead.
i.e some white people used to own black slaves, so now you feel guilty even though you had nothing to do with it and you excuse all present day black racists even though they were never slaves.

Congratulations, you've just exposed yourself as the complete and utter moron I always knew you were.
 
planetqueen said:
As soon as I find out that somebody is a racist/bigot on here - I don't want anything to do with them.

Everytime a racist is given the time of day, it is like the board collectively going "we don't give a shit" and that makes my stomach churn. I don't want anything to do with racists in real life, and I don't want anything to do with them on here. If I really believed that I could say something to change a persons mind, then I would do whatever it would take - but someone who doesn't think he or she has done anything wrong with using race as an insult, is past learning. And as for the fucking morons who suggest that all racism is the same has no understanding of history and should read more, or kill themselves so as not to waste more oxygen than they need to.
Why isn't all racism the same?
 
Juliangel said:
You mean like the bigotry quoted and pointed out in this post? Kyle has yet to acknowledge this bigotry, probably because the person is a friend of his.
https://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=22861634&postcount=199


Of course she doesn't mean that, didn't you read this part..

planetqueen said:
... And as for the fucking morons who suggest that all racism is the same has no understanding of history and should read more, or kill themselves so as not to waste more oxygen than they need to.

White guilt is a middle class white phenomenon.
 
KyleW said:
...I'm saying that if you are racist or hateful to a sex or sexual preference, then you are pathetic and I will point that out.

...But I'm not going to be your buddy if you are hateful to a person based on race/sex/sexual preference.


and I do not condone this type of thinking for it is the very same ideology as racist bigots.
 
pink_ said:
i dont' know that calling someone a redneck is in the same catagory as calling someone the N word.

How is it not?

Calling someone a "nigger" is an insult based on race.

Calling someone "Redneck" is also an insult based on race.
 
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