Why do you ask for a pic?

[Tuomas]

Hey!

You sound CUTE and Latin.

*winks and checks profile for pic*

Fury

But there isn't one (... is that an actual sentence?) Anyway, you never know what kind of pervie might be interested

 

[FurryFury]

But there isn't one (... is that an actual sentence?) Anyway, you never know what kind of pervie might be interested

*sighs*

I noticed.

*cries*

Oh yes, pervies, wouldn't want that. No sir!

*smirks*

Fury

 

[Tuomas]

*sighs*

I noticed.

*cries*

Oh yes, pervies, wouldn't want that. No sir!

*smirks*

Fury

Agreed. Pervies suck. (Actually, probably a lot of people actually wished they sucked, so they could keep some around as pets )

Anywho, I'm sufficiently full enough of my myself to actually dare to sell my pictures (TM). They are valuable! Current price is three hours of conversation*


*Offer is subject to modification. Small parts may be harmful for children. Batteries not included.

 

[FurryFury]

LMAO!

I like your sense of humor.

*smiles happily*

Fury

 

[Tuomas]

LMAO!

I like your sense of humor.

*smiles happily*

Fury

It's for sale... real cheap. And since you are calling right now, we will also include a handbook on snarkiness, completely free! Call now!

*runs away before someone spanks him for hijaking the topic*

 

[FurryFury]

It's for sale... real cheap. And since you are calling right now, we will also include a handbook on snarkiness, completely free! Call now!

*runs away before someone spanks him for hijaking the topic*

Well aren't you cheeky?

This sort of thing brightens my whole day/night! Hijacks and hi jinks are often delightful IMO.

Fury

 

[Tuomas]

Well aren't you cheeky?

This sort of thing brightens my whole day/night! Hijacks and hi jinks are often delightful IMO.

Fury

Being cheeky and diablerie are certainly the best ways of relieving the stress of a long day. Definately. *nods wisely*

Brightens the whole day? Damnit, the sun is on the fritz again. I hate that... *shakes head* You would think that after several billion years we could get that damn thing to work how we want it, instead of hiding behind every cloud that comes along... The sun needs to be more brave (of course, constantly reminding him of how "round" he his really doesn't help... )

 

[ntp]

......

 

[jadefirefly]

How much does it cost to buy just the handbook on snarkiness?

I need to study up so I can go back and actually have a witty retort to your request to my last post for a pic, Tuomas.

 

[rexfelis]

I don't ask for pics. There's no point. A picture can be faked, and it doesn't say a damned thing about intellect or personality or maturity. Once I've established that she's got a brain, a decent personality and is mature enough for me to want to talk to, I'm open to picture exchange, but usually I don't care even then because I'm not looking. I just want to chat. Socialize and stimulate my own brain some.

Most guys ask for pics because they want to find some "hot" girl to fuck. It comes from overdosing on Internet porn, and getting tunnel vision because of it. If you look at enough pics of beautiful women doing naughty things, you start thinking all beautiful women want to do naughty things with you.

I just recently had a woman do this to me, actually.... she got a picture of my face, and then started demanding more. All she wanted was pics to finger herself to... She got blocked.

 

[FurryFury]

I don't ask for pics. There's no point. A picture can be faked, and it doesn't say a damned thing about intellect or personality or maturity. Once I've established that she's got a brain, a decent personality and is mature enough for me to want to talk to, I'm open to picture exchange, but usually I don't care even then because I'm not looking. I just want to chat. Socialize and stimulate my own brain some.

Most guys ask for pics because they want to find some "hot" girl to fuck. It comes from overdosing on Internet porn, and getting tunnel vision because of it. If you look at enough pics of beautiful women doing naughty things, you start thinking all beautiful women want to do naughty things with you.

I just recently had a woman do this to me, actually.... she got a picture of my face, and then started demanding more. All she wanted was pics to finger herself to... She got blocked.

Wow, first of all you sound like a dude who is smarter than average about these things. This woman sounds like an unusual one. (Thank goodness.)

Fury

 

[PerthOzMale]

Why do you...particularly men..ask for a pic right off the bat in an online conversation?

Is it because you want to make sure that the person you are talking to is who they say they are?

Mainly this for me. With some of my interests I need to make sure that who they say they are is right. I have been online for 9 years and I figure I can tell real pics from online pics

Is it because you just want to have a face to go along with the words?

And there is this...and being a poor conversationalist it gives me more to go with ...I can compliment them

 

[tanyachrs]

I have been online for 9 years and I figure I can tell real pics from online pics

Fake pics are real pics of someone. All you have to do is go to Match or Yahoo personals, pick out who you want to be, and save their photo to your computer.

I always warn the guys who want to do picture exchanges that I'm picky and if they're not my type, and they're probably not, then I'm going to drop them. I can talk to someone if I don't know what he looks like but if I know and I don't like it, I lose interest. They almost always insist on exchanging anyway and they're almost always not my type. So, pic exchange usually means the end of the conversation for me. But hey, it was their idea.

 

[rexfelis]

Wow, first of all you sound like a dude who is smarter than average about these things. This woman sounds like an unusual one. (Thank goodness.)

Fury

I have been there and done that. When I was younger, I was dangerously addicted to porn. I watched how it affected me. Totally threw my sense of reality off balance. That's not something I'm proud to admit, but I grew from it.

I have seen the same thing with several friends, too. One of them got so bad that when I showed him what he was doing, he burned his laptop and permanently damaged the phone jack in his bedroom. Porn is great, in moderation. But it's also very misleading to guys in a lot of ways, and triggers some addictive responses too.

This woman I speak of was probably a 6/10 in looks on my scale, but she was used to guys going apeshit over her when she sent them a pic, and being able to manipulate them. Aside from being very strong and resistant to manipulation, I'm a photographer and work with much more beautiful women than her on a regular basis. I have learned not to give looks as much weight as most guys do. I've seen a lot of "stunners" open their mouths and kill any reason I had to think twice about them.

As can be seen here on other areas of the forum, a lot of women love the attention, so they seek it out. Just as porn makes guys lose sight of reality, so does the incessant ass-kissing attention from guys, in some cases. It happens with women more often than you might think. Unfortunately. Most of the models I shoot whom I would be willing to consider dating based on looks are either too stuck on themselves, too immature, involved with a jealous psycho, or are in some other way coasting through life on their looks alone. ("Like, fer sure!" )

There are some definite advantages to women who aren't as conventionally "beautiful" in a physical sense for this reason. So again... pics? Who cares. Especially since on the Internet, how many of these people am I ever going to meet in person anyway?

 

[FurryFury]

I must say I'm impressed again!

Speaking just for myself, I can say that whatever compliments I get on my looks, they rarely change my internal self view, though they are nice!

Since coming to Lit, I have improved my own self view in numerous ways and that surprises me. I'm much happier about my body in particular due to the exercise threads and the pic threads. Of course I also feel more comfortable with my dirty, kinky mind and well, I'll call it my essential self, as well.



Fury

 

[catalina_francisco]

I don't ask for pics. There's no point. A picture can be faked, and it doesn't say a damned thing about intellect or personality or maturity. Once I've established that she's got a brain, a decent personality and is mature enough for me to want to talk to, I'm open to picture exchange, but usually I don't care even then because I'm not looking. I just want to chat. Socialize and stimulate my own brain some.

Most guys ask for pics because they want to find some "hot" girl to fuck.

So true and a rarity these days....lucky I also found one who was more interesed in the mind than anything else, and then thought he was fortunate to have found everything in one package anyway. It is a very superficial view I do not find is confined to males in that only model looks and bodies will be considered possible....the saying looks are only skin deep is so relevant...lol, interestingly, those I met like that while I was searching 5-6 years ago, and who I still hear from time to time, are still looking for the fantasy person and feeling lonely and bored. I know which alternative I prefer.

Catalina

 

[Shankara20]

LOL!

Guys love to send pictures . . . of their cocks. It's almost as if they think their cock looks extra impressively special?

*falls on floor laughing*

Maybe if you are only looking down at it, this works, for them?

Lalala, did I just say that in public?

Fury

( Shank this does NOT apply to you! *smiles*)

wow - does this mean that my cock looks extra impressively special?


oh my oh my.....

 

[FurryFury]

wow - does this mean that my cock looks extra impressively special?


oh my oh my.....

That's exactly what it means Shank!

Yours is the MOST interesting cock I've ever seen because, baby, you work at it!

I also adore the Dragon Cock but see, I don't know him like I know you dear Shank!

Fury

 

[Shankara20]

That's exactly what it means Shank!

Yours is the MOST interesting cock I've ever seen because, baby, you work at it!

I also adore the Dragon Cock but see, I don't know him like I know you dear Shank!

Fury

Well, I started out as just another guy with a dick to show off and no one to look at it so, I got it tattooed, pierced, do strange things with it, keep it in panties and don't force it on anyone not interested in it.

Now you and others keep asking for more pics all the time.

*blush*

 

[Marquis]

Very sneaky shank!

 

[FurryFury]

Well, I started out as just another guy with a dick to show off and no one to look at it so, I got it tattooed, pierced, do strange things with it, keep it in panties and don't force it on anyone not interested in it.

Now you and others keep asking for more pics all the time.

*blush*

Ain't life sweet at times???

Fury

 

[Shankara20]

Very sneaky shank!

I’m an expert in passive-aggressive

 

[Shankara20]

Ain't life sweet at times???

Fury

yes you are....

at times

 

[FurryFury]

yes you are....

at times

*bats lashes*

Only at times? Don't make me cry Shank!

*sniffles*

Fury

 

[Shankara20]

*bats lashes*

Only at times? Don't make me cry Shank!

*sniffles*

Fury

there there - I was only teasing a little