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Why do women like anal sex?

I think a better question might be...

Why DON'T women like anal sex?​

I'm a guy but I'll take a guess...
  • Porn makes anal sex look horrific; more aggressive and angry rather than sensual and mutually enjoyed.
  • Deeply seated religious belief that anal sex is immoral (this is ridiculous, but it's definitely a thing)
  • Deeply seated belief that anal sex is about dominance and humiliation (also totally ridiculous. Thanks Porn!).
  • It's association with Male/ Male Gay sex, which is another way of saying b/c of Homophobia, which is horrible. Besides, nowadays there are WAY more straight people having anal sex than Gay people - ie., 40% of the straight population is a WAY larger number than 85% of the Gay population.
  • Partner is impatient, refuses to go very very slow and listen intently to his partners "Stop" and "Go" cues.
  • Too little lube or lube of poor quality.
  • Attempting to push dick in without first working up to it - ie., using just one finger, then a second, a third, etc..
  • Concerns that something gross will happen. Well, it shouldn't if timed accordingly (ie., not 1/2 hour before your usual "go" time.)
Any others??
 
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LMWM321 said:
I think a better question might be...

Why DON'T women like anal sex?​

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That was my first thought reading this thread. I’ve done it with only one woman despite many pleadings with others. One woman said “want me to do it to you?” I said no. How I regret giving that answer!!

Now I’m happiest putting my tongue in a woman’s ass. No longer interested in putting my dick there.
 
The belief that anal sex is about dominance and humiliation is what leads to aggressive angry sex. Sure, some women are into that, but most aren't, especially their first time. Having her struggle to take it might stroke your ego, but you'll put her off for life. It's one thing to feel dominated. It's another to feel in danger.

Men, despite being told multiple times, often don't grasp that we need more foreplay than them for regular sex. So why are we surprised that they think a minute of finger poking is enough for anal? It's up to us to tell them when we're ready, and if he's not listening, then can you trust him once inside? We know far better than your finger does when we're ready for penetration.

But isn't this what makes anal so good for both? Just as a skilled chef can turn inedible dried beans or tough sinewy meat into a delicious meal, are we not entrusting a skilled lover to transform our anal passage into an intimate satisfying experience? Yes, he could thrust hard and fast and make it hurt. There's nothing you could do if he did. But you trust him not to, and he repays that trust. That's what makes it special.
 
my ex was crazy about anal, she insisted she get anal play every time we had sex, fingers toys my cock but she had it each time, she loved the old style vibes that were plastic shaped like a rocket, i had to hold it in her while masturbated.
 
Anal feels different. - in a very nice way.😍 Anal sex is very intimate because of how closely in touch you have to be with your partner. You can’t just slam away: there’s all that spreading and stretching, then slow and careful penetration.

Orgasm takes longer to reach but it often feels so deep and intense. Getting both sorts of stimulation simultaneously is utterly divine. It’s why I’m so hooked on DP.🥰

My first anal experience was at (ha ha!) Houston Zoo on school excursion. We had snuck away for some fun and, while he was eating me out, the boy slid his little finger up my ass. He was so careful and gentle! ❤️ It was in before I knew it and WOW it felt good.

The next year I popped my cherry and it was a disappointing, painful experience. My hapless boyfriend had left my pussy very sore, so we tried anal - which also hurt like hell.

I didn’t let him touch my ass again that summer. Once vacation was over, though, I met my ‘bad boy’ - older guy with tats and a muscle car, but also with a deep appreciation for my body and needs.

In the month we were together, we moved through quite a checklist: anal, SM, threeways, edging…. I was hooked on his cock. Even on school days I’d find a way to spend a couple of hours with him getting laid every which way possible.😈
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Homework: https://gofile.io/d/4I9Qkd

So - why do we like anal? Because when it’s done right, it feels awesome!
 
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fma20fma said:
anal sex is safe without condom. The pain and force and submission is a pleasure. the orgasm lingers longer than vaginal sex. the taboo and kink is thrilling.
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From my understanding there is a certain degree of risk with anal sex without a condom. The organisms that thrive in an anus are not so welcome in the urinary tract so there is the possibility of and UTI. Apparently it does not happen all the time as I have had a number of men that wanted to do my ass bare and shoot their cum inside it. I have had several men tell me that the thrill of anal is that a woman will allow them to take her ass.
 
Islander55 said:
From my understanding there is a certain degree of risk with anal sex without a condom. The organisms that thrive in an anus are not so welcome in the urinary tract so there is the possibility of and UTI. Apparently it does not happen all the time as I have had a number of men that wanted to do my ass bare and shoot their cum inside it. I have had several men tell me that the thrill of anal is that a woman will allow them to take her ass.
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Very easy to cause micro tears that become conduits for viruses and other bugs. It was the main infection route during the AIDS crisis among gay men in the 1980s.

(Yes, I just watched Milk….😜)
 
Islander55 said:
From my understanding there is a certain degree of risk with anal sex without a condom. The organisms that thrive in an anus are not so welcome in the urinary tract so there is the possibility of and UTI. Apparently it does not happen all the time as I have had a number of men that wanted to do my ass bare and shoot their cum inside it. I have had several men tell me that the thrill of anal is that a woman will allow them to take her ass.
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the best moment of anal sex is when the semen goes into the intestines after moderately painful forced sex. The burning sensation in the anus is the real pleasure for the receiving girl.
 
fma20fma said:
the best moment of anal sex is when the semen goes into the intestines after moderately painful forced sex. The burning sensation in the anus is the real pleasure for the receiving girl.
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I gather you are a bit submissive and like it a bit rough. As long as I have used plenty of lube and once he gets the head of his cock past the opening, I have no problem. In fact I think I can take a longer cock in my ass than I can in my pussy. Like you I do like that moment when He grabs my ass and thrust deep and I can feel that cock pumping cum into my intestines.
 
I, a man, learned anal pleasure in my teens. I've been finger banging myself ever since. It's amazing and super intense.

Some people love anal stimulation...

The others just haven't learned how to love it ;-)
 
LMWM321 said:
Perhaps you're correct that most women don't enjoy anal sex but I'm betting most would if:
  • She disabuses herself of the idea that enjoying anal sex is somehow shameful or humiliating. This MAY NOT be possible, depending on how deeply rooted these beliefs are and her determination to shed them.
  • She trusts her partner to LISTEN to her and proceed very very very slowly. If he's selfish and impatient, forget it. ..Wrong guy.
  • Pick the right time of day to do it so you're confident you're "empty" up there. Attempting anal sex of any sort (finger, plug, dick) 1/2 hour before your usual "go" time is a patently dumb idea. ..Better to do it an hour AFTER you go.
  • Gradually work up to the girth of your partners dick over the course of several nights, maybe even weeks if necessary. Begin with just a finger, then two, then a but plug, then a slightly bigger butt plug, etc.. And go SLOWWWWWW in all a cases and LOT's and LOT's of quality lube.
My dick is ridiculously girthy (6 1/4") and despite my wife being rather small, she has still succeeded in taking me anally. Did she enjoy it? Yes! But because working our way up to it requires so much foreplay it remains just a once in a great while kinda thing (we've done it only 4 or 5 times). ..But she LOVES her butt plugs and we use them almost weekly. And if my dick was of just average girth - ie., 4.7", about the same as her butt plugs - she'd probably take me anally every week or so.

As an aside, my wife pegs me regularly and I absolutely LOVE how it feels. ..And its not for psycho-sexual reasons like "giving myself to her" or "I enjoy feeling dominated", etc.. Nope. I love it because it feels great. So I have NO problem believing women who say they enjoy it.
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Curious, have you ever topped a man?
 
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