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Why do women like anal sex?

The one thing I want women who are reading this thread to come away with is....

A man's desire to perform anal on his female partner is NOT necessarily rooted in dominating or (god forbid) humiliating her - these are silly and harmful tropes that date back to the origins of our 3 main religions. The architects of religion sought to encourage proliferation, so demonizing homosexuality and anal sex was a means to that end.

I can promise that when I fuck my wife in the ass (only a few times because I am extremely girthy) I have NONE of those thoughts in mind. And likewise when my wife fucks my ass with a strap-on, which is something we do quite often, she is focused only on the pleasurable feelings I get from it. That's all there is to it. ..There's no anger, no intent to embarrass or humiliate.. And If my dick wasn't so thick, my wife would want anal as often as I desire to be pegged, maybe more..

Of course, my point might be easier to believe if not for fucking porn. Porn is the absolute worst at informing people what is normal in our sex lives. Literally... the fucking worst. Many, though not all, of the anal sex clips on Porn hub show pained and humiliated expressions on the woman's face and often an angry and contemptuous look on the guys. And the act is often accompanied by a torrent of yelps and whimpering from the woman and insulting comments or worse from the asshole dude. ..Just fucking awful. Thanks porn. No wonder so many women are terrified of anal sex.
 
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I dated a woman in my 20's who actually preferred anal over vaginal sex. I would agree however that the vast majority of women were not interested in anal and it wasn't high on my list of sexual priorities.
With that said the women that enjoy it they ask for it from my experience.
One was like the individual that posted about her wedding night she wanted me to have her body, mind and soul.
 
Britva415 said:
You could offer to peg her with something of a better size.

And assuming her puss can take it, maybe you can DP her.
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Haha... the thought of wearing a strap on while also having a hard on is quite the image. :)

Thankfully, she seems content with just me using the dildo on her. ..And yes, dp is part of it, but only with the most slender butt plug. Otherwise, quite uncomfortable for her.
 
JusticeGrey said:
Men do have different internal parts that contribute to their enjoyment of anal sex. I think the prostate does quite a bit for men in that department.

That being said, my wife used to enjoy anal quite a bit when we were dating and she was fun, and a girl I know prefers anal and can cum from it with no vaginal or clitoral stimulation.
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I absolutely love it when my wife pegs me and hit the prostate.
For those who are scared to have the back entrance invaded. Relax, you li e the feeling . Use lots of lube .
 
LMWM321 said:
Curious to know if any women find it easier to accommodate a girthy dick anally than vaginally?

I'm quite girthy and after menopause my wife began finding vaginal sex uncomfortable. Thankfully, using Estrogen cream has helped considerably - at least thus far. ...As we explored solutions I had read on some (ostensibly) credible websites that after menopause SOME women might find anal sex - with lots of pre-stretching involving the use of butt plugs of increasing size - to be easier than vaginal because the tissues and muscles of the anus don't loose their elasticity. My wife takes me anally occasionally (with lot's of lube, and slowwwwww) but has thus far NOT found it easier than vaginal. ..Not even close.

Can any women attest to this? And please mention whether your'e post-menopausal.
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My wife is the same. She is dealing with Vagina problems, so i pay more attention to the clit and her tight ass. Amazing what butt plugs and lots of lube can accomplish.
 
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I am older so in my younger days, anal sex was a form of birth control. My preference is usually to have him in my cunt but sometimes I do get the urge to feel a man in my ass and sometimes that is coupled for a urge for DP. There are some older men that still have never done anal so it is a treat for them to get a woman's ass. A couple of men said that it is hot knowing that the woman will let you fuck their ass.
 
It's like -- it's Christmas right? You already have all the gifts you imagined you were gonna have, then you look under all the debris under the tree. It's a gift you didn't ask for, and then you think, sure why not? Tis the season anyway, then this gnarly looking gift gets you off all the time because damn, it gets you faster to unicorn land faster than the other route? You feel me?
 
DEPRAVED_WHORE said:
Both my hubby and I take and give anal and we love it. I was once told that only the clit has more nerve endings that your ass so that is why there is an amazing intensity to being fucked in the ass. Of course there is very much the "taboo" aspect of it as well.
Yes it needs prep but i totally think it is worth it. The full feeling is amazing especially if you can manage to take a cock with some size. After I am loose I do like a good deep pounding and having a guy cum in my ass is just the best.
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I couldn’t agree with you more.
The feeling when you’ve loosened up is to die for. The pressure on the prostate takes you to the extreme of pleasure.
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I once found myself kind of stunned to be in a 2nd anal-only relationship. I sincerely didn't think that would ever happen more than once in a lifetime. I've been with partners whose opinions spanned from Heck No to Only That, and here's my completely non-scientific report:

  • Trust - If I can tell her stories ("plans") about being dismissive and degrading, about her being passed around to other men and she still knows 100% in her heart I would never actually want such a thing and very much adore her, or that she knows that when I slap her tit I know exactly how much is too much, she can relax when I press my thumb flat against her asshole. All this stuff just comes together in her submission to trust that we build.
  • Possession - I want to fuck every part of her in the same sense you'd want to eat the whole dang meal. Anal isn't the point per se, it's just part of the expression of hunger. To be perfectly honest, from a sensory point anal isn't better on my cock than vaginal or anything else really, it's just different and more. Another verb.
  • Attention - I pay close attention to her during anal. We communicate during the push, I listen for her signals, we move her for comfort, and still I talk to her through my teeth about fucking good she feels. With other acts I can kind of just lose myself to it but with anal my eyes are wide open, and I thiiiink that's part of what makes it hot for her? My impression was that being seen and desired in this kind of hyperintimate way was definitely part of both anal only relationships I was in - In both cases they enjoyed the setup, the dressing up for it and the prep. It was a whole performance.
  • Either you have it in you or you don't, and that's okay. - I was in a relationship over 2 decades ago where I was curious about anal and she was not, and to be honest I feel terrible to this day. I didn't pressure her to do anything or whatever, but I did ask on more than one occasion and I feel pathetic about that today and really bad about how her needing to repeatedly tell me no must have felt. It actually puts a lump in my throat. I was young, horny and porn poisoned. I don't think today I would ever even broach the subject of anal if she didn't first, it felt that bad.
 
I love anal. The stimulation of all those nerves endings in and around your anus is wonderful. It can be uncomfortable when he pushes it in (go slow guys and plenty of lube please 🙏) but there's no pain once he's in, and the feeling of him thrusting deep inside your rectum is just so thrilling.

Oh, and it feels a little bit naughtier 😊

Having said all that, I prefer vaginal 🤣
 
UtilityCurve said:
It may only have been a couple who said it, but I'd bet my last dollar every one of them thought it.
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Perhaps the two key things that indicate a woman is really into you is if she will let you take her ass and/or will she swallow your cum. That said, I know there are some women that prefer anal and I admit it can feel good when in the mood. I guess there is still a taboo factor for anal.
 
This thread will be better with some vid clip recommends, or some pictures.
 
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