Why do women like anal sex?

[Bbl87]

Well, not all do for sure as my wife won't let me anywhere near hers.

Which is a shame, because she HAS enjoyed plugs and some light anal play, so I think with time she might really enjoy it, but in addition to some anatomical concerns and bad past experiences, she kind of has a mental block about it.

 

[drobert44]

My husband only got to fuck my ass once so most of my anal has been with other men. It is not something I do often these days but if a guy really wants to try my ass and I think he deserves it, why not.

That's the spirit, Islander!

 

[2wayroad]

quite a few men these days no longer have a prostate (removed due to prostate cancer) yet, still enjoy receptive anal sex, so I don't think it's only b/c of the prostate that it feels good.

Yes, it feels great when my P spot is hit and stimulated. But what feels equally as good is the stretch that my sphincter rings feel. Once they relax, it feels amazing, and the tingle after he finishes fucking me is almost euphoric, like I never want it to stop. Like the tingle of a well placed slap on the ass cheek.

 

[Islander55]

That's the spirit, Islander!

Sex is not just about physical pleasure. The mental aspects play a role too. If he feels special because I let him in my ass, why not let him enjoy that sometimes.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I like it because it makes me feel completely fulfilled when i have a vibe or dildo in both holes..
The feeling of using a vibe or dildo in my ass the same time my pussy is getting penetrated deep is amazing!!

 

[SWR101]

Do you like the guy initiating it, or do you like to?
I am honestly good either way but I tell you there's a particular thrill that I get at the way a guy reacts when I say, unprompted, "I want you in my ass."

I almost never ask my wife for anal, and when I ask it’s mostly “no.” But NOTHING she can say, do, wear, or anything compares to the thrill I get of her asking to me for anal. So, I can at least partially confirm your theory there.

 

[drobert44]

Sex is not just about physical pleasure. The mental aspects play a role too. If he feels special because I let him in my ass, why not let him enjoy that sometimes.

Sure, a cock in an ass wont kill anyone, my top had 6"

 

[Treeview]

I like it because it makes me feel completely fulfilled when i have a vibe or dildo in both holes..
The feeling of using a vibe or dildo in my ass the same time my pussy is getting penetrated deep is amazing!!

And no leg tangles

 

[Islander55]

Sure, a cock in an ass wont kill anyone, my top had 6"

If done right, it can be quite pleasant.

 

[Treeview]

If done right, it can be quite pleasant.

I;ve been told that I feel 'quite pleasant'and bring about 8" to the party. My approach is always to let the Lady set the pace. If she wants more I give.This has worked oh so well.

 

[Treeview]

I think that guys approach anal sex in the same way they masturbate. Handjobs can be hard, fast and deep. Too much of anything doesn't ever hurt

Anal sex is on the very opposite side. Gentle and slow has worked best for me.Its always easier to get more intense.

 

[Islander55]

I;ve been told that I feel 'quite pleasant'and bring about 8" to the party. My approach is always to let the Lady set the pace. If she wants more I give.This has worked oh so well.

You always need to start slow but once I have adjusted to the guy, he can show some enthusiasm. I have found one of the best ways to get started is to have him sit on the couch and I back up to him and just sit down on him. that way I can control the pace and make sure he fits. After that it is easy to switch positions and reentry has not been a problem. It is just that first time in that needs to be slow and easy.

 

[Norfolkguy49]

You always need to start slow but once I have adjusted to the guy, he can show some enthusiasm. I have found one of the best ways to get started is to have him sit on the couch and I back up to him and just sit down on him. that way I can control the pace and make sure he fits. After that it is easy to switch positions and reentry has not been a problem. It is just that first time in that needs to be slow and easy.

Love it that way too x

 

[MissPennyLane]

Do you like it because it fills you up better than in your vagina?
No, for me vaginal is a lot more sexually satisfying, for me anal is more of a mental thing, like I am being completely used for his pleasure. For me it's a much more intense feeling but I wouldn't say it was "better" in its own right / if a partner was to only want that I'd probably be a teeny bit disappointed

Do you like it just as an alternative now and then?
Yes / mixed with everything else I love it, I love feeling "used" and it's a great way of achieving that, I find it too intense for all the time / the prep and cleanliness side is something I find time consuming and hard to shake off worrying about

Do you like the guy initiating it, or do you like to?
I like to be fully prepped for it but I enjoy him taking the lead for wanting it / requesting it and for vocalising when he is going to start when we are together

What's your favorite position?
I actually love receiving it in a more missionary style, on my back with a pillow under me or something, it never hurts that way to start for me, I guess angles and things it works better for me that way but I appreciate on all fours may be easier for him / a better visual for him also

Can you come with a cock in your butt?
For me cumming is 90% mental stimulation so yes, on occasion I have been excited enough to enjoy an orgasm or two just from anal sex

Do you like a guy to eat your ass first (or at all?)
YES YES YES YES YES, and even when not going on to then having any anal penetration, eating everything all the time = yes please

 

[Treeview]

@MissPennyLane

VERY nice write up.

I agree with what you're saying

 

[ParkerSteve66]

My GF loves anal. She orgasms from having a big cock explode in her ass.

No vaginal stimulation necessary.

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

I think this is another ridiculous generalisation, assuming all women love anal and for the same reason.

I like it sometimes, if I’m in the mood. I prefer vaginal sex mostly unless I want to be ultra submissive. I very rarely have anal orgasms but when I dit makes my whole body shake. I generally like it prone, flat on my tummy or on my back, legs over his shoulders. In those positions I feel like I can’t pull away or make it stop. I usually wait for a man to initiate it but sometimes if I’m in the mood and feeling bratty I’ll bend over, pull my bum cheeks apart and offer it.

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

I know a girl and a woman who prefer anal over vaginal sex and I've wondered what it is that they find so appealing about it.

You apparently know them. Did it ever occur to you to ask them?

 

[Norfolkguy49]

I think this is another ridiculous generalisation, assuming all women love anal and for the same reason.

I like it sometimes, if I’m in the mood. I prefer vaginal sex mostly unless I want to be ultra submissive. I very rarely have anal orgasms but when I dit makes my whole body shake. I generally like it prone, flat on my tummy or on my back, legs over his shoulders. In those positions I feel like I can’t pull away or make it stop. I usually wait for a man to initiate it but sometimes if I’m in the mood and feeling bratty I’ll bend over, pull my bum cheeks apart and offer it.

Mmmmmmm sounds great x

 

[Utmale48]

I like talking about anal almost as much as getting it, and it's almost exclusively the porn I watch. To answer the OP questions:

Do you like it because it fills you up better than in your vagina?
"Better" is a loaded word. It's different, and sometimes that difference is outrageously good. I will say it's a little more work to have "good" anal sex than less taboo kinds. Bad butt sex can have a long tail. And something that would be a lot of fun in my vagina could be incompatible with anal play, including a huge dick.

Do you like it just as an alternative now and then?
I like it to always be an option, but I don't require it or prefer it exclusively

Do you like the guy initiating it, or do you like to?
I am honestly good either way but I tell you there's a particular thrill that I get at the way a guy reacts when I say, unprompted, "I want you in my ass."

What's your favorite position?
Prone bone is my favorite but some guys have trouble keeping their cock inside that way, and I'm not into stovepiping, so then I like it on my side, preferably with him straddling my lower leg and my other leg lifted

Can you come with a cock in your butt?
Absolutely. I never came so hard as I do when I can feel him spurting in my ass, I don't have the words...

Do you like a guy to eat your ass first (or at all?)
Ambivalent. I'm not into it but I don't hate it so if he wants to, hey, go to town.

We should definitely be friends

 

[Bonnie_Does]

Anal sex! I think it's been said that variety is the spice of life!

 

[Deleted member 1178772]

Sadly
I have never tried anal.

 

[Pabiporffor]

First off, I can't orgasm purely on anal alone. That said, a well placed hand as he takes his pleasure will often tip me over the edge.

But orgasms aside, anal is not without it's pleasures. Yes, there's the sense of being filled up, but it's more one of exhilaration rather than a need to evacuated. It's like freewheeling down a hill on a bike with dodgy brakes and a wobbly wheel. The feeling of being dominated can't be overstated, but you don't feel threatened and there's something about giving your trust to a man.

As for position I'm not a fan of doggy, I simply find it uncomfortable. Prone bone is by far the supreme rear entry position but for me best of all is missionary with a pillow under my hips.

 

[UtilityCurve]

The feeling of being dominated can't be overstated, but you don't feel threatened and there's something about giving your trust to a man.

Simply put, that is the sexiest way any woman has described it.

100% if he's not your everything, skip it, but if your relationship is rock-solid, you may find yourself regretting not having "gone there."

(Yeah, that's the sound of hurt.)

 

[UtilityCurve]

Obviously the first time a girl is going to be apprehensive.

But when it is "successful" (I'm sorry if that is crude), what elements led to it? Flirting? Watching anal porn? Intoxicants? (Boo. I want a girl to want me and that with all her faculties.)

Ladies who have, share, please.