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Why do women like anal sex?

LisaMayTurner said:
You expect me to announce to the world on Literotica that some guy have bounced me on his stiffy in this manner? My response is, of course, based on discussions with people around me and on numerous sources of other evidence.
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Perhaps you're correct that most women don't enjoy anal sex but I'm betting most would if:
  • She disabuses herself of the idea that enjoying anal sex is somehow shameful or humiliating. This MAY NOT be possible, depending on how deeply rooted these beliefs are and her determination to shed them.
  • She trusts her partner to LISTEN to her and proceed very very very slowly. If he's selfish and impatient, forget it. ..Wrong guy.
  • Pick the right time of day to do it so you're confident you're "empty" up there. Attempting anal sex of any sort (finger, plug, dick) 1/2 hour before your usual "go" time is a patently dumb idea. ..Better to do it an hour AFTER you go.
  • Gradually work up to the girth of your partners dick over the course of several nights, maybe even weeks if necessary. Begin with just a finger, then two, then a but plug, then a slightly bigger butt plug, etc.. And go SLOWWWWWW in all a cases and LOT's and LOT's of quality lube.
My dick is ridiculously girthy (6 1/4") and despite my wife being rather small, she has still succeeded in taking me anally. Did she enjoy it? Yes! But because working our way up to it requires so much foreplay it remains just a once in a great while kinda thing (we've done it only 4 or 5 times). ..But she LOVES her butt plugs and we use them almost weekly. And if my dick was of just average girth - ie., 4.7", about the same as her butt plugs - she'd probably take me anally every week or so.

As an aside, my wife pegs me regularly and I absolutely LOVE how it feels. ..And its not for psycho-sexual reasons like "giving myself to her" or "I enjoy feeling dominated", etc.. Nope. I love it because it feels great. So I have NO problem believing women who say they enjoy it.
 
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As an added comment:

I personally believe that to find anal sex pleasurable there needs to be a genuine interest and motivation to enjoy it. Lucky for me, my wife suffers from a bit of FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out) so after seeing countless favorable references to anal sex in magazines (like Oprah and Cosmo), R-rated movies, etc... She decided that she wanted to enjoy it too so she was determined to give it a fair shot, including preparation and taking our time. But if she approached it with a negative attitude (ie., it's degrading, humiliating, dirty, immoral, etc etc.) but agreed to try it just to appease me.. Well, she most assuredly would NOT have enjoyed it.

So the question to ask oneself is this: Do you LIKE the idea of having a whole new "playground" and a bunch of associated activities to add to your sex life? If the answer is an enthusiastic YES! Then there's no reason you shouldn't be able to find a way to enjoy anal sex, even if it's just fingers, toys, rimming, etc.. But if the mere idea of anal sex repulses you for reasons that are deeply seated, well.... then there is no magical way of changing that. And that's fine b/c there's a million other ways to enjoy sex.
 
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LMWM321 said:
Perhaps you're correct that most women don't enjoy anal sex but I'm betting most would if:
  • She disabuses herself of the idea that enjoying anal sex is somehow shameful or humiliating. This MAY NOT be possible, depending on how deeply rooted these beliefs are and her determination to shed them.
  • She trusts her partner to LISTEN to her and proceed very very very slowly. If he's selfish and impatient, forget it. ..Wrong guy.
  • Pick the right time of day to do it so you're confident you're "empty" up there. Attempting anal sex of any sort (finger, plug, dick) 1/2 hour before your usual "go" time is a patently dumb idea. ..Better to do it an hour AFTER you go.
  • Gradually work up to the girth of your partners dick over the course of several nights, maybe even weeks if necessary. Begin with just a finger, then two, then a but plug, then a slightly bigger butt plug, etc.. And go SLOWWWWWW in all a cases and LOT's and LOT's of quality lube.
My dick is ridiculously girthy (6 1/4") and despite my wife being rather small, she has still succeeded in taking me anally. Did she enjoy it? Yes! But because working our way up to it requires so much foreplay it remains just a once in a great while kinda thing (we've done it only 4 or 5 times). ..But she LOVES her butt plugs and we use them almost weekly. And if my dick was of just average girth - ie., 4.7", about the same as her butt plugs - she'd probably take me anally every week or so.

As an aside, my wife pegs me regularly and I absolutely LOVE how it feels. ..And its not for psycho-sexual reasons like "giving myself to her" or "I enjoy feeling dominated", etc.. Nope. I love it because it feels great. So I have NO problem believing women who say they enjoy it.
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Do "bets" count as facts? You are talking about a male fantasy, so being factual and teasy fantasy need to be delineated!
 
LisaMayTurner said:
Do "bets" count as facts? You are talking about a male fantasy, so being factual and teasy fantasy need to be delineated!
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Well no.. definitely more of a supposition than a statement of fact. ..You got met there :)

But I do think my conjecture is supported by facts, which are:
  • There is a rise in the number of heterosexual women who are engaging in receptive anal sex. According to the NIH.gov website, 36% of heterosexual women ages 25-44 engage in it. This means there are far more straight women having anal sex than even gay men - ie., 86% of Gay men (which is about 6% of men) is a MUCH MUCH smaller than 36% of all straight women (about 96% of women).
  • Sex researchers and therapists confirm there are nerve endings in the rectum that some find very pleasurable when stimulated. This claim is certainly supported by those who’ve engaged in it and have enjoyed it - including ME, a straight man who enjoys being pegged.
  • As time goes on people are shedding outdated notions that certain types of sex are inherently degrading and humiliating. Less than 100 years ago, giving a man head was considered just that - humiliating and degrading. Even doggie-style was perceived that way by most. These days, few people in the West, apart from religious zealots, hold such ridiculous beliefs.
  • Homosexuality is becoming increasingly accepted around the world - especially in the West. It's perceived as a natural (for some) and unchangeable sexual orientation. Consequently, there is less demonizing of the sexual acts that gay men are presumed to engage in, including anal sex (though not all do... something like 86%).
  • Many of the failed and painful first attempts at anal sex are spontaneous and haphazard, which is contrary to what sex experts and therapists recommend.. The typical first attempt probably goes something like, "ok honey, put lube on your dick then stick it in..," followed by, "OOOOOWWWW! PULL IT OUT, PULL IT OUT!!" It doesn't have to be like this! Again and again sex therapists assert that receptive anal sex should be pain-free if simple steps are followed, most importantly using lots of lube AND GRADUALLY working up - over days or weeks - to a full size dick. Begin with just finger tip, then another, etc... etc etc. ..There are even kits of 5-6 butt plugs of increasing girth to help with this. Point being: As more people (inc. women of course) are introduced to anal sex the PROPER way, the more it will be enjoyed and practiced. And if engaged in properly, anal sex does not cause anal or rectal issues like incontinence.
Does this mean that MOST women will one day enjoy and engage in frequent anal sex? Who knows... But it certainly means more will than do today... So to assert, as you do, that it's "only in men's fantasies that women enjoy anal sex" is wrong, imho.
 
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My question is how many threads are needed to ask women if they like anal? Only one gf flat out refused, and another wanted to try but we never got around to it. All the others either liked it already or tried it and liked it. I don't see why it's such a mystery.
 
Although my first experience was an utter disaster many years ago (with what turned out to be an inconsiderate brute who I never saw again) and caused me to never even consider anal again, my husband changed all that during our 1st year together.

It started with brief caresses of my anus while he would worship my pussy with his lips and tongue, and later to inserting just a fingertip at the moment his tongue would make me cum and squirt, and it felt wonderful! He took his time, he built trust, he was incredibly gentle as he knew of my past painful experience.

This went on for a few weeks, and he would often make sure that when I came, he was involving my ass in one way or another.

One night he lubed me as his tongue fluttered lightly on my clit, and gently inserted my little pocket rocket vibrator in my ass, and the combination felt wonderful! I came and squirted hard. I knew at that point that I wanted his cock! I turned over on to my elbows and knees and waited in anticipation as he coated his by now raging erection with our Kama Sutra oil. He fingered me some more before easing just the tip of his head in and out, each time just a little deeper, until I was suddenly compelled to thrust back and with a gasp, take his cock deep in to me! What a delicious and new feeling it was! My ass was his! I had “seen the light”

At first he remained still behind me, allowing me to control depth and pace. I marveled in discovering new places of pleasure as I found myself experimenting with different angles while twisting my hips and feeling sensations I had not felt before, when he suddenly and firmly grasped my waist and began fucking, then pummeling my ass with his thick cock! Oh, that lovely sound of flesh slapping against wet flesh! The feeling of his balls slapping my pussy as my insides felt as though they were being rearranged! I searched for my trusty pocket rocket near his knees, grabbed it and placed it on my clit and came again while squirting against his balls (which he now loves) only moments before I heard his long groan as he filled my ass with spurt after spurt of his delicious cum! As his orgasm subsided, he didn’t withdraw, but instead held my hips against him, rolling us both over to the side in to a perfect spooning position as we caught our breath, his cock still inside me…

What had been until then an experience I wanted nothing more than to forget had morphed in to whole new vistas of pleasure thanks to him. He had become my “ass whisperer”. I KNEW there was a reason I married him! 😉😍🍆💦 Just kidding! Haha!

I now count anal as a favorite sexual activity, and often include some form of it even when alone masturbating. 😈🍆💦💦💦
Carpe Diem! 👍
https://vlix.io/video/215b27694b6f139e34ce/
 
Will527 said:
I know a girl and a woman who prefer anal over vaginal sex and I've wondered what it is that they find so appealing about it. So, those ladies out there who like a little butt action now and then....questions for ya...
Do you like it because it fills you up better than in your vagina?
Do you like it just as an alternative now and then?
Do you like the guy initiating it, or do you like to?
What's your favorite position?
Can you come with a cock in your butt?
Do you like a guy to eat your ass first (or at all?)
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Well some they will and some they won't and some you just can't tell; and some they do and some they don't and with some it's just as well.......
 
NightBirdNYC said:
Although my first experience was an utter disaster many years ago (with what turned out to be an inconsiderate brute who I never saw again) and caused me to never even consider anal again, my husband changed all that during our 1st year together.

It started with brief caresses of my anus while he would worship my pussy with his lips and tongue, and later to inserting just a fingertip at the moment his tongue would make me cum and squirt, and it felt wonderful! He took his time, he built trust, he was incredibly gentle as he knew of my past painful experience.

This went on for a few weeks, and he would often make sure that when I came, he was involving my ass in one way or another.

One night he lubed me as his tongue fluttered lightly on my clit, and gently inserted my little pocket rocket vibrator in my ass, and the combination felt wonderful! I came and squirted hard. I knew at that point that I wanted his cock! I turned over on to my elbows and knees and waited in anticipation as he coated his by now raging erection with our Kama Sutra oil. He fingered me some more before easing just the tip of his head in and out, each time just a little deeper, until I was suddenly compelled to thrust back and with a gasp, take his cock deep in to me! What a delicious and new feeling it was! My ass was his! I had “seen the light”

At first he remained still behind me, allowing me to control depth and pace. I marveled in discovering new places of pleasure as I found myself experimenting with different angles while twisting my hips and feeling sensations I had not felt before, when he suddenly and firmly grasped my waist and began fucking, then pummeling my ass with his thick cock! Oh, that lovely sound of flesh slapping against wet flesh! The feeling of his balls slapping my pussy as my insides felt as though they were being rearranged! I searched for my trusty pocket rocket near his knees, grabbed it and placed it on my clit and came again while squirting against his balls (which he now loves) only moments before I heard his long groan as he filled my ass with spurt after spurt of his delicious cum! As his orgasm subsided, he didn’t withdraw, but instead held my hips against him, rolling us both over to the side in to a perfect spooning position as we caught our breath, his cock still inside me…

What had been until then an experience I wanted nothing more than to forget had morphed in to whole new vistas of pleasure thanks to him. He had become my “ass whisperer”. I KNEW there was a reason I married him! 😉😍🍆💦 Just kidding! Haha!

I now count anal as a favorite sexual activity, and often include some form of it even when alone masturbating. 😈🍆💦💦💦
Carpe Diem! 👍
https://vlix.io/video/215b27694b6f139e34ce/
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Night Bird, a lovely tale of exploring and great satisfaction.
 
NightBirdNYC said:
I wouldn’t say I prefer anal, but there are times when it’s all I want! A lovely tongue on my clit added this would have been the cherry on top! 😍😈🍆💦💦💦💦
https://vlix.io/video/455a233086e26b72b9a0/
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I've only done anal once with my first wife, and only a few strokes. She didn't like it so didn't cum in her ass or ever do it again. Would love to try again. And I love eating a woman.
 
Do you like it because it fills you up better than in your vagina? No, I like it because of the intense sensations
Do you like it just as an alternative now and then? Once or twice a month is enough for me. It would be uncomfortable to do it more often
Do you like the guy initiating it, or do you like to? Usually my partner asks me if I want anal during normal sex but I will ask for it if I feel the need
What's your favorite position? On my back with my legs up
Can you come with a cock in your butt? Yes, but it's not guaranteed
Do you like a guy to eat your ass first (or at all?) We usually go from vaginal sex to anal because I want the penetration
 
My wife was in labor with our first child. She was shouting, "Get this out of me! Give me the drugs." She looked at me and said, "You did this to me you bastard!" I casually replied, "If you would care to remember, I wanted to stick it up your ass but you said, "It'll be too painful."

Something I found on the net somewhere. LOL.
 
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