Why do I come here?

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[Eumenides]

I find that when I do something unfluffy, people ignore me. I think they don't even read my post, thinking that it will be off topic or fluffy. It used to bother me. Now I just shrug it off. People will always disagree with you, EE, and some people know no other way to disagree than to belittle. You just have to say that they are not good debaters, no matter what they think, or how knowledgeable they are. Don't let it get to you.

 

[Mischka]

Emerald, you need a break, that's all. As I said in the other thread, you do not come across as a fluff queen (except to the cad that PM'd you). You get heated in debates, and that's obviously draining on you.

Read a book, bake something, go for a walk. Anything that will help put things in perspective for you. Then come back and enjoy your time here again.

 

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[Bluesboy2]

Would it help at all to know that I like and respect you? Even though we don't post in the same threads much.

 

[ozraven]

In the last week, ive been caught up in 2 differnt arguments.
One about a person in need of help. At first I had doubts about like anyone would, then showed signs of concern and I tried to help....Of course its easy to be the good guy and come in after everything is out in the open...... the one dragging out the info looks like the asshole. It bothered me because when the attack came, I was genuinly concerned.


Second time- I feel very strong about something quite serious, but yet Im basically being told Im an idiot for the opinion I have.

Both incidents have truely either pissed me off, or hurt my feelings in some way.

WHY? Is it because I actuly respect the people that are belittling me? Or is it because I have had enough of being here?


I got a PM a few days ago. Someone mentioned that they werent used to me debating anything because I come off as a fluff queen. Is that what it is?


Or is it because I am mor fragile now then I was a few weeks ago? Moods have shiftefd.


Or do I just need to log out, change my password to scrambled letters and just not return?

Didn't read either thread, but I enjoy your posts, and have seen you be quite cutting in some of them, which is not usually an indicator of fluff......
The fact that you don't mind flirting a bit every now and then should be seen as a positive I would have thought.......
Opinions are like arseholes, everyone's got one, now you've had mine.....
And I agree with Hanns, there's fuck all at stake here but a fun....so have fun, ignore the shit you don't like, and have fun with the rest......
But don't debunk on us, I kinda like ya!

 

[Lancecastor]

This all sounds very serious.

I'm deeply concerned and will be monitoring my feelings closely until things are resolved.

 

[Nobody Special's wife]

I have to disagree, I wouldn't say Ems is a fluff queen

She is a dumb bitch, no doubt....but that's a pre requisite for this site.

Excluding H.R.H Hanns Schmidt

You really want to be a Problem Child wanna be

Emerald, don't worry about what other people say. Other people will be mean just to spite themselves.

Your opion counts to the few that read what you have to say and that does matter.

Some people just love to be the biggest ass hole around

 

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[ozraven]

NONO NONONO

I dont think I worded this well.....

Its not that anyone disagreed with me thats got me upset.....its the actualy Idea that I got mad and upset about something that happened here.....

Im usually immune to things like that but I actually got mad and upset.....

Ok, I think I should leave this one alone now, when my lady love gets like that, I know exactly what the cause is..........

 

[LadyG]

Maybe you've just shifted into a different emotional place? Or it could be r/l stuff that's affecting your emotions?

You're NOT a fluff queen, for God's sake, so ignore the idiot that said that to you in PM.

*BIG HUGS*

You'll be fine, really.

 

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[Pyper]

The gift of Pissing People Off has been recently bestowed upon me by some cruel cosmic joke. Mischka tells me to run with it.

 

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[aly*]

Heya EE. Since you ask, lol, I think it is perspective- mood whatever. I don't see you as all fluff. I'm sure I've seen you speak your mind here. I also don't think fluffy has to mean you have no back bone, btw.

I don't know what you are reffering to with the first incident. But in the second, having just read it and as someone somewhat objective(?), i don't think you were being called an idiot or being seriously belittled. If you were trully thought an idiot, I don't think people would take the time to even respond with any real content.

I think maybe you have overlooked, and understandably so, that many people agreed with you, but did not come back to reply again to an opposing idea. Somehow you ended up sort of taking on the task. I think that ultimately, feeling misunderstood sucks.

We try and express ourselves as best we can, but there are no guarantees of actual communication. I sometimes thnk we all struggle with it on some level. (or maybe i just tell that to myself to feel better) Hang in there, EE. Things may look different tomorrow, or in 2 hours. I'm sorry your feelin' stressed.

 

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[ozraven]

lol, sorry, i made myslef laugh......


I thought this was clever

It was actually, but self praise is the faintest.........

 

[Gil_Favor]

This all sounds very serious.


I'm deeply concerned and will be monitoring my feelings closely until things are resolved.

Another example of..........

The softer side of Lance

 

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[Nobody Special's wife]

Oh they werent being mean.......really.

I just got to upset and emotional about it

Emrald I use to do the same thing, But then I kinda grew out of it. just rember you opion does count and so does your self worth..


Oh and sometimes chocolate helps too

 

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