Why do guys...

~melia~

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Say they want to spend time with you, yet every time you invite them over, they say they have something to do? I'm getting sick of this crap. aaaarrrrgggggghhhh! :mad:
 
if you find the answer to any question that starts Why do guys you'll be an instant millionnaire.
 
i'm gonna put this like my gramma did tonite bout my grandfather.... they just dont know what they want
 
Guys want things on their own turf so they can be "in control" --or that's what I think may be the case. If anyone ever figures out the opposite sex, I think they should receive a Nobel award.
 
Run for your lives men!

Curiosity gets the better of him and he sneaks in to see what is going on. Sees that it's a male-bashing session. Runs very quickly away.:eek:
 
Ok, here's another question...

Do you think the fact that a girl is a virgin would intimidate a guy?
 
Re: Ok, here's another question...

CurlyGirl said:
Do you think the fact that a girl is a virgin would intimidate a guy?

Some guys, yes it would intimidate them. Most would see it as either an opportunity, or a challenge.
 
What Guys have you been talking to????

You don't have to ask me twice. If I'm invited over, I'm there.

Especially if its for sugar and spice and everything NAUGHTY!!!
(LOL)



kgboot
 
Well, this whole situation has confused the hell out of me. The few times he has come over, he has come so close to kissing me, but the most he ever did was kiss me on the cheek. I wonder why he keeps backing away.
 
CurlyGirl said:
Well, this whole situation has confused the hell out of me. The few times he has come over, he has come so close to kissing me, but the most he ever did was kiss me on the cheek. I wonder why he keeps backing away.

I'm not sure how to put it into words, but some guys see virgins as something fragile, something to be handled with kid gloves.

It's entirely possible he doesn't know what to expect from you. He probably is afraid he's going to "spook" you and get thrown out on his butt if he tries anything sexual.

Next time he comes over, try grabbing his ears and planting a big kiss on him.
 
You know...I used to get real nervous around him but I've finally decided that I need to do just that.
But how can I get him over here? Waaaaaaahhhh!


Note: I'd like to go see him, but he lives with his parents.
 
CurlyGirl said:
But how can I get him over here? Waaaaaaahhhh!

Depends on how bad you want him to come over.

*ring*
*ring*
"Hi, can I speak to whatsisname?"

"Hi love, you know that virginity problem I've got? I figured out how to cure it. If you can come ov..... Hello? Damn, he hung up on me."

*Knock Knock*
 
CurlyGirl said:
Hmmmmmm.....that might work lol.


Might work on the typically horny 16 - 20 year old.

How old did you say this guy was???????????????? Still lives at home with his parents?

That might be his major problem, still living at home with mommy n daddy (still believing the lies parents tell their kids about sex being wicked, or bad........).

His parents might even be highly religious and have raised him not to be promiscuous.............. save his virginity for his wedding night to be shared with his virgin bride (not that there is anything wrong with that.............just wasn't me).
 
Re: Ok, here's another question...

CurlyGirl said:
Do you think the fact that a girl is a virgin would intimidate a guy?

no - not at all - as for inviting them over and them not coming - Damn how stupid is they??

Seriously - I never say yes and not show up - i say what i mean and damn an invite means that obviously you are interested and I am way to bad of a dater to know that signals THAT clear should be encouraged - I only wish that someone up here in Canada would flash me that clear a signal - I never notice the little ones - someone almost has to tell me!! I know dating impaired!!!
 
floridaguy64 said:



Might work on the typically horny 16 - 20 year old.

How old did you say this guy was???????????????? Still lives at home with his parents?

That might be his major problem, still living at home with mommy n daddy (still believing the lies parents tell their kids about sex being wicked, or bad........).

His parents might even be highly religious and have raised him not to be promiscuous.............. save his virginity for his wedding night to be shared with his virgin bride (not that there is anything wrong with that.............just wasn't me).


I've known him for 5 years, he's 24, and he's not a virgin. To put it in his words, he's horny 24/7. LOL He lives with his parents because he's still in college here.
 
CurlyGirl said:



I've known him for 5 years, he's 24, and he's not a virgin. To put it in his words, he's horny 24/7. LOL He lives with his parents because he's still in college here.

just a thought hun............ maybe he just wants to be friends and he hasn't figured out yet that he may be throwing you the wrong signals?

Anyone can tell you that men are not perfect............. Lord knows I still screw up at 37 all the time............. then again, if a lady were to brandish a knife or a ball bat and say leave, THAT would be a pretty clear signal to leave...............LOL


Live life to it's fullest measure...................Bartender!, Another round for all please?!
 
He has told me numerous times that he wants to see me, and hang out with me and........... This has been going on for 3 months.

Sometimes I wonder if he's telling the truth.

Maybe I need to go beat it out of him....Yeah! That sounds like a good idea.

:cool:
 
CurlyGirl said:
He has told me numerous times that he wants to see me, and hang out with me and........... This has been going on for 3 months.

Sometimes I wonder if he's telling the truth.

Maybe I need to go beat it out of him....Yeah! That sounds like a good idea.

:cool:


Well hun.............if he wants to see you, hang out, and........... , find out what the and.............. is.

If it's sex, and you wanna with him too.....................put him to the test.;)


What's the worst thing that could happen, he says No?.......... or you say No? Could be the best of all things that happen if you just come right out and tell him what you feel........... dragging it out much longer seems like it's going to drive you batty.
 
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