Why am I so damn ugly?

[doctor_insanus]

Okay, here it is... the thread where you can debate whether or not you're ugly!

I know I'll never make People's Sexiest List, but I'm okay. I can deal with it! Some of you, however, seem to have a lot of problems dealing with the fact that...

YOU... ARE... NOT... UGLY!

So, here you go! A thread devoted entirely to you! Debate... discuss... screw yourselves silly! Do whatever the hell you want! That's what we're here for!

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

What? I don't think I get it.

Who is this thread for.

Those who think they look good?

Or those who have less confidence in their looks?

 

[MysteryJKR]

Well I feel that I am. & yea ive heard many times that I should shut up and all of this and that but its not that easy when your an adult, yet you havent had one date, only one girlfriend. (long distance). Teased every single day, and didnt have a friend from kindergarden to 8th grade. I went through years of bad depression cuz of this and I still just out of no where go into a depression mode and cant get out of it.

Its really hard, and it really just grinds down on your insides after all that time ya know. It really sucks and my personal view of myself is just soo horrible, and im so thick headed about it, cuz I think. hey well if I was teased and told it was true for sooo many years, they all cant blind. *shrugs*

I am very insecure, I dont take compliments all that well, cuz I always think its a lie, and my self confidense is so down people in China probably have it. lol.


I am getting alot better and ive gotten quite a few friends who are always there for me and try to make me feel better. And its great, and im feeling somewhat better about myself but as you can tell Im still not even close to being comfy with who I am.

So yep. Theres what I have to say.

 

[p_p_man]

doctor...

...answer me straight...

Am I Ugly?

 

[morninggirl5]

Okay, here it is... the thread where you can debate whether or not you're ugly!

I know I'm never make People's Sexiest List, but I'm okay. I can deal with it! Some of you, however, seem to have a lot of problems dealing with the fact that...

YOU... ARE... NOT... UGLY!

So, here you go! A thread devoted entirely to you! Debate... discuss... screw yourselves silly! Do whatever the hell you want! That's what we're here for!

You are beautiful!!!!! The darkness is back!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[doctor_insanus]

Re: doctor...

...answer me straight...

Am I Ugly?

Yes, you are... you British Arrogant Bastard!

 

[p_p_man]

Thanks...

...how much do I owe you?...

(sobs)

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

The whirlpool of inadequacy is stong....

So strong that is sucks up all sorts of people - all sorts of people with smarts - all sorts of people with good looks - just all sorts of people.

It's a major life problem for most people who walk, breath and share in this global life of ours.

I believe that we all suffer from inadequacy to some degree.

It's how you deal with it - give in to it or fight it - that is the key to one's own happiness in life.

Confidence can come to one in many ways - but - there is only one way that truly means anything substantial. It has to come from within.

Nothing is worse than false confidence - first off - it's so obvious.

I may sound simple and difficult at the same time - but quite simply - one has to believe in oneself. If only most religions purported that in a greater way.

I think that believing in oneself is the most important thing a human can do - more important than anything - anything.

Self love. You've got to love yourself. And if you do - you will beam - regardless of genetics - you will beam. And others will notice and be drawn to you.

Self-inadequacy is ones own worst enemy,

This is the essence of a good human life.

 

[p_p_man]

OK a quick serious comment...

...when you're young some days you feel ugly some days you feel great.

You're on the hunt so how you feel you look reflects how high your confidence is at the time.

As you grow older and become more comfortable with yourself and more self confident, you accept yourself for what you are.

No probs...it just takes time.

What was that story about the Ugly Duckling?...

 

[doctor_insanus]

Re: Re: Why am I so damn ugly?

You are beautiful!!!!! The darkness is back!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you! So are you!

And they couldn't thwart me forever! Nya ha ha ha!

Sparky... p_p... well said, brothers.

 

[Guest]

I want to be ugly.... I really do.

I swear.

but its too hard to be ugly when surrounded by so many beautiful people

 

[Simply Me]

"Pretty is as Pretty does" I have always believed that beauty comes from within. I know we have all met someone that on first appearance, may not be the best looking of people, but after getting to know them, they become beautiful to you. Much like on here, we get to know people based on their personality, not their looks, and when we do finally see them as we have on here recently, they are beautiful to us. Too much emphasis on looks, and not enough on just being true to yourself, and living up to the standards you set for yourself. We will all be old and wrinkled one day, and being with someone based on looks is not the way to go. One day you will wake up, the looks gone, and you better hope you LIKE the person you are with, thats what is important..

 

[Guest]

I never judge someone by appearance alone..... looks don't matter (aww shut up you shallow people ) But I must admit that I am a big sucker for a pair of brown eyes

 

[p_p_man]

Shit...

But I must admit that I am a big sucker for a pair of brown eyes

...mine are blue. They change from light to very dark blue...they could look brown in the dark.

Will they do?

 

[Guest]

I like two types of men....

brown hair/brown eyes
and blonde/light brown hair and blue eyes...


but on rare occasions..... I have went for green eyes

 

[p_p_man]

Dammit...

...I'll just buy a pair of contacts and be done with it...

 

[morninggirl5]

"Pretty is as Pretty does"

Okay, now I know she's a true southern girl. Great point Simply...

Now, how about passing the grits, so I can start my day off right.

 

[Adoratrice]

I don't neccesarily think I'm UGLY per say.... But I am the only one who posted on the "Other" thread who didn't get asked to show her boobies....so maybe I had better go take another look huh?

 

[Mistress]

I don't nessesarily think I'm UGLY per say.... But I am the only one who posted on the "Other" thread who didn't get asked to show her boobies....so maybe I had better go take another look huh?

You are gorgeous Adora, and I've told you that once already from your picture on April's page!

 

[Guest]

I didn't see it.....

 

[Guest]

Spark...

Who is this thread for?

This thread is for people like me who are ugly.

 

[Simply Me]

Now, how about passing the grits, so I can start my day off right.

*Handing you a bowl of hot grits with lots of butter*

I dont share my grits with just anyone ya know..nice to meet you Morning girl!

 

[indyweasel]

I don't nessesarily think I'm UGLY per say.... But I am the only one who posted on the "Other" thread who didn't get asked to show her boobies....so maybe I had better go take another look huh?

Show ME your boobies...

 

[ShyGuy68]

I don't neccesarily think I'm UGLY per say.... But I am the only one who posted on the "Other" thread who didn't get asked to show her boobies....so maybe I had better go take another look huh?

Adoratrice I noticed your picture, and thought you looked great!! And I for one wouldn't mind if you posted more pictures, revealing a little more!!

 

[Adoratrice]

I'm such a dork...I spelled it wrong and now it is quoted forever......Grrrrrrrr.......


I'm not sure I feel right about posting my boobies in the same thread where children are dwelling...maybe I will start a boobie thread.

*Mistress...thank you , your a doll