Who likes to be spanked?

[son_hot4mom]

I have a mature woman friend who has requested that I spank her... no restraints, no other forms of dominance, just a spanking. Any suggestions? I have done some research, and would like to hear more about spanking from our lit family.

I would like to hear from men AND women who have administered spankings, hear about your techniques, safety issues, etc... PM's welcome.

I would also love to hear from women who love to be spanked... what is it that makes a spanking so erotic to you?

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

I do

 

[philos]

I love it! Warm my butt anytime and don't hold back. OTK is especially hot.

 

[jennyxiaoxoxo]

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[LizVegas79]

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[italiansexylady]

I'm with ya Liz! Raising my hand too!!

 

[Valendon]

Add me to the group!

I do enjoy getting my butt warmed--there's just some path between the sting back there and the juices up front! Don't play any dom games with me--there's no faster way to take me OUT of the mood--but like Madonna sings: Spank me, SPANK me!

 

[ChattyAnnie]

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Yes Please!

 

[wsahtacrhon1]

........

 

[Misha_Davis]

I do

 

[tmmmbrrr]

http://judiketteler.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/girl-raising-hand.jpg

i gotta save that link

 

[MissJW]

In our household I'm the one who does the spanking as a rule BUT with one exception - clit spanking. Damn it's delicious and a nice way to warm me up when in certain mood.

Sometimes I ask for it but quite often hubby brings it up himsel, as he's learned to read my body so well. I've noticed he tries his luck by using a bit more force while working me with his fingers and if I react to it more than usual he knows to go for it. Usually he slaps me all the way to an orgasm, which is one of the most intense feelings ever. Mixing pain and pleasure through those snappy hits really ignites my brain. Plus it leaves me feeling like my pussy is burning and gaping open, as I need to be fucked so badly immediately after!

 

[kismet999]

clit spanking

Do you have any suggestions on how to initiate clit spanking for a couple that has never done it? I always wonder about doing it but never seem to be in a position to pull it off.

 

[MissJW]

Do you have any suggestions on how to initiate clit spanking for a couple that has never done it? I always wonder about doing it but never seem to be in a position to pull it off.

I don't know if you asked me, but I'll answer anyway! I checked your profile and it seems like you're a guy, so I'll answer from that perspective.

Firstly it depends what do you do in general. Are you open about this stuff? Does she enjoy spanking in general? If you answered yes and yes, then just ask.

I wouldn't suggest you attack the clit on your own, cos clit spanking really, really hurts. You could do like my hubby does; when I'm really hot and extra passionately into it, he rubs his fingers on me increasingly harder. That way he can read my body and knows immediately how I respond to his harder touch. If your lady seems to be into it, you can evolve the hard rubbing into tapping. Don't push too far unless the situation takes HER, otherwise just stay doing it lightly and then talk about it later. Ask her how she felt.

Oh and it helps if you have your face close to pussy when you rub/tap/spank. It makes it more intimate and hotter for her and you can actually see what you're doing.

 

[Lazy_lay]

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When I have been spanked, I instantly got hard as a rock. Being put naked over a girl's lap, bottom up, waiting. Anxiety and aroused and nervous and excited all at the same time.

And knowing that the spanking is just the start!

Mmmm.... love it!

 

[EroticMasseur]

I had a lady friend who enjoyed being spanked. I introduced her to spanking with a butt plug in. She was ecstatic over that. I was always careful not to hit near where the end of the plug protruded. Always used my hand with a medium smack. We would end with me kissing her warmed behind and then usually I ended up servicing her orally. She came very hard during those sessions.

 

[sassylass66]

Yes Please!!!

 

[MissJW]

When I have been spanked, I instantly got hard as a rock. Being put naked over a girl's lap, bottom up, waiting. Anxiety and aroused and nervous and excited all at the same time.

And knowing that the spanking is just the start!

Mmmm.... love it!

Now that's a good boy right there!

 

[5watcher]

I don't know if you asked me, but I'll answer anyway! I checked your profile and it seems like you're a guy, so I'll answer from that perspective.

Firstly it depends what do you do in general. Are you open about this stuff? Does she enjoy spanking in general? If you answered yes and yes, then just ask.

I wouldn't suggest you attack the clit on your own, cos clit spanking really, really hurts. You could do like my hubby does; when I'm really hot and extra passionately into it, he rubs his fingers on me increasingly harder. That way he can read my body and knows immediately how I respond to his harder touch. If your lady seems to be into it, you can evolve the hard rubbing into tapping. Don't push too far unless the situation takes HER, otherwise just stay doing it lightly and then talk about it later. Ask her how she felt.

Oh and it helps if you have your face close to pussy when you rub/tap/spank. It makes it more intimate and hotter for her and you can actually see what you're doing.

Thank you JW for your open honest advice. I will have to try this and see where it goes

 

[jackofthedawn]

When I have been spanked, I instantly got hard as a rock. Being put naked over a girl's lap, bottom up, waiting. Anxiety and aroused and nervous and excited all at the same time.

And knowing that the spanking is just the start!

Mmmm.... love it!

I've never been spanked, but it's a major fantasy of mine. I would love to be in a relationship with a woman how spanked me regularly--not hard, but often--not as punishment, but just for our mutual enjoyment and to remind me of my place.

 

[londonfemme]

only gently

 

[Cdn_Couple]

Yes if the mood is right.

 

[ReadyOne]

Do you have any suggestions on how to initiate clit spanking for a couple that has never done it? I always wonder about doing it but never seem to be in a position to pull it off.

Don't spank her clit.

Rub/massage her vulva, the whole mound between her legs.

Pat the vulva gently with you cupped hand, centering it in your palm.

As she becomes very aroused, her lips will open up exposing her clit hood and inner lips -- her slit.

Keep gently spanking. Move the starting position of your hand up a slight bit. You want to end up with your middle finger falling into her slit as your hand lands against her vulva.

When she fully opens, her clit itself will be exposed. As you remove your hand to ready the next blow, drag your finger up across the clit.

Your goal is the point where, if she were masturbating, she would be furiously rubbing her clit. That's when you can start aiming to land you finger directly against it.

Again, far better to be too gentle than too hard. Patience, and the time will cum when she wants firm contact with her clit.

Then pick up your rhythm and she will cum for you.

 

[Deleted member 861104]

hmmm...

Any women interested in discussing this further.... let me know....

 

[kingkoll]

smacking a girl in te ass can be a lot of fun.especially bending her over something and pulling her hair while doing it