Who do you think of when . . .

[Kandi]

Who do you think of . . .
Now, admit it, you sometimes think of someone else when making love to your partner (assuming 'you' are in a relationship that's lasted longer than a Seinfeld spinoff). It's not even like you're cheating, or wanting to cheat. It's just a natural way to keep the fires alive after you've boffed the same person for a while -- your mind wanders looking for fertile ground.

Who is it you think of in those moments?

 

[Wiggles]

I don't really think of Anyone else. I've tried the Famous movie star imaginings, but it doesn't do anything for me. I'll sometimes imagine different situations, just to hike up the speed a little bit. But usually just looking at his face will do it for me. But we're just rounding up on two years though, so I don't know if that's enough time to get tired of fucking somebody?

 

[lobito]

The produce lady at the corner store. She supplies me with only the best veggies.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

I can honestly say that I have never thought of another person while haveing sex.

 

[seulreveur]

I sometimes think of a certain 'cyber' friend...

 

[SweetBrat73]

Ok first off...how long does it take to get tired of fucking the same person??? Been about 2 years for me and my SO and I've never thought of anybody else while having sex...but our sex is wonderfull!!! I have had boring partners before...never thought about anybody else then either...thought about what I had to do the next day though...wash clothes, do dishes, pick the kids up from school early and take them to a doctor appointment...

 

[Guest]

really

fly and wiggles -- really?

now you're making me and my friends feel abnormal

i don't think it shows any disrespect at all for my partner,
it's actually a devise to make the sex that much hotter.
and it certainly doesn't take two years for us to fall
into ruts with someone. have you asked your lovers
if they ever fantasize about someone else. nawwww,
maybe you shouldn't do that.

btw, wiggles, i miss your old av, it was very hot,
was it you?

 

[Kandi]

that was me after getting bumped

 

[Scabbers]

Who is it you think of in those moments?

I might find myself thinking of you, with that av and all. woohoo.

 

[luv2tvl69]

Who do you think of . . .
Now, admit it, you sometimes think of someone else when making love to your partner (assuming 'you' are in a relationship that's lasted longer than a Seinfeld spinoff). It's not even like you're cheating, or wanting to cheat. It's just a natural way to keep the fires alive after you've boffed the same person for a while -- your mind wanders looking for fertile ground.

Who is it you think of in those moments?

I can honestly say I never think of anyone else while making love. The only thing on my mind when i am with Dryfus is Dryfus. We are good together and he makes me feel so incredible.

I did however (pre-dryfus) think of someone/something else when I was having a one night stand with a guy I met at a bar that was a huge mistake. I was just thinking how I couldnt wait for it to be over and to get out of there and how terrible the experience was.

 

[perks]

sometimes, I think about ducks, australian ones.

 

[Kandi]

thanks all

i'm getting an education here

everyone i know (myself included)
are FREAKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Kandi]

don't get me wrong

mostly, of course, i think of my partner
and so should you --
but when there's just not enough fuel in the tank
to get maximum combustion
what's wrong with some visual aids?

 

[Bindii]

I don't have have fantasies about anybody else when I make love to my husband, all my fantasies are about him. You might think this is strange, but I have tried to put thoughts of other men et in my mind and it does nothing for me whatsoever.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

Re: really

fly and wiggles -- really?

now you're making me and my friends feel abnormal

sorry Kandi wasn't trying to misslead you, my answer was intended as a joke.

I can honestly say that I have never thought of another person while haveing sex.

I've never had sex, hence the reason I can honestly say it...
(I guess knowing that part of information would have made the joke funnier) I didn't realise you were a newbie

sorry for the misslead.

 

[Art]

Okay, I'm weird, but I think of the one I am with. I don't go to bed with dogs, so I love seeing the naked woman I am having the sex with! So, I think of her. I never could get into this thing about thinking I was with Cindy Crawford or something.

 

[SilverVeil]

I have never thought of someone else, but I have thought of different scenes or stories before. Ones that really made me wet and horny when I read things in them.

 

[Wiggles]

Re: really

btw, wiggles, i miss your old av, it was very hot,
was it you?

Maybe I'll put it up in a little bit, I like the inch worm too though. It's got my eyebrow raise going on.
It wasn't me, I wish it was!
I like your Av too Kandi, You're very beautiful and brave for putting yourself up there.

 

[JaymesBlond007]

Very rarely do I feel the need to visualize someone other than my partner. I really focus on what I'm doing, what she's doing, what sounds she is making, and so on. So my mind is a little busy to be wandering off, thinking of other people.

and if that doesn't work then I just look in the mirror at the side of my bed, and DAMN do I look good! Whooooo hooo!!!!

 

[Black_Bird]

sometimes, I think about ducks, australian ones.

I am yet to get her to think about crows...

Fuck a Duck!

 

[Andreina]

i usually dont think at all while im at it... my mind is so taken up by the feelings and sensations i have to concentrate not to wake the whole neighbourhood

 

[MidnightAngel]

Lately, it's been my chiropractor. He's a body-builder, and he's very sexy.

OMG....I'm just *so* twisted........

 

[Kandi]

Midnight

we love twisted
that's actually the only reason we're here

well, that and avoiding a real job

 

[girl]

Put me in the category of not necessarily thinking about other people, but other scenarios. Sometimes they involve my partner, sometimes they don't. Just depends on what mood I'm in really.

girl

 

[Gilly Bean]

My hubby and I have been together for 5 years, married for 4 this summer. He has never been with anyone else, though I had before we met. I have never imagined someone else in a physical sense. Hmm.. how to explain that? Well, my hubby and I are both avid online RP'ers on a game we own. We have several char's each, and those char's are usually together romantically, married in some cases. At night, we sometimes RP those chars, and in that instance, it's the char who I have on my mind, but essentially, my hubby IS that char. Does that make sense?