Which emotions unleash intense sexual passion?

[erosman]

Does emotion unleash your most intense sexual passion? If so, which emotion?
Earlier this week I was emotionally overwhelmed one morning on my way to work. There's a blind man that I occasionally see at a busy intersection. I've been touched by this man before, but this day would be different. I started noting my feelings as I proceeded to work. Unable to concentrate on my job, I stopped to put my feelings on paper in the form of a poem. It was emotionally draining!
That night, I read the poem for my family. The emotion in my interpretation was like an artesian well. I sobbed uncontrollably.After dinner and sparring with our teenagers,my wife and I made love with an intensity and abandonment that has left hot embers of desire still scorching my thoughts.
Thus my question: Do certain emotions unleash an intense sexual passion for you? If so, which emotion(s)?

 

[tigerjen]

emotions

good question you've got.....

I have to say it would be happiness for me....happy
in terms of "I haven't see you for a real long time let's
have some naughty fun" type of deal....

I think also sadness......I remember after being upset
and crying I was comforted by a lover and we just
kissed...then proceeded to slowly make love.

my 2 cents

Tigerjen

 

[Elizabeth]

Pure desire does it for me. To see it in another person is arousing to the highest degree. Not exhibiting lust but to want to please someone. To make them the highest priority. To want to make love like you really are one person. By showing that you are totally open to fufilling them is the greatest thing.

 

[CeceliaSkye]

which emotions unleash intense sexual passion in you?

This is an excellent question... I would have to say all emotions unleash sexual passion in me, some more intense than others.
It's an in the moment thing... I think too, when a man and woman are willing to be emotionally honest with one another... that bond and willingness opens portals of passion we are not even aware of in our more sedate moments...
When one is angry.. sexual passion is primal.. harsh.. very intense and so destressing...
When one is happy sexual passion takes on an almost bubbly effervescent feeling...
Sadness or vulnerable emotion will bring out a melting soulful kind of passion...
Many are afraid of their emotions... but when we not only embrace them, but also express them sexually or otherwise, they become like the lover, rather than like the enemy...

 

[juicylips]

Funerals and Weddings

More goes on after funerals and wedding than most people know.

With a funeral, we want to reaffirm how alive we are and hold those closest to us a little closer.

Weddings, I am not so sure about it. Maybe it's the booze that talks, But I have heard lots of stories about after the reception fucking and I guess also during the reception for that matter

Cassidy

 

[erosman]

Re: which emotions unleash intense sexual passion in you?

This is an excellent question... I would have to say all emotions unleash sexual passion in me, some more intense than others.
It's an in the moment thing... I think too, when a man and woman are willing to be emotionally honest with one another... that bond and willingness opens portals of passion we are not even aware of in our more sedate moments...
When one is angry.. sexual passion is primal.. harsh.. very intense and so destressing...
When one is happy sexual passion takes on an almost bubbly effervescent feeling...
Sadness or vulnerable emotion will bring out a melting soulful kind of passion...
Many are afraid of their emotions... but when we not only embrace them, but also express them sexually or otherwise, they become like the lover, rather than like the enemy...

This an excellent answer! I can't say that I've experienced sexual passion at the hand of all my emotions. I guess there's still a few things left to learn. By the looks of the responses, my guess is that we men aren't as comfortable with this topic. Nothing to conquer?

 

[IA951]

Re: Re: which emotions unleash intense sexual passion in you?

This an excellent answer! I can't say that I've experienced sexual passion at the hand of all my emotions. I guess there's still a few things left to learn. By the looks of the responses, my guess is that we men aren't as comfortable with this topic. Nothing to conquer?

I'll be honest and tell you that I am not real comfortable with this subject.
I suppose that stems from not ever having experienced sexual passion,
I always wanted to, it just has not come to pass yet.
To answer your question, it's almost always the more negative emotions that stir desire in me.
I'm think I've been "imprinted".
I tend to link violence with desire,
with sex.
Might explain my interest in sadism.

 

[erosman]

Re: Funerals and Weddings

More goes on after funerals and wedding than most people know.

After thinking about this, you're right. I've had some memorable
moments after emotional events like weddings and funerals.Mostly a 'melting soulful kind of passion' as CeceliaSkye mentioned above. I think that there's a little 'emotional exhibitionist' in all of us!

 

[juicylips]

Re: Re: Re: which emotions unleash intense sexual passion in you?

I'll be honest and tell you that I am not real comfortable with this subject.
I suppose that stems from not ever having experienced sexual passion,
I always wanted to, it just has not come to pass yet.
To answer your question, it's almost always the more negative emotions that stir desire in me.
I'm think I've been "imprinted".
I tend to link violence with desire,
with sex.
Might explain my interest in sadism.

I hope you experience real sexual passion. Maybe it would help your "links" go in another direction.

Cassidy,
who thinks a little violence goes well with sex..

 

[erosman]

Re: Re: Re: which emotions unleash intense sexual passion in you?

I'll be honest and tell you that I am not real comfortable with this subject.
I suppose that stems from not ever having experienced sexual passion,
I always wanted to, it just has not come to pass yet.
To answer your question, it's almost always the more negative emotions that stir desire in me.
I'm think I've been "imprinted".
I tend to link violence with desire,
with sex.
Might explain my interest in sadism.

I think that a number of people, and not just males , link violence with desire, and I think that you're probably exactly right that it is 'imprinted'. But, I think you're openness to admit your discomfort is a good start to experiencing sexual passion. Being able to project one's emotional passion (i.e. anger, fear.etc.) into sexual passion is probably 'imprintable' as well. Just loosen the cuffs a little . Good luck!

 

[IA951]

Being honest might be a step in the right direction towards experiencing
sexual passion, I am not optimistic though. There are some personal stumbling blocks before I can get to that. I can losen the cuffs all I want, hell I could even take them off, it's just that I'm afraid something will come back to bite me in the ass.

 

[erosman]

I'm afraid something will come back to bite me in the ass.

Something or someone might. But the fear of that can make for a solitary existence. Unmasking oneself emotionally is risky. Rejection and humiliation are real hurts. But, any open relationship has the capacity for pain. It's only when we trust, that we show we are trustworthy.

 

[katherina]

Something or someone might. But the fear of that can make for a solitary existence. Unmasking oneself emotionally is risky. Rejection and humiliation are real hurts. But, any open relationship has the capacity for pain. It's only when we trust, that we show we are trustworthy.

It's nice to see that there is a man out there that has a clue.

 

[Guest]

It's nice to see that there is a man out there that has a clue.

*blushing* "Thank you! Thank you, ma'am!"( in my best Elvis impersonation) I don't know about a 'clue', my VCR still flashes 12:00. How about saying a little more about how you feel. No one will bite you...well ...OK...No one will bite hard...really hard, I mean

 

[erosman]

damn!

Sorry about the unregistered in that last reply...I'll get the hang of this one of these days!

 

[Guest]

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[erosman]

I'm sorry this got so long. I didn't mean for it to be that way, just that the words kept coming. It also felt good to write this. Thank you, erosman. [/B]

No need to apologize, that was beautiful! Thanks for the great snapshot you've given us into your emotions and passion. I particularly appreciated your insights into your mother's passing.
Great job of transparency!

 

[FlamingoBlue]

Try these on for size:

1. Hunger, whether from a lack of sex in general or a need to be close to a particular person.
2. Vulnerability, especially after a failed relationship or the death of a sexual partner.
3. Drug induced lust, especially those which intensfy the sexual moment.
4. Wanton desire for a particular person. 5. A desire to expand an already itimate relationship.

That's it, from me, in a nutshell.

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