Where is the daily bitch thread when you need it?

[raven2]

Just couldn't find it and I am having a really bad day. Lost my cell (finaly found it again later). My knee surgery, which was doing well, is definitely more swollen and puffy today (maybe did too much)or inflamed or infected. But talked to Dr and he did not seem too concerned about it. And to top it all off, My body has chosen this morning to have a gout attack in the foot of the leg I had surgery on. So it is all swollen and very sore. At least it was on the one I am trying to keep up, because if it was on the other, I wouldn't be able to move around. Sheesssh Sorry about the venting.

 

[Vixandra]

Wow, all I can bitch about is how my thighs are all tensed from shinai fighting yesterday.

 

[Chicklet]

speaking of cell-phones i encountered a first yesterday when my friend dropped hers in my toilet...

 

[jadefirefly]

Do we have a thread specifically for "My boyfriend, who was the center of my world and meant more than anything to me, decided without warning and after promising that everything was okay, to leave me this week and now refuses any and all contact with me", or does that fall under the Bitch Thread too?

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Do we have a thread specifically for "My boyfriend, who was the center of my world and meant more than anything to me, decided without warning and after promising that everything was okay, to leave me this week and now refuses any and all contact with me", or does that fall under the Bitch Thread too?

awww miss jade sweety...gentle hugssssss..... awwwww hunny ..so so sorry to hear this ....sighs
pm me IF and when you want to talk

 

[jadefirefly]

I'm finding that being a bitter, cynical bitch really helps. I've only had one breakdown so far.

Impressive, isn't it, how he spent the better part of a year helping me get over being a bitter, cynical bitch and be more trusting and open, and then manages to undo all that in less than a day? I think that's got to be some sort of a record.

 

[Maxell46]

I opened the mail yesterday afternoon to find my mortgage has been increased by $330 a month $#%^ because of tax increases here in the land of high tax increases
WTF? My taxes are now nearing $10,000 a year!
The house is a tiny brick cape built in 1938...my taxes have trippled in 11 years !!!!!
But Long Island does have such lovely fucking crooked ass politicians who will suck your wallet dry ...then tax ya some more!
The thought of moving has actually entered my mind...I won't but this place is getting rediculous to live here.

Sorry about everyone elses problems ! Perfect timing for a bitchin thread

Cell phone in a toilet made me laugh! I've dropped mine in my coffee cup while driving a few times but have yet had to fish one out of my toilet.

 

[Mrs.P]

Damn! That's a big hike!! Wanna start a commune?

 

[Hisbabydoll26]

speaking of cell-phones i encountered a first yesterday when my friend dropped hers in my toilet...

Don't ask me how..my mother has done that with two phones!

 

[Hisbabydoll26]

Do we have a thread specifically for "My boyfriend, who was the center of my world and meant more than anything to me, decided without warning and after promising that everything was okay, to leave me this week and now refuses any and all contact with me", or does that fall under the Bitch Thread too?

*hug* Hmm...do we have a bastard thread?

 

[raven2]

Do we have a thread specifically for "My boyfriend, who was the center of my world and meant more than anything to me, decided without warning and after promising that everything was okay, to leave me this week and now refuses any and all contact with me", or does that fall under the Bitch Thread too?

I am really sorry . But this is the right place for it.

 

[alice_underneath]

My boyfriend, who was the center of my world and meant more than anything to me, decided without warning and after promising that everything was okay, to leave me this week

* hugs and more hugs, Miss Firefly *

I know how that feels, and I am so sorry for your pain.

Isn't he serving in Iraq at the moment? If so, then perhaps he is confused, frightened, stressed, frustrated...... and making decisions that he would not if he were here in the States.

I mention this not to make excuses for him, but rather in an attempt to ease your bitterness. He is not a god, just a guy..... and a guy living in extremely stressful conditions at the moment.

and now refuses any and all contact with me

Based on my observations of what happens in the wake of a typical breakup, I'd say that he is actually being kind in refusing all contact with you - at least until you have found a new SO.

Many people attempt the "we'll just be friends" thing. And what ends up happening is that one or both of them desperately hangs on to whatever hope and pleasure they can obtain through the prolonged (though technically 'uncommitted') contact. The result: it takes one or both of them a lot longer to move on.

Nevertheless, I'm sure it is terribly frustrating for you not to have closure with him. If I understood you correctly, he never really talked about why he made this decision, or what's going on in his head where you are concerned. I do believe he owed you that before he left, and I'm sorry that he let you down.



Sincerely,

Alice

 

[Alt]

Damn! That's a big hike!! Wanna start a commune?

Where do I apply?

 

[graceanne]

Do we have a thread specifically for "My boyfriend, who was the center of my world and meant more than anything to me, decided without warning and after promising that everything was okay, to leave me this week and now refuses any and all contact with me", or does that fall under the Bitch Thread too?

Oh, honey. *hugs* I'm so sorry.

I spent most of last night in the ER with a friend of mine. She's sick and had gotten BADLY dehydrated. Not to mention that she wasn't keeping down any of her meds (she has rheumatoid AND osteo arthritis) she was having some serious withdrawls. Then I had to get up early this morning to take her daughter to school. (She was watching my kids last night.) *yawn* I WANNA GO BACK TO BED!

 

[brioche]

I can't do anything about any of this stuff. It does truly suck.
But in response to the thread title, I did resurrect the Bitch thread.
And we could start a Bastard thread, I think, but it would have to be an equal opportunity thread - male and female asses. Maybe the asshole thread? Hmm.

 

[graceanne]

I can't do anything about any of this stuff. It does truly suck.
But in response to the thread title, I did resurrect the Bitch thread.
And we could start a Bastard thread, I think, but it would have to be an equal opportunity thread - male and female asses. Maybe the asshole thread? Hmm.

Hm. How about Bitches and Bastards? hehe Sounds like a soap opera. And next . . . Bitches and Bastards, a day time drama. (dum, dum, duuuuuuuum)

 

[Mrs.P]

Where do I apply?

This commune is by invite only and is currently at its Max

[I hate damned typos!]

 

[FurryFury]

Just couldn't find it and I am having a really bad day. Lost my cell (finaly found it again later). My knee surgery, which was doing well, is definitely more swollen and puffy today (maybe did too much)or inflamed or infected. But talked to Dr and he did not seem too concerned about it. And to top it all off, My body has chosen this morning to have a gout attack in the foot of the leg I had surgery on. So it is all swollen and very sore. At least it was on the one I am trying to keep up, because if it was on the other, I wouldn't be able to move around. Sheesssh Sorry about the venting.

*HUGS*

I'm sorry!

Fury

 

[FurryFury]

speaking of cell-phones i encountered a first yesterday when my friend dropped hers in my toilet...

LMAO!

Fury

 

[FurryFury]

Do we have a thread specifically for "My boyfriend, who was the center of my world and meant more than anything to me, decided without warning and after promising that everything was okay, to leave me this week and now refuses any and all contact with me", or does that fall under the Bitch Thread too?

*HUGS and HUGS*

Damn I'm so sorry!

Fury

 

[FurryFury]

I opened the mail yesterday afternoon to find my mortgage has been increased by $330 a month $#%^ because of tax increases here in the land of high tax increases
WTF? My taxes are now nearing $10,000 a year!
The house is a tiny brick cape built in 1938...my taxes have trippled in 11 years !!!!!
But Long Island does have such lovely fucking crooked ass politicians who will suck your wallet dry ...then tax ya some more!
The thought of moving has actually entered my mind...I won't but this place is getting rediculous to live here.

Sorry about everyone elses problems ! Perfect timing for a bitchin thread

Cell phone in a toilet made me laugh! I've dropped mine in my coffee cup while driving a few times but have yet had to fish one out of my toilet.

I'm sorry to hear that! That would PISS me off BIG time!

If you try sometimes you can get that tax assessment changed. You can go before the board and ask for them to re-evaluate. You can include your own data. I've done it before. When you live in an area that have a lot of really expensive houses this sort of thing tends to happen.

Fury

 

[Alt]

This commune is by invite only and is currently at its Max

*kicks dirt*

 

[FurryFury]

Oh, honey. *hugs* I'm so sorry.

I spent most of last night in the ER with a friend of mine. She's sick and had gotten BADLY dehydrated. Not to mention that she wasn't keeping down any of her meds (she has rheumatoid AND osteo arthritis) she was having some serious withdrawls. Then I had to get up early this morning to take her daughter to school. (She was watching my kids last night.) *yawn* I WANNA GO BACK TO BED!

You are such a great friend!

*HUGS*

(I wish I could go back to bed too.)

Fury

 

[Hisbabydoll26]

Hm. How about Bitches and Bastards? hehe Sounds like a soap opera. And next . . . Bitches and Bastards, a day time drama. (dum, dum, duuuuuuuum)

*giggling*

 

[raven2]

Oh, honey. *hugs* I'm so sorry.

I spent most of last night in the ER with a friend of mine. She's sick and had gotten BADLY dehydrated. Not to mention that she wasn't keeping down any of her meds (she has rheumatoid AND osteo arthritis) she was having some serious withdrawls. Then I had to get up early this morning to take her daughter to school. (She was watching my kids last night.) *yawn* I WANNA GO BACK TO BED!

I like the idea of Bitches and Bastards. It certainly would fit the soap opera mold. Or maybe a new RPG. You know, every one playing doms or subs in BDSM world.

Also, Gracie, if you want to go back to bed after that night, I would be very willing to go with you and give you some big cuddling.