DVS
A ghost from your dreams
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DVS said:

jadefirefly said:Do we have a thread specifically for "My boyfriend, who was the center of my world and meant more than anything to me, decided without warning and after promising that everything was okay, to leave me this week and now refuses any and all contact with me", or does that fall under the Bitch Thread too?
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Evil_Geoff said:Sorry to hear about the break-up jade. {{{{{HUG}}}}}
I suppose I could offer up some cliche's and trite responses, but I won't. I'll just say that here you will find friends who will listen to you vent, commiserate with you, and share their cookies.
You _will_ share some cookies with jade, won't you gracie?
Hopefully you will have friends here that will make you laugh too.
Like me. My biggest bitch lately is that my undies keep crawlin' up the crack of my ass. I hate it! I like my tighty whities but damn, if they keep it up I'm going commando, cause I hate butt floss!

Evil_Geoff said:Like me. My biggest bitch lately is that my undies keep crawlin' up the crack of my ass. I hate it! I like my tighty whities but damn, if they keep it up I'm going commando, cause I hate butt floss!

raven2 said:Just couldn't find it and I am having a really bad day. Lost my cell (finaly found it again later). My knee surgery, which was doing well, is definitely more swollen and puffy today (maybe did too much)or inflamed or infected. But talked to Dr and he did not seem too concerned about it. And to top it all off, My body has chosen this morning to have a gout attack in the foot of the leg I had surgery on. So it is all swollen and very sore. At least it was on the one I am trying to keep up, because if it was on the other, I wouldn't be able to move around. SheessshSorry about the venting.
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babiesmiles said:Sorry I answer your post only now but I really wanted reassure you about the swollen thing .
Although we had a very different kind of surgery and every case is different from another I can tell you that the swelling after a leg surgery is rather usual .
I woke up with a sore swelling leg for a month after the surgery , and still now after more than two months from the accident it still happens , sometimes with an unexpected force which keeps me still for hours.
First times I worried and called the doctor , but he just like your doc didn't seem concerned at all, besides he told me the more I tried to walk ( even not putting too much weight on the wounded leg first times) the more the foot which is the pump that allows the blood to rise up , would have allowed the natural restoration of the blood circulation and fixed the swelling .
Today for exemple I woke up with a completely blocked knee and I didnt want to go to the physiotheraphy , but the doc suggested me some manoeuvre to do to unblock it and never dare to miss my session of rehab .
I did as he suggested and I must say today was a special day at rehab ..... but it is another thread ....![]()
I hope today things are going a lot better for you![]()
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raven2 said:Thanks for the encouragement. I am familiar with rehab (although it has been on shoulders and ankles) and know that swelling is expected and can be there some days and not on others. It was that the amount seemed to be excessive ( but I had used it too much that day) and there was some heat in the area and so I wanted to check witht the Dr because infection in a joint is never a good thing. I will check the workout thread for your special news because I am sure that it is going to be great!![]()
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jadefirefly said:*peeks in*
Just wanted to grab a cookie I left lyin' on the floor. I think I'm not allowed to hang out in here anymore, 'cos I haven't got anything to bitch about right now.
*schoolgirl giggles*
Sometimes it's good to be a stubborn, persistent brat....![]()
jadefirefly said:*peeks in*
Just wanted to grab a cookie I left lyin' on the floor. I think I'm not allowed to hang out in here anymore, 'cos I haven't got anything to bitch about right now.
*schoolgirl giggles*
Sometimes it's good to be a stubborn, persistent brat....![]()

FurryFury said:And now I'm even more confused.
*pouts*
Fury![]()
graceanne said:LOL I think that she bugged her boyfriend until he talked to her and they made up.

jadefirefly said:You've sort of got it right, Fury.![]()
Yes, C. shared personal info, but it was personal info about 'us', not just me. I can't be angry at him for telling his friend why he was angry with me, right?
He (the idiot, not C) claims a good reason for it. The logic is convoluted, the kind only conceivable by a military intel dork. I'll spare y'all the twists and turns of it.
And in the long run, yep, I bugged C enough till he talked back, and then talked back some more, and things are oodles better now. No more creepy PM's, either.![]()
*grabs a cookie and skittles away*

jadefirefly said:You've sort of got it right, Fury.![]()
Yes, C. shared personal info, but it was personal info about 'us', not just me. I can't be angry at him for telling his friend why he was angry with me, right?
He (the idiot, not C) claims a good reason for it. The logic is convoluted, the kind only conceivable by a military intel dork. I'll spare y'all the twists and turns of it.
And in the long run, yep, I bugged C enough till he talked back, and then talked back some more, and things are oodles better now. No more creepy PM's, either.![]()
*grabs a cookie and skittles away*

leeroy jenkins said:How many people have this trouble, I share the most of the bills with my step dad's girlfriend, except for my internet and thier phone for dail up, and she wants me to give her my half of the money so she can pay the bills on line when most bills can be paid 2 miles from where we live. I go into the places that way I get monies worth customer service wise and just now I got threatened by my step dad because I like to do it this way, instead of giving her the money.
graceanne said:Do you not trust her with your half of the money?
leeroy jenkins said:Its not a trust thing, just that I dislike her and have no respect for her either. I stay in my room and let her and Bob, my stepdad, have the whole house. She at one time said if I gave her reciepts to bills that would be good enough so if its not then I guess I will be kicked out, only real loss is that I would go off line for a bit.
graceanne said:I'd say if you don't like her and all that, that you should move. Why live with someoney ou can't stand? Sounds like stress waiting to happen.
It also sounds like she's looking for a fight. Maybe she's trying to force you to leave, or your step dad to kick you out.
leeroy jenkins said:That is why I stay locked in my room away from her and him, I would like to but its all comes down to money as always, looking to increase my share but that will still take some time too.
graceanne said:Yeah, and moving's spendy. Well good luck getting out from under their roof.