Where do you find your sexual partners, boyfriends/girlfriends, gay/straight?

[human_male]

Would you say you've done well in your life where that is concerned? What do you attribute that to? Looks, attitude, luck?

Do you find opportunities just come to you, or must you make a concerted effort to find them? If you are making an effort to pull, what do you do and where do you go?

What are some of the consequences you've had to face and do you regret it?

Ta very much.

 

[webber1998]

My first experiences I didn't have to look for or seek out, they just seemed to find me.

Now, well, I won't say that I'm choosy, I just know what I like.

I've actually met someone off of here, a few years back.

I have used outpersonals and met someone there.

And I've met people through friends that I know.

I just think you have to make yourself available and make the effort...

To further that just a little, if you are looking for a one time thing, I hear craigslist works quite well as do some of the other sites. But it sounds like you are looking for perhaps something a little more then that ??

 

[human_male]

My first experiences I didn't have to look for or seek out, they just seemed to find me.

Now, well, I won't say that I'm choosy, I just know what I like.

I've actually met someone off of here, a few years back.

I have used outpersonals and met someone there.

And I've met people through friends that I know.

I just think you have to make yourself available and make the effort...

To further that just a little, if you are looking for a one time thing, I hear craigslist works quite well as do some of the other sites. But it sounds like you are looking for perhaps something a little more then that ??

Thanks very much for replying. I'm beginning to think I'm shunned by the gay board.

I'm curious... can you tell me how those early experiences that you didn't have to seek out happened, and were they with girls or other guys.

I didn't mean to give the impression that I'm looking for anything in particular, I'm curious about other people. But I'm actually looking for just about anything! A one time thing would be nice, a IM friend would be nice, an ordinary friend would be nice, a girlfriend would super nice. Just something lol.

 

[webber1998]

Thanks very much for replying. I'm beginning to think I'm shunned by the gay board.

I'm curious... can you tell me how those early experiences that you didn't have to seek out happened, and were they with girls or other guys.

I didn't mean to give the impression that I'm looking for anything in particular, I'm curious about other people. But I'm actually looking for just about anything! A one time thing would be nice, a IM friend would be nice, an ordinary friend would be nice, a girlfriend would super nice. Just something lol.

My first experience was with a guy. A neighborhood friend. A bunch of us were having a sleep over and sometime during the night, I was awoken by his hands inside of my shorts. Things just went from there. We were secret friends for a number of years.

My first experience with a girl came a little later. I was at a friends party at his house. Another friends girlfriend came on to me and well....

When I was in California a few years later, I frequented some gay friendly areas with a friend of mine. Things were kind of easier then...

The last guy that I was with, I met through a gay friend.

I don't want to make it sound like I have slept with LOTS of people...more like had lots of sex with a small number of people.