when you have arguements what are they about ?

[sexy-girl]

when you argue with your loved one what is it about usually


we seem to argue about time spent apart she works and im very greedy with her ... she also feels guilty about being apart from me and miss'es me when she is which gets her feeling frustrated and we sometimes argue then


also how do you make up (the better bit of this thread) ... i get gifts often or surprises often we use sex to make up too

 

[lavender]

 

[sexy-girl]

hehe we havent got into those arguements yet lavender probably will when we have our own place

 

[Bubblegum *sugarless*]

Who sleeps in the wet spot.

Seriously, money was always a huge issue with me and my ex.

Then there is always that "I do more than you in this relationship" argument.

 

[Laurel]

We don't argue about anything important. We'll have tepid discussion on politics (we agree on too much for them to get too heated). We don't argue about money because neither of us is all that possessive of it. We have different bank accounts, but the bills are split up evenly and that's that.

The only time we argue is when we're both tired or hungry - and then it'll be about the stupidest stuff. We don't have any big "issues". We pretty much agree in general on all the important stuff. Boring, huh?

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[Quiet Smiles]

We've been together 21 years, and we just never argue. We may disagree on issues, but it's almost never come to the point of an argument. After we'd been married for several years, and still hadn't had a single argument, we decided not to worry about it, who cares if we're "abnormal"!

I guess it's that we are so compatible, and each willing to give and take in just the right areas - the things I feel strongly about, he's not that opinionated on, and the issues that are big for him, I'm willing to give on - if that makes sense?

 

[lobito]

Nothing important enough to be mad at each other about. Also, like you SG, flowers do the trick everytime, for bringing back a smile to the face, and temporary disgust goes flying by the wayside. By the way, it works both ways. We BOTH love sunflowers, and so that's the special way for each of us.

Sex on the other hand is just a fringe benefit of making up, maybe a vital part of making up even.

 

[beckbabe]

Bratcat's list works for me. I'd also add clothes on the floor. . . a major issue for me.