What's your experience with bisexual MMFs?

[Submissive_Gabriel]

I recently got on Feeld and #Open to try to slowly (and safely) fulfill fantasy of having a couple share me in a bisexual threesome.

I'm kinda curious about couples who have added a guy, or the guys who've been the third. How was it? What kind of tips do you have for a newbie?

 

[elizabeth15]

I can help a little here.

1. Make sure your sexual skills are up to par. If someone’s gone through the trouble of arranging a threeway they want a guarantee that your strongest skill isn’t just thrusting in and out. Are you up to date on anatomy, positions for multiple people, how fucking multiple people is different from fucking one? Do you know what your own desires and limits are?

2. Approach sex as a team sport. You’re no longer chasing your own own orgasm, the three of you collectively are trying to please each other. Don’t be afraid to work with your partners.

3. Communication is really important. Do you know what everyone’s limits are? How to stop things if needed? How much room you have to push the envelope if that’s what your partners are looking for? How much guy on guy action do both of you want? What are your policies around STI safety? Also, as you’re going along give feedback, receive feedback, ask questions, check in, give and receive praise, have some laughs. You can’t really check in too much but you can definitely check in too little and lose your invite for next time.

4. Be able to hold a conversation. With group sex there’s a little more downtime and less of a straight line from start to finish. There’s more retime for breaks, snacks, clean up, getting supplies, etc. if you’re at ease and can talk to your partners like people during those times, you can really make yourself stand out.

If you want some examples, I’ve heard from a number of people that Owen Gray and Small Hands videos on Pornhub are examples of the kind of teamwork they’d like to see (those threeways are more straight than bi, but the general idea holds).

Good luck and I hope you have fun!